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Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by mistacoco: 6:20pm On Jun 09, 2018
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by IamD18(f): 6:20pm On Jun 09, 2018
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried? embarassed

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by thesicilian: 6:21pm On Jun 09, 2018
Run from her. She's going to wreck you if you marry her.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Lalas247(f): 6:25pm On Jun 09, 2018
It’s very simple....
Do not invest ..... let her go and get that 5 million with her blood,sweat and tears ...

I’m sure if she funds it herself you will be more than happy to sustain your family.. she can buy her hair and clothes when she gets it up and running ...
Take that 5million open small business get sales girl or something that way you have extra income coming in ...invest or buy land just don’t give it to her ...

Pls don’t quote me ....

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by VampireeM(f): 6:25pm On Jun 09, 2018
Sissy men everywhere on the internet seeking validation instead of making decisions like a man. What's our business with her response abi you want us to bash her? If you can't deal with her response and attitude, you know what to do

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by ColdSun: 6:28pm On Jun 09, 2018
She and her friend are not good people you should try to add to your future. Such a lady may always be selfish even when it has to do with the well-being of your kid(s). Even if she helps you one time (which will be a miracle), she'll make sure you feel useless because of it.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by mistacoco: 6:29pm On Jun 09, 2018
VampireeM:
Sissy men everywhere on the internet seeking validation instead of making decisions like a man. What's our business with her response abi you want us to bash her? If you can't deal with her response and attitude, you know what to do
Get the fvck out if you dont Av what to say?

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by IamD18(f): 6:30pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Get the fvck out if you dont Av what to say?

Will you shurup! embarassed Look at you attacking her truthful comment but couldn't attack a lady who wants to suck you dry in reality.

You are a disgrace to men. How did you even manage to get 5 million to call your own with this weakness and pussay ass behavior of yours?

Did you even read what you wrote up there?

You want to invest 5 million in a woman who made it clear that she won't be contributing in your home, and here you are, crying like a sissy and asking for advice on what to do?

Invest 20 million in her or better still ask a secondary school student for advice. NONESENSE

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Omachona: 6:30pm On Jun 09, 2018
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by oshe11: 6:31pm On Jun 09, 2018
If this TRULY happened to you and YOU are here asking if SHE IS RIGHT.....


THEN YOU ARE A FOOL.....


I mean the ONLY RIGHT thing about HER is that SHE IS DATING A FOOL

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Tallesty1(m): 6:32pm On Jun 09, 2018
Lalas247:
It’s very simple....
Do not invest ..... let her go and get that 5 million with her blood,sweat and tears ...

I’m sure if she funds it herself you will be more than happy to sustain your family.. she can buy her hair and clothes when she gets it up and running ...
Take that 5million open small business get sales girl or something that way you have extra income coming in ...invest or buy land just don’t give it to her ...

Pls don’t quote me ....


Starting a family with a woman with her kinda mentality whether you're sponsoring her or not is disastrous. Such union is doomed to fail.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Mercurypanther(m): 6:33pm On Jun 09, 2018
This is a good sign to Run from her, I strongly believe marriage is a two ends thing... If she wants your money to finish before supporting the House that's a good example of a slay Queen and not a wife Queen... Even with you setting up the Business... My Guy hope you've not given her engagement Ring... If you have, collect am ASAP... Her mindset towards marriage is polluted....

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Lalas247(f): 6:37pm On Jun 09, 2018
Tallesty1:
Starting a family with a woman with her kinda mentality whether you're sponsoring her or not is disastrous. Such union is doomed to fail.
It’s the only way she will learn...
If he dumps her another mumu will accept .. he has to show her In marriage they have to compromise (some ladies are clueless and programmed to only help when the man fails and that’s wrong! )

It doesn’t make her a bad person she just has a typical leech mentality which a lot suffer from...

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by VampireeM(f): 6:40pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Get the fvck out if you dont Av what to say?

Ntorrrr. tongue

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Adasun(m): 6:45pm On Jun 09, 2018
IamD18:
Bruv, how do you want the thunder that will strike sense and brain inside you?

How do you want the thunder


Boiled or fried? embarassed
i think roasted would be beta cheesy

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 6:48pm On Jun 09, 2018
NAwa o. This one is not a wife material.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Uyi168(m): 6:49pm On Jun 09, 2018
...marriage never even start,una don dea get issues..

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 6:50pm On Jun 09, 2018
Omachona:
Open the lab in your name, employ her as the managing director. Pay her from the proceeds after all accounting has been done. Let her know from onset that the lab belongs to you
This is good too.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Nobody: 6:53pm On Jun 09, 2018
Sometimes I feel people make up stories here though.


Lots of people want to ride with you in the Limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with you when the Limo breaks down.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by daryoor(m): 7:28pm On Jun 09, 2018
is beautiful abi?

