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Oliviaarims:
Ermm. Not yet. Maybe when I'm reborn.

thass okay...wen you ready just yarn me FTC on fourth page tho....kikikikikikiki

AyamConfidence:
thass okay...wen you ready just yarn me FTC on fourth page tho....kikikikikikiki

Lol. It doesn't count.

Oliviaarims:
Lol. It doesn't count.

FTC NA FTC... Doesnt matter the page

Oliviaarims:
Lol. Ain't begging. Be gone!

Actually, before a lady can say that, she must possess 3 things..

bloodyBLOGGER:
Oloshos now complain when they call them for their job interview.

lwkmd

Djboosting:
Actually, before a lady can say that, she must possess 3 things..

Which are?

Since it is not real connection, it might be the guy is just trying to know whether you guys are staying close to each other.

pet4ril:
Its a matter of choice, because the guy will not go and drag the gal to visit him if the gal refuse........ We ladies should also learn to respect ourselves

very good... many will deny this

MRBrownJ:
the reason many men are doing it is because there are many women who will gladly go, viewing such proposal as a vacation... the important fact here is: did you tell him exactly why you turned down his offer?

btw if you think it is ok to have some dude (you barely know) travel from Abuja to come see you, then i see no difference between this and his request.

Boss...

MRBrownJ:
ok so what you mean is that ultimately the whole friendship/affair (or whatever) is about YOU and your wishes, without caring one bit for that person's wishes? it sounds more like a nervous interview rather than a date between 2 people who like each other. isnt it 50/50 in your world? what about meeting the guy half way in this quest for affection?

ladies, it must favor dem o.. they don't care if the guy is comfortable or not

Oliviaarims:
Win-win situation for men. How selfish! Free cookie, too. Imagine that.

U just about summed it up. They want a win win situation. Develop a relationship or get a free coochie. That's why girls won't fall for it. Because they'd most likely be at the losing end.

can still be a win win for ladies too.
which one is free cookie? won't the lady get free dick too??
How about the quality time that will be spent together etc

Odunharry:
ladies, it must favor dem o.. they don't care if the guy is comfortable or not

ahahahaha and then when i bring a point that favour us men, they will quickly say we are selfish, as if they think of our feelings when they do what they do.

which one is free cookie? won't the lady get free dick too??

dont even start on the free cookie bit, obviously having sex with us men is an activity that is "only" beneficial to us (and not women), and therefore it is a favour from women, which needs to be rewarded/repaid in some kind.

MRBrownJ:
ahahahaha and then when i bring a point that favour us men, they will quickly say we are selfish, as if they think of our feelings when they do what they do.



dont even start on the free cookie bit, obviously having sex with us men is an activity that is "only" beneficial to us (and not women), and therefore it is a favour from women, which needs to be rewarded/repaid in some kind.

Lol.. ladies are selfish in nature.. from observations and what people say..
Ladies want all the good qualities in a man yet they don't bother to check themselves if they have some of those qualities.

It's sad many women reason like that.. they think they are doing guys a favor by offering the cookie when in reality many enjoy it more..Infact it's a two way thing, they both enjoyed each other and nothing annoy me most when a lady says she was use by a man when in reality she used the man.
The man give cash for upkeep, get a new phone for her, recharge cards, gifts etc which we all know that many of them let say more than 50% enjoy this benefits not to Talk of constant hitting and drilling of her cookie for their satisfaction yet they claim bn used.
What do some of them offer, prolly gift once a while, washing and cooking and maybe cash in few occasions which we all know.

I will say some are just pretenders.

Odunharry:
Lol.. ladies are selfish in nature.. from observations and what people say..
Ladies want all the good qualities in a man yet they don't bother to check themselves if they have some of those qualities.

It's sad many women reason like that.. they think they are doing guys a favor by offering the cookie when in reality many enjoy it more..Infact it's a two way thing, they both enjoyed each other and nothing annoy me most when a lady says she was use by a man when in reality she used the man.
The man give cash for upkeep, get a new phone for her, recharge cards, gifts etc which we all know that many of them let say more than 50% enjoy this benefits not to Talk of constant hitting and drilling of her cookie for their satisfaction yet they claim bn used.
What do some of them offer, prolly gift once a while, washing and cooking and maybe cash in few occasions which we all know.

