You guys don't seem compatible. You've only just listed you faults so far. I hope he dumps you soon.

evolg:
First issue: He bought a car without ur knowledge, it must have skipped his mind. Sorry!
Second issue: U dint get a new year msg frm him, probably network issues.
Moral of story: Ur nt jst dt important like you think.

hahahaha i no fit laf o,wicked nigga

petkruz:


[/s]I[s] love[/s] him[s] alot

[s][/s]you now love his money a lot you mean

OP. Are you seeking for advice or argument??

petkruz:


Sorry this comment is irrelevant because i'm very much boxed up too, i'm not a cheap lady looking for money.

na wash!!!

petkruz:


My dear I love u for this. Habaaaaaa 4years beef? Is it worth it? Why behave like a baby? Worst of all he refused to leave me alone.

No be you gt yourself... it seems u can now put up with his possessiveness now the cash is around (cos it seems ur bobo hold better Bread for pocket).


Or look for another rich guy.

petkruz:


It's simple. We dated,broke up, started again but he hasn't gotten over the past. Now that he's boxed up,he's paying back or atleast that's what I think he's doing.

What the heck is boxed up.. Its bucked up ... By the way why are U annoyed ? Is it ur fathers car he stole

Estharfabian:
Uh...she's sorry!
Whatever happened to second chances?
She fûcked up, big deal!!! Who doesn't

Guys dont easily let go of such a mistake

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

girlie...no vex but from d look of tinz u are just his side chick..he'll use and dump u...so read between d lines...

petkruz:


Is this the best you can offer?

chai see character. Even online i can still figure out ur kind of person without seeing you. My dear, truth be told, u don't deserve a boyfriend or companion. U are full of urself, simple.

All will be well. They are mostly aliens, if u are lucky enough to get a good one with a good heart that u have the hots for...keep him. All cards must be on the table though.


All will be well.

The Op seems to be a certified runs Girl!!

petkruz:


Then he should leave me alone. Why did he come back for a better relationship if he was still pained?

Revenge.

petkruz:


Then he should leave me alone. Why did he come back for a better relationship if he was still pained?

now this is where u r deceiving urself. U fell for his booby trap. He didn't come bak for a relationship as he made u bliv, he came to finish u.

petkruz:


It's simple. We dated,broke up, started again but he hasn't gotten over the past. Now that he's boxed up,he's paying back or atleast that's what I think he's doing.

He's reading this with me now...and said he wont talk about it`

Teespice:


why waste words when she has it all figured out.

LOL

petkruz:


Sorry this comment is irrelevant because i'm very much boxed up too, i'm not a cheap lady looking for money.

petkruz:


Since he decided to be proud I had to play along I didn't call simple

so he is suppose to call first abi? Ok show me d book wey u for see him name as the first caller for new year. Nonsense!

petkruz:


Since he decided to be proud I had to play along I didn't call simple

I hereby present you the headies award for the all time dumb post.

What if he was in a situation and desperately needed your help.
You truelly don't love him and surely you don't have any idea what love is.

pedrilo:
now this is where u r deceiving urself. U fell for his booby trap. He didn't come bak for a relationship as he made u bliv, he came to finish u.

My thoughts exactly! The guy don become bad guy after four years of serious training by his goons. Petkruz, follow your leg talk o. Dust your koi koi shoes and sare! Lol. But if you think you can salvage the relationship like LVG, wish you luck

1)You want to tell nairalanders that you are dating a car owner now.

2) My ex and some girls that I couldn't date sent me new year messages. I don't want to talk about my girl because she sent more than once. She made sure she was the first person to talk to me in 2016, she called, texted, and came.
You were there waiting for a guy to send you new year message. u no get respect!

3) I couldn't get the rest of the message.

petkruz:


My dear I love u for this. Habaaaaaa 4years beef? Is it worth it? Why behave like a baby? Worst of all he refused to leave me alone.

No no, he wouldn't leave till he gets you to swallow your words. Just pack and move one. He will never love you enough. he already knows you are a gold digger so he wouldn't trust you with his future.

why u always lying ?? beht you like them non chalant

daretodiffer:


Thirded! The first time I heard of this BS was a friend's. You seriosuly do not want to know her age.

@OP, who the hell do you think you are? You are in a relationship yet you expect your bf to do everything. I won't blame him if he ends up treating you like trash.

I thought dis was from a guy until I saw (F) beside ur name. Pls can we be friends?

Abegi you left him when he had nothing and now he has something so yes leave him and go flex or is it because he has saved to now own a car?

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

petkruz:

It's not that easy

It seems you're the one not letting him go

daretodiffer:


Thirded! The first time I heard of this BS was a friend's. You seriosuly do not want to know her age.

@OP, who the hell do you think you are? You are in a relationship yet you expect your bf to do everything. I won't blame him if he ends up treating you like trash.

You ma dear, have a good head on your shoulder! You kept it real! I owe you a kiss....

pcguru1:


Sorry dear we can't give advises based on 977 characters, I mean this is your life and it's a big decision in which YOU have to make, the ball is in your court.

However

1. He's not entitled to tell you what he wants to do with HIS own money, I wouldn't expect you to seek permission from him when it comes to spending YOUR own cash, dating and marriage are totally two different island FAR FAR from each other, a Wife is entitled to such privileges not a girlfriend.

2. Secondly not telling someone happy new year is not the end of the world, it only shows concern and thoughtfulness, I didn't tell my love ones happy new year, also that's a weird reason to break up with someone as in seriously........... :/

3. Thirdly if you feel he can't forgive based on what you did in the past, then he might never forgive in marriage, so the onus is upon you to determine if you want to stay or not. Sometimes what we do in the past comes to haunt us

TLDR; The decision making is yours to make, you know where the shoes fit or pinches or sh.it


Peace out

The reason why she is angry about the car is because he had no money too spend on her

Petkruz
You guys are into to much of mind games
Move on for your sanity

Lady, so many questions to answer in your post. Firstly, if the guy haven't made it and approached you again would you have accepted him? Don't you think you have betrayed his love and trust for leaving him when it was hard? Lemme tell you this, only a very few guys on this earth will not believe that if same occurrence of financial problem arises later in marriage you will still be faithful. Put yourself in his shoes and stop defending yourself in each advice being posted to you. M2C

petkruz:


Your opinion has been trashed in my dustbin

u lack manners. Obviously ur bf knows dis hence he treats u like trash.

petkruz:


I'v actually bought gifts worth 32k for an ex! I did all that shit in the past, u just have to be wise.

Abeg park well joor.
You did that for a rich ex that later broke your heart after chopping you silly.

Why didn't you buy gifts worth 32K for your boyfriend when he was broke.

petkruz:
Hey guys, i'm so angry right now i'm tempted to break up with the love of my life.

1) he didn't tell me he was saving to buy a car, he just drove to my compound and was looking at my face, I kept my cool.

2) My so-called boyfriend decided to call me today 3rd January and that's his first this year!! I didn't get any new year wishes. I confronted him, he apologised and all but ladies and gentlemen, the era of Men being non-challant is over.

Fine I did wrong years ago,but gone are the days when someone tries to pay back a sin I committed in my youthful restlessness.I have apologised,cried, begged, I became humble by force, I realised my mistake yet he hasn't gotten over the fact that I left him because he didn't have money when actually his possessiveness and lack of trust made me wanna always run out.

He can't be pained after 4years,its better I dump him now before he drops another bomb! But to be honest I do love him a lot, a whole lot. I'm angry and confused

My dear I love d way ur dude is actin cos my bitch bae will get 2wise wat u gettin ( when a guy broke ona think say na d end of d world. HELL NO