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Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by bqlekan(m): 10:50pm On Jan 06, 2016
Like you had a choice whether to come into this world or not.... like you can choose to be human or a goat in the first place..
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 11:00pm On Jan 06, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
Bros I will be free with or without children. My parents have always been free even after having more than 2 children
...u will be free how?... u don't hav job..Mooiney or car but u want children..abi?....wot r they going eat?. Sugarcane? ... lookhear bro..forget children mennn. They r rubbish!! (Truss me) angry
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by AyamConfidence(m): 11:04pm On Jan 06, 2016
MrCork:
[..Falconey is an albino..I ain't. ..anyways No man wants kids coz they frekin eat too much like rabit...they tear up yo funiture...they messsup yo CD collection & worse of all...they prevent other babes from comin to yor flat... I lie? angry
foolish man...if your parents dint put up with all that would you be here...go back to school bro (no offenise)
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by AyamConfidence(m): 11:07pm On Jan 06, 2016
[quote author=MrCork post=41727084][/quote]you lie man...i love kids so dont generalize it...u can castrate yourself if you dont want kids (no ofensie)
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 11:10pm On Jan 06, 2016
AyamConfidence:
foolish man...if your parents dint put up with all that would you be here...go back to school bro (no offenise)
...bro I don't mean to sound rudes but is that u in yopicture profile wear in pink dress?...yor boy friend muss be really proud....who wants children in 2016?.. u? undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 11:10pm On Jan 06, 2016
SMH
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 11:15pm On Jan 06, 2016
AyamConfidence:
you lie man...i love kids so dont generalize it...u can castrate yourself if you dont want kids (no ofensie)
...I bet u keep cows as pet..I lie?...bro quit desivin yo sef...how the heck are u sopose to hook up other women when u hav dyamm kids run in around like mosskito?

.u look like a farmer though.
undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 11:16pm On Jan 06, 2016
Leriebloom:
SMH
..are I lightskin? angry
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 11:20pm On Jan 06, 2016
MrCork:
..are I lightskin? angry
huh
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 11:23pm On Jan 06, 2016
Leriebloom:
huh
^^^ this is how they fail skool exam & then blamin teacher. ..she reply question wit question... (this Ghana women mennn)! undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by AyamConfidence(m): 11:24pm On Jan 06, 2016
MrCork:
...I bet u keep cows as pet..I lie?...bro quit desivin yo sef...how the heck are u sopose to hook up other women when u hav dyamm kids run in around like mosskito?

.u look like a farmer though.
undecided
lol....weyrey 1000%
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by AyamConfidence(m): 11:27pm On Jan 06, 2016
MrCork:
...bro I don't mean to sound rudes but is that u in yopicture profile wear in pink dress?...yor boy friend muss be really proud....who wants children in 2016?.. u? undecided
i shoulda put on black right? When i'm not and undertaker
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Nobody: 11:35pm On Jan 06, 2016
MrCork:
...u will be free how?... u don't hav job..Mooiney or car but u want children..abi?....wot r they going eat?. Sugarcane? ... lookhear bro..forget children mennn. They r rubbish!! (Truss me) angry
bro they will eat food and we don't feed kids with sugarcane here. I am going to have children with joygalore and will still be free undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 11:37pm On Jan 06, 2016
MrCork:
^^^ this is how they fail skool exam & then blamin teacher. ..she reply question wit question... (this Ghana women mennn)! undecided
When ur question is confusing. Are i lightskin?,is dat even a question. and i btw m nt Ghanian bt proudly Nigerian.
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 11:43pm On Jan 06, 2016
Leriebloom:
When ur question is confusing. Are i lightskin?,is dat even a question. and i btw m nt Ghanian bt proudly Nigerian.
..well you nid to grow up & quit actin like a Nigerian..nairaland is not a market place.. ok so r u lightskin? undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 11:46pm On Jan 06, 2016
MrCork:
..well you nid to grow up & quit actin like a Nigerian..nairaland is not a market place.. ok so r u lightskin? undecided
Obviously.
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 11:53pm On Jan 06, 2016
Leriebloom:
Obviously.
...how?.. in nigeria?.
how long u been lightskin?
undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Mzdivacious(f): 11:59pm On Jan 06, 2016
Decker:
OP in relation to your question, let me just drop this quote from Rust Cohle in True detectives.
He made this statement years after his little daughter died in an accident. He kinda shares your sentiments, to an extent.