I will say some are just pretenders.

such women can never carry their own weight in a r/ship, and those that do, are gems! a lot of these demanding women have nothing to offer a man, apart from the coochie (its like their everything), so i certainly understand why To THEM, handing it over is a big deal.

funny enough, these women dont know that there is coochie AND coochie...and that some cootie cat have better value than others. here is MBJs chart:

- EMERGENCY COOCHIE:
thats the toto that isnt appealing, sometimes even dangerous, not the freshest, mileage is worst than a Lagos taxi, tightness inexistent, the gal is possibly ugly but she has a great aass or tittays, going down on her is NOT recommended, she is not a good acrobat in the bedroom, often complains as you hit it, 2 condoms must be used at all times, she never cuums and instead fakes it badly all the time; but good enough when desperate men are h0rny/drunk and need to quickly bust a nut, she stays for an hr or two maximum.
aka club gal, friendly givers, bootay call, FWB etc

- COMMON/ORDINARY COOCHIE:
good toto, the gal is a 5, the body is a 7, smell is ok, tightness is limit, you can go down on her after she passed the inspection, she isnt the best acrobat in the bedroom but she can easily be upgraded after intensive training, she sleeps over but leaves early in the morning, making her cuum is optional, condom use mandatory
aka new gf

- SEASON COOCHIE:
thats the same coochie as the above "common/ordinary" coochie but because you only hit it once in a while, it always feel like tear rubber.
aka long distance r/ship

- TOP SHELF COOCHIE:
clean and fresh toto, low mileage, the gal is beautiful, she has a nice body and likes to please you, heavy pre-intimacy is a must, she can "dance" well in the bedroom and you wanna treat her with care and affection; you know how to handle this toto perfectly and she usually cuum once, no condom used with this toto.
aka wife/serious gf

...and then finally there is the UNICORN COOCHIE: thats the toto that common men only dream about, and that they meet once in a lifetime (if they are lucky). such toto is always wet and ready, feels like honey when you lick it, not too tight but equally wrapping securely around your congo, the gal is a 10 in the face and the body is BANGING, she is a tiger in the bedroom and GENUINELY loves nothing more than to please her man each and every way he so desires; she is a freak and wouldnt mind swinging from the chandelier in a catwoman outfit, just to spice the night; she is VERY active and can use the kitchen top or outdoor to play, open minded and with a lot of stamina; she is submissive and knows when to switch and take charge; and last but not least, condom is not used with such multi orgasmic punany while cuuming inside her feels magical!
aka that p0rnstar you fantasize about

the sad part is that many women are clueless about which coochie they have!

MRBrownJ:
such women can never carry their own weight in a r/ship, and those that do, are gems! a lot of these demanding women have nothing to offer a man, apart from the coochie (its like their everything), so i certainly understand why To THEM, handing it over is a big deal.

funny enough, these women dont know that there is coochie AND coochie...and that some cootie cat have better value than others. here is MBJs chart:

- EMERGENCY COOCHIE:
thats the toto that isnt appealing, sometimes even dangerous, not the freshest, mileage is worst than a Lagos taxi, tightness inexistent, the gal is possibly ugly but she has a great aass or tittays, going down n her is NOT recommended, she is not a good acrobat in the bedroom, often complains as you hit it, 2 condoms must be used at all times, she never cuums and instead fakes it badly all the time; but good enough when desperate men are Hot/drunk and need to quickly bust a nut, she stays for an hr or two maximum.
aka club gal, friendly givers, bootay call, FWB etc

- COMMON/ORDINARY COOCHIE:
good toto, the gal is a 5, the body is a 7, smell is ok, tightness is limit, you can go down on her after she passed the inspection, she isnt the best acrobat in the bedroom but she can easily be upgraded after intensive training, she sleeps over but leaves early in the morning, making her cuum is optional, condom use mandatory
aka new gf

