₦airaland Forum

RHEMAA:
thank you. ilook forward to hearing from you.

Here we go(thelabishow@tvcontinental.tv)
her name is labi. Just explain everything to her
and you will see help coming your way

Vikky014:
hmmmm she is stubborn smehw. r u very sure she was nt raped

I took are words to be true.

HomoDroid:
The OP has provided a good opportunity for us to treat a matter of great public concern in Nigeria -RAPE!

I make bold to state that the GF must have experienced the most excruciating form of rape, and possibly been involuntarily initiated into the cult.

The Suggested remedies:
BF should gain the full confidence of GF enough to make her admit the truth - he could try by divulging his deepest secrets to her enough to give her confidence to reciprocate. He could also take steps to assure her he intends to spend the rest of his life her, up to possibly exchanging marital vows or formal engagement or introduction.
Next he should make her understand she is a tripartite being with Body, Soul and Spirit; let her appreciate the relative value, capacity and limits of each part of her. Then let her know the extent of damage and the healing process for the body and soul that has been violated/wounded.
He should help her appreciate the global growing nature of this problem of rape such that she should seize from self condemnation and instead grab the opportunity to gain strength and become a source of inspiration to other in her predicament.
They should both seek spiritual guidance and assistance to deliver the SOUL from the cage of rape and move forward together.
If necessary, he should sacrifice a lot of his time to be closer to her.
If she admits the rape and can identify some of the cultist, she should consider leaving their vicinity to prevent a feeling of helplessness.

I sympathize with your plight and wish you both a stronger union.

thank you

RHEMAA:
I took are words to be true.

ok. jst put her in prayers