My handsome brothers and sisters.... Pls I have an issue dat has been bothering me of recent... Pls I need ur sincere advice and views..... To the matter... Am beginning to get worried about d fact dat am mostly attracted by older ladies and I feel attracted to them too.. I always see younger ladies below my age as my younger sisters and feel can't do anything with dem or be in a relationship with dem.. D truth is dat all d ladies I ve dated right from secondary school days to university and now are all older Dan me.. Infact my current Babe is 31..pls wat might be d curse because I now feel nature wants me to marry an older lady... Pls wat might be d curse?

And d second issue is dat am always attracted to ladies from akwaibom am igbo Imo state precisely
If I ve dated 10girls then 8 are akwaibom am not complaining but am jus wondering y d attraction from dem and y nature brings me to them? Ur advice and views pls

It's either you have a spiritual Or psychological problem.
Either you see a pastor or you see a psychologist for counselling.

Bros....ur calling is clear ur winning ticket is older + akwa ibom, shikena!!!

Your case na spiritual

Guy marry young lady simple. am 31. My wife must be below 26yrs. I have sound religious and scientific back up

Well. . . . I also get attracted to igbo girls. . . If there are 10 girls I like, 7 are most times IGBO. . . . You are perfectly normal

don't mind d poster above me!!!! is nature most of my friends are Yoruba guys and I love them so? just pick d right gal and settle down happiness is what matter most not age

Regarding your first question, it's not wrong to be sexually attracted to older women. We as humans are all wired differently, sexually. The same thing can't be appealing to everyone.

Your sexual attraction is perfectly normal. Don't listen to any one who would tell you that it's a spiritual problem, because it's not.

What matters is if you want to marry older women. Do you? If you are okay with marrying an older woman and you don't see it as awkward, then go for it.
But if you don't want to marry an older woman, definitely, in the course of time, you'd find a lady around your age who you will be attracted to you and who would look "mature" enough for you.

Omo na winsh oo.. Go pray.

Na women dy quick grow pass their age,na dem still dy quick old
My guy,if the age difference isnt that big,there is noting wrong

There's notin lyk nature wnts u 2 marry an older woman, it maybe dat u av a bad taste wen it comes 2 selecting women, there r younger n fresher fish 2 b caught out there jst dat u avn't seen it.

As 4 d calabar gals, maybe u lyk hw dey do d tin since according 2 Nigerians they r d best when it cums 2 dat. Dats y u lyk dem well well

Ur case pass NL bro

Older as in 5-10 yrs age difference,then its cool. Older as in 11-25 yrs age difference,hmmmmm,visiting TB Joshua should be your new year resolution

darlingtonIIV:
It's either you have a spiritual Or psychological problem.
Either you see a pastor or you see a psychologist for counselling.

really... Noted.... Jus my feelings

prideofscience:
Guy marry young lady simple. am 31. My wife must be below 26yrs. I have sound religious and scientific back up

pls can I get more reason y it's wrong

joliyp:
don't mind d poster above me!!!! is nature most of my friends are Yoruba guys and I love them so? just pick d right gal and settle down happiness is what matter most not age

I think am more happy with them d respect and understanding is always there... Mostly dey feel my maturity and looks is greater than my age dey don't seem to bliv my age

obiorathesubtle:
Omo na winsh oo.. Go pray.

really.... Noted?

When u find a small ibo gal just gimme her full name and phone number. I get one baba he go magnetize her mind to u shaperly and all those old gal go park off. Just make sure say her number correct.

But as u still dey enjoy urself now weh u dey single, I get one mama 4 my side here, her age go don reach 69. She dey find bobo and stays alone. Shey make I give u her number? This is no joke she go treat u nicely.

Decker:
Regarding your first question, it's not wrong to be sexually attracted to older women. We as humans are all wired differently, sexually. The same thing can't be appealing to everyone.

Your sexual attraction is perfectly normal. Don't listen to any one who would tell you that it's a spiritual problem, because it's not.

What matters is if you want to marry older women. Do you? If you are okay with marrying an older woman and you don't see it as awkward, then go for it.
But if you don't want to marry an older woman, definitely, in the course of time, you'd find a lady around your age who you will be attracted to you and who would look "mature" enough for you.

tanx a lot.... On point brother well noted

StefanSalvatore:
There's notin lyk nature wnts u 2 marry an older woman, it maybe dat u av a bad taste wen it comes 2 selecting women, there r younger n fresher fish 2 b caught out there jst dat u avn't seen it.

As 4 d calabar gals, maybe u lyk hw dey do d tin since according 2 Nigerians they r d best when it cums 2 dat. Dats y u lyk dem well well

noted brother.... Jus dat most times dey do d razuling funny though... Am not a freak on sex dnt really fancy it.. Jus dat d tribe girls are more humble and caring.. Cook wella too..

Hannysmilez:
Older as in 5-10 yrs age difference,then its cool. Older as in 11-25 yrs age difference,hmmmmm,visiting TB Joshua should be your new year resolution

tanx dear... Jus around 5-7 yrs difference at most

wizaro:
tanx a lot.... On point brother well noted

You are welcome.