- SEASON COOCHIE:
thats the same coochie as the above "common/ordinary" coochie but because you only hit it once in a while, it always feel like tear rubber.
aka long distance r/ship

- TOP SHELF COOCHIE:
clean and fresh toto, low mileage, the gal is beautiful, she has a nice body and likes to please you, heavy pre-intimacy is a must, she can "dance" well in the bedroom and you wanna treat her with care and affection; you know how to handle this toto perfectly and she usually cuum once, no condom used with this toto.
aka wife/serious gf

...and then finally there is the UNICORN COOCHIE: thats the toto that common men only dream about, and that they meet once in a lifetime (if they are lucky). such toto is always wet and ready, feels like honey when you lick it, not too tight but equally wrapping securely around your congo, the gal is a 10 in the face and the body is BANGING, she is a tiger in the bedroom and GENUINELY loves nothing more than to please her man each and every way he so desires; she is a freak and wouldnt mind swinging from the chandelier in a catwoman outfit, just to spice the night; she is VERY active and can use the kitchen top or outdoor to play, open minded and with a lot of stamina; she is submissive and knows when to switch and take charge; and last but not least, condom is not used with such multi orgasmic punany while cuuming inside her feels magical!
aka that p0rnstar you fantasize about

the sad part is that many women are clueless about which coochie they have!

oh lawd ...You killed it.
mod close thread, this summarises it all.. Everybody go home

Odunharry:
can still be a win win for ladies too.
which one is free cookie? won't the lady get free dick too??
How about the quality time that will be spent together etc

It would only be a win win situation for the lady if she's got some amount of feelings for the guy in question, such that even if she ends up sleeping with him, then she must have probably wanted to and may not regret it.
Quality time where? For me, love attraction nd respect are a big part of what would make the time I spend with anyone quality..
So if she's spending time with some random dude, I don't see how that can pass as quality time.

daretodiffer:
How hard is it to say ‘NO' and ask him never to bring it up again? In the worst scenario, cut contact.


Clearly the approach works on most so put the blame on our women, if not they won't have kept trying. I don't think this is an issue at all but it can be a disappointing experience.

Ohhh. Saying NO isn't the problem at all. Nobody's going to be forced, most certainly. I was just expressing my concern over the way some guys make some point and ridiculous invitations, and perhaps expect it would be honoured

MRBrownJ:
ahahahaha and then when i bring a point that favour us men, they will quickly say we are selfish, as if they think of our feelings when they do what they do.



dont even start on the free cookie bit, obviously having sex with us men is an activity that is "only" beneficial to us (and not women), and therefore it is a favour from women, which needs to be rewarded/repaid in some kind.

Lol. That's not true.

Odunharry:
Lol.. ladies are selfish in nature.. from observations and what people say..
Ladies want all the good qualities in a man yet they don't bother to check themselves if they have some of those qualities.

It's sad many women reason like that.. they think they are doing guys a favor by offering the cookie when in reality many enjoy it more..Infact it's a two way thing, they both enjoyed each other and nothing annoy me most when a lady says she was use by a man when in reality she used the man.
The man give cash for upkeep, get a new phone for her, recharge cards, gifts etc which we all know that many of them let say more than 50% enjoy this benefits not to Talk of constant hitting and drilling of her cookie for their satisfaction yet they claim bn used.
What do some of them offer, prolly gift once a while, washing and cooking and maybe cash in few occasions which we all know.

I will say some are just pretenders.

Hmmmm. Let's get this straight. Gone are the days when girls try to pretend they don't enjoy sex. Guys no longer believe this. That's just some blatant lie they've tried to tell themselves, perhaps because they feel it's what society expects of a woman. But at the end of the day, I believe it's also true that the men seem to derive more satisfaction from it, they being the "aggressor" (if u know what I mean)... and also for the fact that they tend to reach orgasm more easily than the women. Studies have shown that a number of women very rarely reach that sort of explosive orgasm that comes naturally to men. Some women, they say, never experience it in a life time.
And it is also true that women find it easier to abstain from sex. A woman can stay months and even years without being sexually active, but how easily can this be said of a man?
But men love to be adventurous and pride themselves in silly sexual conquests. This is where the average girl begins to wail that she was used and dumped. It all boils down to the deception. A guy pretends to love her, starts acting lovingly towards her, showers her with gifts and all to further endear her to him, and some girls being really fickle, or perhaps overly emotional fall for this and believe they've found love. And then the guy sets out to achieve his purpose. He starts demanding for sex and pretending to love her all the more. Then she starts considering and makes herself believe that he really does love her, she lies to herself that sleeping with him isn't such a huge deal, after all he loves her.. And perhaps the sex would act as a greater bond. And finally the deed is done. she sleeps with him. And having done it, a further reoccurrence wouldn't be a problem.