And she is from a rich home too abi?


If not you are a fooool for letting an average bitch feel so entittled



#Get that visa

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by SoapQueen(f): 7:29pm On Jun 09, 2018
IamD18:


Will you shurup! embarassed Look at you attacking her truthful comment but couldn't attack a lady who wants to suck you dry in reality.

You are a disgrace to men. How did you even manage to get 5 million to call your own with this weakness and pussay ass behavior of yours?

Did you even read what you wrote up there?

You want to invest 5 million in a woman who made it clear that she won't be contributing in your home, and here you are, crying like a sissy and asking for advice on what to do?

Invest 20 million in her or better still ask a secondary school student for advice. NONESENSE

I am going to deactivate because of you this guy! See everyone looking at me the way I am laughing!

Chai. Hilarious.

You sound like his daddy!

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by mistacoco: 7:42pm On Jun 09, 2018
IamD18:


Will you shurup! embarassed Look at you attacking her truthful comment but couldn't attack a lady who wants to suck you dry in reality.

You are a disgrace to men. How did you even manage to get 5 million to call your own with this weakness and pussay ass behavior of yours?

Did you even read what you wrote up there?

You want to invest 5 million in a woman who made it clear that she won't be contributing in your home, and here you are, crying like a sissy and asking for advice on what to do?

Invest 20 million in her or better still ask a secondary school student for advice. NONESENSE
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by chinchonglee: 7:48pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Dear Narialanders.

I and my girlfriend had a hitup conversation this afternoon that we even quarrel after then.

This is the issue, she read medlab in school and she is planning to go for her internship by Gods grace soon. I told her that after our wedding I will be giving her five million to setup a LAB and after 8 months she can start contribute for the upkeep of the family and when we start having kids.
My Dear brethren in Christ, do you know her reply? She said NO, she can only provide when the husband exhaust his money on the family. I then asked her whats the point opening a bizness if you cant make a joint contribution with your husband at the end of the month for the upkeep of the family.
She said said her work is a HELPER she can only help her husband when the husbands own finishes. My Dear I was shock.

She Even said I will be giving her money for her hair, cloth e.t.cs, when the bizness is still functioning fine. My reply was that what then will you be using your money to do? She said I don't have business with her money, I should face my responsibilities as the man, she can only assist me when I don't Av cash.. I told her is better you even be a house wife than acting in such manner.

Her Female friend was siding her oo. .
What's you take on this.

Lalasticlala.

So na ur elders u compose dis lie give

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by ItzBIM(m): 7:58pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

Why must it be when You’re down, what’s stopping her from buying her own clothes. She’s nothing but a leach, if it was me I would have ended the relationship right there.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by 234GT(m): 8:10pm On Jun 09, 2018
Picture of the 5M cash or...........
You think say 5M na beans?

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Diamond23(f): 8:17pm On Jun 09, 2018
Money She never c, business she never start, and una don dey agree nd disagree on who nd who not to contribute to family upkeep......Na wahoooo

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by eaddyboy(m): 8:27pm On Jun 09, 2018
Op you beta don't start what u can't end...marry her at your own peril. .my 2 cent sha

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by samyfreshsmooth(m): 8:30pm On Jun 09, 2018
all this one y'all are saying are just long talk


the summary and bottom line is "op is a FOOL!!!..................and he knows it" undecided



God just gave you a real life revelation on the kind of bitçh you want to give the "wife" tag yet you still act blind to it



na until when pastor tell you say na demon you wan marry or when you don die na im you go know



orishirishi


#spits

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Holymann(m): 8:34pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
must Nigerians comment with insult? We only discuss on it, I didn't give her the money.

Btw she nver said she wont contribute, she said she will only contribute when am down financially.

Trying to defend her only shows that YOUR LEVEL OF STUPIDITY IS HIGHER THAN I THOUGHT.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by Lonestar124: 8:43pm On Jun 09, 2018
mistacoco:
Get the fvck out if you dont Av what to say?
Oga listen to what she said and stop showing how indecisive you're here.

So in your mind you don't know the little girl is playing fool of you or is she saying it jokily.

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Re: Is My Girlfriend Selfish Or She Is Right? by ednut1(m): 8:50pm On Jun 09, 2018
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Sometimes I feel people make up stories here though.
hr might be lieng about d 5m sha. Have faced sometin lik dis before. Met one babe at an event , we bcam friends and wanted to date her o. This babe pman get money and foots most of her bills. D sis earns 500k in a bank bt when she bashes d car she uses na pman dey pay cheesy. D babe told me if we marry na me go dey foot all bills (her wigs lasan na 60k), say her money is hers mine is ours. Ontop my small salary. I just flee o. One prince don engage am now grin

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