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Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 7:44pm On Dec 27, 2015
My handsome brothers and sisters.... Pls I have an issue dat has been bothering me of recent... Pls I need ur sincere advice and views..... To the matter... Am beginning to get worried about d fact dat am mostly attracted by older ladies and I feel attracted to them too.. I always see younger ladies below my age as my younger sisters and feel can't do anything with dem or be in a relationship with dem.. D truth is dat all d ladies I ve dated right from secondary school days to university and now are all older Dan me.. Infact my current Babe is 31..pls wat might be d curse because I now feel nature wants me to marry an older lady... Pls wat might be d curse?

And d second issue is dat am always attracted to ladies from akwaibom am igbo Imo state precisely
If I ve dated 10girls then 8 are akwaibom am not complaining but am jus wondering y d attraction from dem and y nature brings me to them? Ur advice and views pls
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by darlingtonIIV(m): 7:48pm On Dec 27, 2015
It's either you have a spiritual Or psychological problem.
Either you see a pastor or you see a psychologist for counselling.

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Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by shegxi(m): 7:50pm On Dec 27, 2015
Bros....ur calling is cleargringringringrin ur winning ticket is older + akwa ibom, shikena!!!

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Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by kaziblake(f): 7:51pm On Dec 27, 2015
Your case na spiritual grin
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by prideofscience: 7:53pm On Dec 27, 2015
Guy marry young lady simple. am 31. My wife must be below 26yrs. I have sound religious and scientific back up
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by Dekatron(m): 7:53pm On Dec 27, 2015
Well. . . . I also get attracted to igbo girls. . . If there are 10 girls I like, 7 are most times IGBO. . . . You are perfectly normal
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by joliyp(f): 7:54pm On Dec 27, 2015
don't mind d poster above me!!!! is nature most of my friends are Yoruba guys and I love them so? just pick d right gal and settle down happiness is what matter most not age
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by Nobody: 7:57pm On Dec 27, 2015
Regarding your first question, it's not wrong to be sexually attracted to older women. We as humans are all wired differently, sexually. The same thing can't be appealing to everyone.

Your sexual attraction is perfectly normal. Don't listen to any one who would tell you that it's a spiritual problem, because it's not.

What matters is if you want to marry older women. Do you? If you are okay with marrying an older woman and you don't see it as awkward, then go for it.
But if you don't want to marry an older woman, definitely, in the course of time, you'd find a lady around your age who you will be attracted to you and who would look "mature" enough for you.
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by obiorathesubtle: 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2015
Omo undecided na winsh oo.. Go pray.
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by Khd95(m): 8:05pm On Dec 27, 2015
Na women dy quick grow pass their age,na dem still dy quick old
My guy,if the age difference isnt that big,there is noting wronggrin
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by StefanSalvatore: 8:27pm On Dec 27, 2015
There's notin lyk nature wnts u 2 marry an older woman, it maybe dat u av a bad taste wen it comes 2 selecting women, there r younger n fresher fish 2 b caught out there jst dat u avn't seen it.

As 4 d calabar gals, maybe u lyk hw dey do d tin grin since according 2 Nigerians they r d best when it cums 2 dat. Dats y u lyk dem well well
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by Nobody: 8:42pm On Dec 27, 2015
Ur case pass NL bro
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by Hannysmilez(f): 9:04pm On Dec 27, 2015
Older as in 5-10 yrs age difference,then its cool. Older as in 11-25 yrs age difference,hmmmmm,visiting TB Joshua should be your new year resolution
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 9:49pm On Dec 27, 2015
darlingtonIIV:
It's either you have a spiritual Or psychological problem.
Either you see a pastor or you see a psychologist for counselling.
really... Noted.... Jus my feelings
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 9:49pm On Dec 27, 2015
prideofscience:
Guy marry young lady simple. am 31. My wife must be below 26yrs. I have sound religious and scientific back up
pls can I get more reason y it's wrong
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 9:51pm On Dec 27, 2015
joliyp:
don't mind d poster above me!!!! is nature most of my friends are Yoruba guys and I love them so? just pick d right gal and settle down happiness is what matter most not age
I think am more happy with them d respect and understanding is always there... Mostly dey feel my maturity and looks is greater than my age dey don't seem to bliv my age
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 9:52pm On Dec 27, 2015
obiorathesubtle:
Omo undecided na winsh oo.. Go pray.
really.... Noted?
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by JudgementHammer: 9:53pm On Dec 27, 2015
When u find a small ibo gal just gimme her full name and phone number. I get one baba he go magnetize her mind to u shaperly and all those old gal go park off. Just make sure say her number correct.

But as u still dey enjoy urself now weh u dey single, I get one mama 4 my side here, her age go don reach 69. She dey find bobo and stays alone. Shey make I give u her number? This is no joke she go treat u nicely.
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 9:53pm On Dec 27, 2015
Decker:
Regarding your first question, it's not wrong to be sexually attracted to older women. We as humans are all wired differently, sexually. The same thing can't be appealing to everyone.

Your sexual attraction is perfectly normal. Don't listen to any one who would tell you that it's a spiritual problem, because it's not.

What matters is if you want to marry older women. Do you? If you are okay with marrying an older woman and you don't see it as awkward, then go for it.
But if you don't want to marry an older woman, definitely, in the course of time, you'd find a lady around your age who you will be attracted to you and who would look "mature" enough for you.
tanx a lot.... On point brother well noted
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 9:57pm On Dec 27, 2015
StefanSalvatore:
There's notin lyk nature wnts u 2 marry an older woman, it maybe dat u av a bad taste wen it comes 2 selecting women, there r younger n fresher fish 2 b caught out there jst dat u avn't seen it.

As 4 d calabar gals, maybe u lyk hw dey do d tin grin since according 2 Nigerians they r d best when it cums 2 dat. Dats y u lyk dem well well
noted brother.... Jus dat most times dey do d razuling funny though... Am not a freak on sex dnt really fancy it.. Jus dat d tribe girls are more humble and caring.. Cook wella too..
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by wizaro(m): 9:58pm On Dec 27, 2015
Hannysmilez:
Older as in 5-10 yrs age difference,then its cool. Older as in 11-25 yrs age difference,hmmmmm,visiting TB Joshua should be your new year resolution
tanx dear... Jus around 5-7 yrs difference at most
Re: Please Help A Brother Out!!! by Nobody: 9:59pm On Dec 27, 2015
wizaro:
tanx a lot.... On point brother well noted

You are welcome.

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