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Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 8:59pm On Jan 06, 2016

HardMirror:
What if he had always forced himself to take interest in the opposite sex so as to fit in, but not that he does not care what any religion dictates, he can afford to be himself and relate more with same sex that he has always wanted?

I could care less if he was gay, he doesnt have to deny it, just say you are bi or gay thats enough instead of boosting your confidence

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 6:56am On Jan 07, 2016

Vanquay:
I could care less if he was gay, he doesnt have to deny it, just say you are bi or gay thats enough instead of boosting your confidence

Ok, yh that wld have been better.
Cos if he is not bi or gay, he wld definitely care about the opposite sex

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by tollyboy5(m): 2:07am On Jan 08, 2016

Na wa o! It is easy to relate with opposite sex when u start twisting the bible grin

that just it but wen Nigerians come up with d issue of by god grace, only god can decide,just use faith ull pass I know they are speaking ancient Latin. But I can tell some one Jesus is against sex bcus dere is no condom then wink

.talking about marriage I wud marry mermaid satanist as far as there is love.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by BuddhaPalm(m): 2:24am On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
Thanks bro
I respect peoples choices and I never try to convert anyone, the problem is the average Nigerian assumes something is psychologically wrong with anyone who does not believe what they believe. And there is also fear of retribution for being in relationship with people like me.
Honestly every lady I have dated find it hard to totally let go. They still hang around, but marriage is off the table.

My brother, make money first, and then if you like, turn your living-room into a shrine, marriage go begin enter that table.

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Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by NoirBlvck(f): 5:02am On Jan 08, 2016

Facebook group - Nigerian atheists. You're welcome grin

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 6:57am On Jan 08, 2016

BuddhaPalm:
My brother, make money first, and then if you like, turn your living-room into a shrine, marriage go begin enter that table.

I have money.
Why do you think the other girls don't wanna let go? Not just money, got everything a young guy wld want. But getting a girl that is atheist or sincerely cool with my believe is what I need. Not a girl just trying to change me or hoping I will change. They are all thinking "god" will change me. I don't want those type of ladies. Hope u undrstand my plight sir.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 7:05am On Jan 08, 2016

NoirBlvck:
Facebook group - Nigerian atheists. You're welcome

Appreciate this. Thanks
Never used facebook before. May try it someday, but not ready to join facebook yet.
So are u in relationship with someone with same orientation as yours?

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Welcomme: 7:44am On Jan 08, 2016*

Well, I am also not religious. But I believe in God and Jesus but I dont just do Nigerian churches , cus I am tired of them. My girl knows about this, she complains but I make her to see reasons why I dont just do church anymore. But I believe in God almighty and Jesus his one and only begotten son.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 8:24am On Jan 08, 2016

Welcomme:
Well, I am also not religious. But I believe in God and Jesus but I dont just do Nigerian churches , cus I am tired of them. My girls knows about this, she complains but I make her to see reasons why I dont just do church anymore. But I believe in God almighty and Jesus his one and only begotten son.

Thanks for sharing sir.
All the best. It's most likely u marry such a girl and the next thing would be for the pastor of her church to start pestering u to join their church and them praying for u as if u are going to perish if u don't come to their church.
Nigerian girls become extremely religious once they are married.

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Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by 211Observer(m): 8:40am On Jan 08, 2016

Just like me too, I dnt blv in religion. I simply blv in living a smiple standard of life(live the life by the nature.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Welcomme: 9:25am On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
Thanks for sharing sir.
All the best. It's most likely u marry such a girl and the next thing would be for the pastor of her church to start pestering u to join their church and them praying for u as if u are going to perish if u don't come to their church.
Nigerian girls become extremely religious once they are married.

That will only happen if I dont know wat I am doing.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 10:08am On Jan 08, 2016

Freethinkers undecided

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 12:04pm On Jan 08, 2016

Nubian113:
Freethinkers

Any experience with one?

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
Any experience with one?

Yeah they're amazing grin

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 1:35pm On Jan 08, 2016

Nubian113:
Yeah they're amazing

*smiles* That's nice and amusing I guess wink

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 1:46pm On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
*smiles*
That's nice and amusing I guess

I'm the freethinker seeking another. embarassed

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 2:29pm On Jan 08, 2016

Vanquay:
I see a Nerd trying to boost his confidence

No interest to the opposite sex? Now thats A FALLACy

hehehe.
you wish.
girls are not hard to get. not for me at least.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 2:33pm On Jan 08, 2016

Nubian113:
I'm the freethinker seeking another.

it would be even harder for a female freethinker to get a partner. but godspeed, I guess.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 6:16pm On Jan 08, 2016

Nubian113:
I'm the freethinker seeking another.

All the best dear.
Just enjoy your life and live free. Sure someone will come along; someone u can be urself with 100%

Is there any experience you would love to share?

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 6:18pm On Jan 08, 2016

All my life av been hurt cheated upon av been treated like i'm nt human cry

Well i av to kiss so many frogs to meet my prince charming i kno he sumwhr out there waiting for me

I love him so mch nd will love him wen i meet him

cry

for now all i need is ow to over come dis heartbreak lump in my throat nd heaviness in my heart

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 6:37pm On Jan 08, 2016

Teempakguy:

it would be even harder for a female freethinker to get a partner. but godspeed, I guess.