"You got kids? Mmm.... Well, you got the hubris to yank a soul out of non-existence, into this meat. And to force a life into this thresher.
As for my daughter, she spared me the sin of being a father"


Deep!
too cynical.check this out-
they fck u up,ur mum n dad
they may not mean to but they do
they fill u wt d faults they had n add some extra just for u
but they wer fcked in their turn
by fools in old style coats(their own parents)
.......man hands on misery to man.....
get out as early as u can
n dont have any kids urself-philip larkin....King of cynicism
cc enigmaticenigma

oga seun n lalasticlala over 500 new members today with temporary site "shutdowns"....issokay #weareobserving o
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Nobody: 2:38am On Jan 07, 2016
Lol. This thread got me laughing like crazy. grin
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Nobody: 3:37am On Jan 07, 2016
This is deceptively not deep. Human beings have to keep reproducing, cause eventually a family, race, culture, country and then the earth would die out.

Don't romanticize it and don't overthink it. Just go have ur children and fulfil the quota grin
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 12:46pm On Jan 07, 2016
MrCork:
...how?.. in nigeria?. how long u been lightskin? undecided
what are u saying?that all Nigerians are black?
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 1:52pm On Jan 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
what are u saying?that all Nigerians are black?
...sweet hat..i don't hav tilivision athome?...who told I all Nigerian are black? undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Nobody: 1:57pm On Jan 07, 2016
I actually understand the op, it is not about having children but about the reason for having children.
There were times I myself believe it was indeed selfish to bring children into this wretched world but as I grew older I came to the conclusion that it is what God wants, as long as I have the resources to care for them and not make them regret their existence, then I can have as much as I want.
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 2:02pm On Jan 07, 2016
MrCork:
...sweet hat..i don't hav tilivision athome?...who told I all Nigerian are black? undecided
But u asked how i am lightskinned in Nigeria.Where r u even frm?
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 2:32pm On Jan 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
But u asked how i am lightskinned in Nigeria.Where r u even frm?
..sweery am from pekam...p pekam is not in nigeria, Lagos or enugu...it's in London..an by the way..did I mention I drive £28.000 (cash) range rover spot!! wink
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by stevecantrell: 2:38pm On Jan 07, 2016
EnigmaticEnigma:
Like y have kids huh

Then start worrying if they'd be gay, die young, fail...

Just seems to me that having kids is selfish, like, what if the kid never wanted to be born huh

Trippy undecided
Not only does it seem selfish, considering the fact a family name changes every 150 years or so it could also be a futile exercise. Having kids doesn't ensure family continuity till eternity.
If anyone here could tell me the name of their great-great-great grandfather, and its the same name they bear now, I will give them a prize.
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 2:40pm On Jan 07, 2016
MrCork:
..sweery am from pekam...p pekam is not in nigeria, Lagos or enugu...it's in London..an by the way..did I mention I drive £28.000 (cash) range rover spot!! wink
wasnt asking the kind of car u drive. This is hw pple fails an exam.
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by mamagee3(f): 2:50pm On Jan 07, 2016
[color=deeppink]I believe having children is a bit selfish.

Everyone just want to have children without having any parental skills.

That's why I'm thinking twice about having children.[/color]
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 3:38pm On Jan 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
wasnt asking the kind of car u drive. This is hw pple fails an exam.
...sweet hat..u shud be tankin seun osewa..CEO of nairaland coz if not for nairaland. U wud never hav a shance to talk to a londoner like me.....i lie?..has anyone from our village been to London?...you? undecided
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 3:48pm On Jan 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
wasnt asking the kind of car u drive. This is hw pple fails an exam.
...anyways juss incase u ask..did I mention I drive £28000 (cash) range rover spot!! wink
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by Leriebloom(f): 4:45pm On Jan 07, 2016
MrCork:
...sweet hat..u shud be tankin seun osewa..CEO of nairaland coz if not for nairaland. U wud never hav a shance to talk to a londoner like me.....i lie?..has anyone from our village been to London?...you? undecided
There is nth i will not see here. You really dnt knw me so u can stop talking gibberish.
Re: Isn't It Selfish To Bring Children Into This World by MrCork: 5:09pm On Jan 07, 2016
Leriebloom:
There is nth i will not see here. You really dnt knw me so u can stop talking gibberish.
^^^she's spyin on me....sweet get...it wudunt hurt to say..**Mr Cork... I love u**.... close to eyes n tryit! wink
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