But as long as the dude never truly loved her in the first place, everything crashes in no time. He wants to explore other territories. And the unsuspecting girl becomes heartbroken and realises she'd only been used.

MRBrownJ:
such women can never carry their own weight in a r/ship, and those that do, are gems! a lot of these demanding women have nothing to offer a man, apart from the coochie (its like their everything), so i certainly understand why To THEM, handing it over is a big deal.

funny enough, these women dont know that there is coochie AND coochie...and that some cootie cat have better value than others. here is MBJs chart:

- EMERGENCY COOCHIE:
thats the toto that isnt appealing, sometimes even dangerous, not the freshest, mileage is worst than a Lagos taxi, tightness inexistent, the gal is possibly ugly but she has a great aass or tittays, going down n her is NOT recommended, she is not a good acrobat in the bedroom, often complains as you hit it, 2 condoms must be used at all times, she never cuums and instead fakes it badly all the time; but good enough when desperate men are Hot/drunk and need to quickly bust a nut, she stays for an hr or two maximum.
aka club gal, friendly givers, bootay call, FWB etc

- COMMON/ORDINARY COOCHIE:
good toto, the gal is a 5, the body is a 7, smell is ok, tightness is limit, you can go down on her after she passed the inspection, she isnt the best acrobat in the bedroom but she can easily be upgraded after intensive training, she sleeps over but leaves early in the morning, making her cuum is optional, condom use mandatory
aka new gf

- SEASON COOCHIE:
thats the same coochie as the above "common/ordinary" coochie but because you only hit it once in a while, it always feel like tear rubber.
aka long distance r/ship

- TOP SHELF COOCHIE:
clean and fresh toto, low mileage, the gal is beautiful, she has a nice body and likes to please you, heavy pre-intimacy is a must, she can "dance" well in the bedroom and you wanna treat her with care and affection; you know how to handle this toto perfectly and she usually cuum once, no condom used with this toto.
aka wife/serious gf

...and then finally there is the UNICORN COOCHIE: thats the toto that common men only dream about, and that they meet once in a lifetime (if they are lucky). such toto is always wet and ready, feels like honey when you lick it, not too tight but equally wrapping securely around your congo, the gal is a 10 in the face and the body is BANGING, she is a tiger in the bedroom and GENUINELY loves nothing more than to please her man each and every way he so desires; she is a freak and wouldnt mind swinging from the chandelier in a catwoman outfit, just to spice the night; she is VERY active and can use the kitchen top or outdoor to play, open minded and with a lot of stamina; she is submissive and knows when to switch and take charge; and last but not least, condom is not used with such multi orgasmic punany while cuuming inside her feels magical!
aka that p0rnstar you fantasize about

the sad part is that many women are clueless about which coochie they have!

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MRBrownJ:
such women can never carry their own weight in a r/ship, and those that do, are gems! a lot of these demanding women have nothing to offer a man, apart from the coochie (its like their everything), so i certainly understand why To THEM, handing it over is a big deal.

funny enough, these women dont know that there is coochie AND coochie...and that some cootie cat have better value than others. here is MBJs chart:

- EMERGENCY COOCHIE:
thats the toto that isnt appealing, sometimes even dangerous, not the freshest, mileage is worst than a Lagos taxi, tightness inexistent, the gal is possibly ugly but she has a great aass or tittays, going down n her is NOT recommended, she is not a good acrobat in the bedroom, often complains as you hit it, 2 condoms must be used at all times, she never cuums and instead fakes it badly all the time; but good enough when desperate men are Hot/drunk and need to quickly bust a nut, she stays for an hr or two maximum.
aka club gal, friendly givers, bootay call, FWB etc