You think?
Well this is what I think.
Females that are freethinkers would most likely get guys easily. Someone like me will pronto want to be a friend to a lady like that, but it does not guarantee being close or anything cos relationship is beyond religious inclination.
Then she is in danger of having randy guys pretend to be interested in her. There are many guys that see such girls as cheap lays because they feel such a girl does not have a spiritual conviction.
This leads to guys not taking such as a serious marriage prospect.
I have a friend that got married last year, he is a freethinker, but eventually turned religious towards the time of his wedding.
That is nigerians for you. We want that "god fearing" girl for marriage (selfish) majorly to prevent divorce or she being too independent.
Nigerian men want women they can put in their place. Religion gives men this control. So that is why marriage may not be in view with even a nigerian freethinker man.
But there are those of us that are 100% irreligious. We don't give a damn. Will never do anything because of what society demands.

My freethinker friend wants his christain parents to be at his church wedding with their church all in support. He had a naming ceremony not long ago, want all the support from family (christains) etc.
He has settled for the usual life most nigerians live.
But then there are those who dare to be different.
I am writing a movie script for a series, which I am only able to do cos I am not religious, becaus the movie would be regarded as blasphemous when out.

In the end, the ball is in her court. Is she ready to compromise for the guy?
Is she willing to embrace religion at occasions that demands it?
Or is she going to be absolute?

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Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 6:43pm On Jan 08, 2016

sickstars:
All my life av been hurt cheated upon av been treated like i'm nt human

Well i av to kiss so many frogs to meet my prince charming i kno he sumwhr out there waiting for me

I love him so mch nd will love him wen i meet him

for now all i need is ow to over come dis heartbreak lump in my throat nd heaviness in my heart

Yeah, u will find him. Always be yourself.
So are u a freethinker?

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 6:44pm On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
Yeah, u will find him. Always be yourself.
So are u a freethinker?

Yes im a freethinker

Amen cant wait to find him

tank u so mch

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 6:53pm On Jan 08, 2016

sickstars:
Yes im a freethinker

Amen cant wait to find him

tank u so mch

See my post above. Guys will always take advantage of ladies they know are freethinkers.
It's unfortunate.
I am sure that is why you've been hurt so much.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 6:56pm On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
See my post above. Guys will always take advantage of ladies they know are freethinkers.
It's unfortunate.
I am sure that is why you've been hurt so much.

I guess u are right cry

Wat can i do

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 7:05pm On Jan 08, 2016

sickstars:
I guess u are right

Wat can i do

You can pretend all your life to be a church girl. You entrap a man, marry him, have all the christain thingy till u die.
OR
You can be yourself.
Live life to the fullest. Get that man that is crazy like u (like many of us *smiles*).
And die happy with no regrets of stuff you wld have done with your life.

I wish I was never a christain. I wasted 24 years of my life serving nothing. Holding back my potentials so I could please god.
I regret nothing more. But now I won't hold back.

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 7:07pm On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
You can pretend all your life to be a church girl. You entrap a man, marry him, have all the christain thingy till u die.
OR
You can be yourself.
Live life to the fullest. Get that man that is crazy like u (like many of us *smiles*).
And die happy with no regrets of stuff you wld have done with your life.

I wish I was never a christain. I wasted 24 years of my life serving nothing. Holding back my potentials so I could please god.
I regret nothing more. But now I won't hold back.

I am not pretending ti b a church girl i respect God

M proud nd happy m a christain

I value God cos i never created mysef

Dis is not d kind of advise i was expecting

Why shd i entrap a man? Why will i do dat

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 7:10pm On Jan 08, 2016

Teempakguy:
hehehe.
you wish.
girls are not hard to get. not for me at least.

Getting a girl is the easiest thing for a guy like me too.
But question is, "is she my type of girl?"
So I wonder why some dudes are making it seem a big deal here. Talking about money or nerd consoling himself. Smh
There is more to life that babes

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 7:14pm On Jan 08, 2016

sickstars:
I am not pretending ti b a church girl i respect God

M proud nd happy m a christain

I value God cos i never created mysef

Dis is not d kind of advise i was expecting

Why shd i entrap a man? Why will i do dat

I am sorry. You shld have said you are a Christian.
You don't have to entrap any man. I was just being sarcastic.
You don't have any problem. Nigerian guys will marry a lady like you, so what really is the problem? Are your heart breakers not christains? Why did they take advantage of you?

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Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 7:17pm On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
I am sorry. You shld have said you are a Christian.
You don't have to entrap any man. I was just being sarcastic.
You don't have any problem. Nigerian guys will marry a lady like you, so what really is the problem? Are your heart breakers not christains? Why did they take advantage of you?

Dunno why

mayb cos they feel cos i love deep i can put up with anytin dey do but they forgot m human nd will eventually get tired

M nt a programmed robot i just tink like one

Nd like nicki said * you dont kno wat uve got till its gone*

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by HardMirror(op): 7:24pm On Jan 08, 2016

sickstars:
Dunno why

mayb cos they feel cos i love deep i can put up with anytin dey do but they forgot m human nd will eventually get tired

M nt a programmed robot i just tink like one

Nd like nicki said * you dont kno wat uve got till its gone*

freethinkerplay
noun free·think·er \-ˈthiŋ-kər\
Simple Definition of freethinker
: a person who forms his or her own opinions about important subjects (such as religion and politics) instead of accepting what other people say

Full Definition of freethinker
: one who forms opinions on the basis of reason independently of authority; especially : one who doubts or denies religious dogma

So what makes you a freethinker dear

Re: Atheists, Agnostics And Freethinkers: Share Your Relationship Experience by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jan 08, 2016

HardMirror:
freethinkerplay
noun free·think·er \-ˈthiŋ-kər\
Simple Definition of freethinker
: a person who forms his or her own opinions about important subjects (such as religion and politics) instead of accepting what other people say

Full Definition of freethinker
: one who forms opinions on the basis of reason independently of authority; especially : one who doubts or denies religious dogma

So what makes you a freethinker dear

Cos i really deny religious dogma like d devil grin

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