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myfantasies:
Let me go nd look for a guy to toast

I am tired of waiting for guys to ask me out

Y do u keep deactivating to later come back with a different moniker?

LaurelP:
Bro she has accepted o.
Now aren't both of you supposed to keep the relationship alive and interesting?

But no. The typical Naija girl will still be playing games with you. Why agree when you obviously wouldn't commit to the relationship?

kinglekan:

Y do u keep deactivating to later come back with a different moniker?

oseod:
In reality I don't think guys were born with an extra set of balls to handle rejection.....
This shouldn't be a guy/girl thing.......we all hate embarrassment and rejection but we all take risks...its like a girl saying she's not going to compete for mbgn bcause she's afraid she wouldn't win or because she's afraid she doesn't look good on enough....

Believe me its the same thing............you have to conquer your fears and go for whatever it is you want..even if its a guy

myfantasies:
I just wanted something new for the new year

Okies. Happy New Year.

kinglekan:
Okies. Happy New Year.

Oliviaarims:
There's no point exaggerating. If she's interested, u only need to let her know and everything goes smoothly and easily from there. Not chasing like a dog.

keyzid:
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I can't imagine myself saying because a girl turned me down on just an ordinary request to be her friend sef, i won;t have to walk up to anyone of them again. Taar. You see what you like, you go for it. If you girls are claiming gender equality, then why put the mindset that the job of a guy is to woo and not vice versa.

Michellla:
I didnt see the thread.
Now concerning this, many guys here may disagree and claim that they love a confident woman who has the cojones to walk up to a guy and ask him out.
But this isn’t always the case. At the end of the day, let’s face it. All a girl has to do is drop a few signs and if a guy does like her back, he’ll probably pop the question even before the girl thinks it. It’s safer, and an easier way to get to know if a guy likes you, saves the embarrassment of a guy turning you down.

myfantasies:
Let me go nd look for a guy to toast
I am tired of waiting for guys to ask me out

wristbangle:
Smart ladies use all avenue to spring out love from real men through effective greenlight signals.

For any lady who sits back expecting MR. Right to chase her like dog may become single for life.

LaurelP:
My problem with most girls is not even asking them out.


My problem is what happens after you ask them out. When you have gone through the rigor of convincing and cajoling them to accept you, they still expect you to struggle to keep the relationship moving.
You must constantly call, text, visit, spend on them and not also forgetting birthdays, valentine, Xmas, new year and sometimes even pay school fees.

This is the idea of a relationship for a typical Nigerian girl. The guy must bear all the burden while the lady enjoys.
And I ask, what role do ladies play in a relationship?

Odunharry:
What kind of embarrassment? You call rejection embarrassment? Do you know aw many guys are bn turned down daily or are ladies prone to rejection?

A guy can be rejected its normal to you but for a lady its embarrassing? Are guys created to be embarrassed?

All I can see is a lady who fear rejection and isn't ready to Tak risk
Chaii.. una no go kill us wt laff