- COMMON/ORDINARY COOCHIE:
good toto, the gal is a 5, the body is a 7, smell is ok, tightness is limit, you can go down on her after she passed the inspection, she isnt the best acrobat in the bedroom but she can easily be upgraded after intensive training, she sleeps over but leaves early in the morning, making her cuum is optional, condom use mandatory
aka new gf

- SEASON COOCHIE:
thats the same coochie as the above "common/ordinary" coochie but because you only hit it once in a while, it always feel like tear rubber.
aka long distance r/ship

- TOP SHELF COOCHIE:
clean and fresh toto, low mileage, the gal is beautiful, she has a nice body and likes to please you, heavy pre-intimacy is a must, she can "dance" well in the bedroom and you wanna treat her with care and affection; you know how to handle this toto perfectly and she usually cuum once, no condom used with this toto.
aka wife/serious gf

...and then finally there is the UNICORN COOCHIE: thats the toto that common men only dream about, and that they meet once in a lifetime (if they are lucky). such toto is always wet and ready, feels like honey when you lick it, not too tight but equally wrapping securely around your congo, the gal is a 10 in the face and the body is BANGING, she is a tiger in the bedroom and GENUINELY loves nothing more than to please her man each and every way he so desires; she is a freak and wouldnt mind swinging from the chandelier in a catwoman outfit, just to spice the night; she is VERY active and can use the kitchen top or outdoor to play, open minded and with a lot of stamina; she is submissive and knows when to switch and take charge; and last but not least, condom is not used with such multi orgasmic punany while cuuming inside her feels magical!
aka that p0rnstar you fantasize about

the sad part is that many women are clueless about which coochie they have!

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MRBrownJ:
such women can never carry their own weight in a r/ship, and those that do, are gems! a lot of these demanding women have nothing to offer a man, apart from the coochie (its like their everything), so i certainly understand why To THEM, handing it over is a big deal.

funny enough, these women dont know that there is coochie AND coochie...and that some cootie cat have better value than others. here is MBJs chart:

- EMERGENCY COOCHIE:
thats the toto that isnt appealing, sometimes even dangerous, not the freshest, mileage is worst than a Lagos taxi, tightness inexistent, the gal is possibly ugly but she has a great aass or tittays, going down n her is NOT recommended, she is not a good acrobat in the bedroom, often complains as you hit it, 2 condoms must be used at all times, she never cuums and instead fakes it badly all the time; but good enough when desperate men are Hot/drunk and need to quickly bust a nut, she stays for an hr or two maximum.
aka club gal, friendly givers, bootay call, FWB etc

- COMMON/ORDINARY COOCHIE:
good toto, the gal is a 5, the body is a 7, smell is ok, tightness is limit, you can go down on her after she passed the inspection, she isnt the best acrobat in the bedroom but she can easily be upgraded after intensive training, she sleeps over but leaves early in the morning, making her cuum is optional, condom use mandatory
aka new gf

- SEASON COOCHIE:
thats the same coochie as the above "common/ordinary" coochie but because you only hit it once in a while, it always feel like tear rubber.
aka long distance r/ship

- TOP SHELF COOCHIE:
clean and fresh toto, low mileage, the gal is beautiful, she has a nice body and likes to please you, heavy pre-intimacy is a must, she can "dance" well in the bedroom and you wanna treat her with care and affection; you know how to handle this toto perfectly and she usually cuum once, no condom used with this toto.
aka wife/serious gf

...and then finally there is the UNICORN COOCHIE: thats the toto that common men only dream about, and that they meet once in a lifetime (if they are lucky). such toto is always wet and ready, feels like honey when you lick it, not too tight but equally wrapping securely around your congo, the gal is a 10 in the face and the body is BANGING, she is a tiger in the bedroom and GENUINELY loves nothing more than to please her man each and every way he so desires; she is a freak and wouldnt mind swinging from the chandelier in a catwoman outfit, just to spice the night; she is VERY active and can use the kitchen top or outdoor to play, open minded and with a lot of stamina; she is submissive and knows when to switch and take charge; and last but not least, condom is not used with such multi orgasmic punany while cuuming inside her feels magical!
aka that p0rnstar you fantasize about

the sad part is that many women are clueless about which coochie they have!

