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BEFORE YOU DATE SOMEONE.
...Spur one another on toward love and good deeds.(Hebrews 10:24) NIV.
Here's some advice for makin ur dating experiences something u can feel good about afterwards.Not everyone is meant for us.Dating isn't jux a childs play,its a serious thing,its like a covenant,buh pple misuse it in the wrong way. I know no beta,but I created this lil piece myself to lead dat someone reading dis,deris always someone.and more of my piece are yet to come in my next episode.tnk u.

1. BE SPIRITUALLY PREPARED.
Talk to God while u are geting ready.Time spent before the mirror is important but time spent with God,is all important.This is neva more much to do when ur looking for dat someone to spend ur lyftym with.Its a great step to take.

2.TALK OPENELY ABOUT SEX BEFORE IT BECOMES AN ISSUE:
U gotta talk about this in the positve way.physical intimacy is a wonderful thing,but the Bible confines it to marriage where two pple are committed to one another.So think protectively and proactively.Genuine love doesn't say "if u loved me u would"... It says "I love you too much to take advantage of u or cause u pain or ask u to do something u feel is wrong and dat you will feel bad about tomorrow"..(Ist corinthians 13)

3.LIMIT THE TIMES YOU ARE ALONE.
A second alone is enuf to ruin ones destiny,it doesn't takea life tym.It can easily lead to things you will regret leta.When ur friends start saying they neva see u any more, chances are dat u are becomin too exclusive and setting yourself up to failure.Don't alwaz date as a couple,spend time in the company of others too.It even helps to boost ur relationships with pple out there.Dnt live together.you re not married yet.

4.DO IT RIGHT THIS TIME.
If you have been permissive in past relationships, don't be discouraged. "If we confess our sins,he is faithful nd just to forgive" . That means u kan start again with a clean slate. No tym is late.no time is erly eida.there is no end to anything except DEATH.

Av lernt dat de strongest relationships alwaz put God at de center.They strive to demonstrate de kinda love paul describes in 1st cornth 13.LETS MAKE A DIFFERENCE TODAY....tanks for reading!!! Estarkeyz!

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Nice writeup

Do it right this time. How many times is one expected to do it b4?

Number 4 though.

anyone putting God before all has absolutely NO business dating and should educate themselves on that bible 1st.

Nice guys should keep taking note...some fellas think dating is just black and white.

RadicallyBlunt:
Do it right this time. How many times is one expected to do it b4?

...its unlimited.do it ryt this tym means u shuld correct any past mistakes u must have made in ur past relationships,and things can change too.it doesn't matter how many times things must have gone wrong,u kan always correct them.yet though,don't get drowned in mistakes foreva,rada try avoidin doze ones dat can ruin ur destiny. Hop u undastnd?tnk u

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