Oliviaarims:
Hmmmm. Let's get this straight. Gone are the days when girls try to pretend they don't enjoy sex. Guys no longer believe this. That's just some blatant lie they've tried to tell themselves, perhaps because they feel it's what society expects of a woman. But at the end of the day, I believe it's also true that the men seem to derive more satisfaction from it, they being the "aggressor" (if u know what I mean)... and also for the fact that they tend to reach orgasm more easily than the women. Studies have shown that a number of women very rarely reach that sort of explosive orgasm that comes naturally to men. Some women, they say, never experience it in a life time.
And it is also true that women find it easier to abstain from sex. A woman can stay months and even years without being sexually active, but how easily can this be said of a man?
But men love to be adventurous and pride themselves in silly sexual conquests. This is where the average girl begins to wail that she was used and dumped. It all boils down to the deception. A guy pretends to love her, starts acting lovingly towards her, showers her with gifts and all to further endear her to him, and some girls being really fickle, or perhaps overly emotional fall for this and believe they've found love. And then the guy sets out to achieve his purpose. He starts demanding for sex and pretending to love her all the more. Then she starts considering and makes herself believe that he really does love her, she lies to herself that sleeping with him isn't such a huge deal, after all he loves her.. And perhaps the sex would act as a greater bond. And finally the deed is done. she sleeps with him. And having done it, a further reoccurrence wouldn't be a problem.

But as long as the dude never truly loved her in the first place, everything crashes in no time. He wants to explore other territories. And the unsuspecting girl becomes heartbroken and realises she'd only been used.

vice versa...

Oliviaarims:
It would only be a win win situation for the lady if she's got some amount of feelings for the guy in question, such that even if she ends up sleeping with him, then she must have probably wanted to and may not regret it.
Quality time where? For me, love attraction nd respect are a big part of what would make the time I spend with anyone quality..
So if she's spending time with some random dude, I don't see how that can pass as quality time.

And why will a gal travel all the way if there's no connection or attraction?

oh lawd

Odunharry:
And why will a gal travel all the way if there's no connection or attraction?

oh lawd

Yea. That's where there's a problem. Some do it for whatsoever reason I don't know.

Oliviaarims:
Which are?

Actually it's not for under18.... Maybe when u reach the level, I can tell you...

But right now.. Be gone.

Djboosting:
Actually it's not for under18.... Maybe when u reach the level, I can tell you...

But right now.. Be gone.

U need to be flogged!

On this issue, only men with no good intention make such request and a lady who knows her worth and dignity should decline such request.

Of course there are exceptional cases won't rule that out.

Oliviaarims:
U need to be flogged!

Damn.. Don't you dare think about having sex right now...

Flogged?
I get it now that u're a 'dominatrix'.. U love being in charge during the mating process.

Gawd.. U're such a dirty mind. But there is a problem.. I'm a good guy, I'm shy talking about sex in the public *shrugs**
Let's talk about something more PG.

Djboosting:
Damn.. Don't you dare think about having sex right now...

Flogged?
I get it now that u're a 'dominatrix'.. U love being in charge during the mating process.

Gawd.. U're such a dirty mind. But there is a problem.. I'm a good guy, I'm shy talking about sex in the public *shrugs**
Let's talk about something more PG.

That wasn't funny.

MzPecs:
Seriously, guys are so fond of that rubbish and they say it like it's no big deal!

What's stopping such guy from travelling all the way from his location to the lady's location.

...and the funny part is, some of them will ask you to transport yourself all the way and they'll refund you when you come.

and some girls actually travel down to see the guy's. That's why they say girls have a stronger heart than some men

Oliviaarims:
That wasn't funny.

Wasn't meant to be.. but it doesn't matter anyway, cos a cute girl can be less fun when she's bored.

Oliviaarims:
OK, now I'm getting really concerned. Why do a lot of guys find it very easy to just ask a girl to travel down to see them? It's weird. They may have just been talking casually for a couple of days or at best weeks and sb starts making a very funny demand. Like, why the heck should a girl actually travel to visit some random dude at her own peril?

And these dudes pop the question so easily like it's no big deal at all. A girl could be in Delta, for instance, and a guy with whom she has no real connection with will be asking her to come down to Abuja. Is it some sort of joke question or they really do believe that it will be done? If really the guy's interested in meeting up, he's supposed to know that he's in a better place to be the one making the effort and not the other way round.

Perhaps, some ppl do it . But there's always going to be exceptions to everything and I daresay it's a really minute percentage who does things like that, so why do they still ask?

The thing is most guys are just shooting their shot and its allowed. Plus you girls can be really funny creatures because sometimes you even agree. At a certain age you also need to realize a lot of men just don't have time for ceremonies. They are extremely direct and it seems to take you ladies by surprise.

It should be an exception but remember we are in very very corrupt times and a lot of ladies are willing participants,

MRBrownJ:
i mean, you were clueless about why men did that so i gave you a possible reason... which makes a lot of sense. dont you women do things in your lives that are positive (aka win-win) solely for y'all? read again what you wrote earlier on, and tell me how this is beneficial to us men. women dont act any differently here.



BWAAAAAAAAAH!!! so developping a r/ship OR getting a free vacation (and some "good time" ) is wrong for women?! would you rather developping a r/ship OR getting free gifts and money (as you string the guy along)? at least women get something great from the male deal, what do men get from the female deal, if it doesnt work out?!

we must live on a different planet, a man flies you out to some fancy city, he wine and dine you, flirts with you, maybe even takes you shopping (thats the mumus out there) takes you to watch some movies, maybe dancing, treats you like the princess that you are, and in return he expects some warm affection that should come naturally that you will BOTH enjoy... and you see something wrong here?! if feelings aint mutual then fair enough, dont waste any time and excuse yourself 30mins into the date, et voila case closed.



bro, there are a few issues:
the rape/ritualist/kidnapping thingy in Nigeria is a big deal.... before a woman can decide to meet a guy she has to be very clear about her intentions. with the way many Nigerian men think, i dont think it is advisable for a lady to visit a guy at his home (that she aint feeling sexually like that). in the mind of many Nigerians, a gal that come to said guy's home is a confirmation that she wants sex... which is a completely wrong way of thinking imho. thats why women should stay away from men's place if they aint ready, and instead they should stay in hotels if they coming from other cities.

whoever has the means and desire to make the visit happen, should do so. but if a man spends money to bring a gal to his city, he expects to get closer (emotionally and physically) to that woman, to score some valuable points for their possible union, or just have some good time together. 1st visitation should happen when/where both are the most comfy to do so, but one thing is certain, they have to evolve (emotionally or physically) after that visit if not then thats a bad investment for the both of them.

also, there has to be a clear understanding between these two people before embarking on such journey as to what the purpose of the travel is. we men want to burn bridges and we have no problems having some bedroom acrobatics on the 1st weekend together... is that wrong really? it isnt to most, and it is all about being honest with what you desire. if the lady can afford it, she can pay for the hotel of her choice so that she is in control, at all time, as to where she stays and how things goes. furthermore, if she isnt down for any hanky panky then she should excuse herself from dinner/movies etc and go back to her hotel (or better yet, not come to visit at all). but we have to be clear on one thing: a man is not gonna fly a gal out just to watch her eat 10plates of amala and then kiss her good night.

so beforehand, women have to be realistic and ask themselves (and these men) the RIGHT questions... and these men have to be honest about their intentions from the get go.

Lmao the way a lot of girls operate baffles me at times. Reminds me of a girl that took an all expenses paid trip to Dubai and did not bother asking the financier for his motive. Of course the guy wanted to get busy while the girl feigned ignorance of his motives in his disappointment he left her stranded in another country. That is how crazy some girls can be.