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Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by emmas2k570(op): 3:41pm On Jan 08, 2016
My ex girlfriends and even ma current girl friend complains i'm a possessive boy friend.........Really wanna know if its bad to be possessive in a relationship.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by falconey(m): 3:41pm On Jan 08, 2016
grin
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Carowline(f): 3:42pm On Jan 08, 2016
Its beyond bad...
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by obiorathesubtle: 3:44pm On Jan 08, 2016
Wetin you dy possess? You be ogbanje? undecided
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by StefanSalvatore: 3:44pm On Jan 08, 2016
No

Stop at ur own peril
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by mizquote(f): 3:45pm On Jan 08, 2016
yes.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody:
It's very bad if such possessive attitude is stretched past normal.

I mean why should I claim ownership over a commodity that is not yet fully certified to be mine. Why should I fight effortlessly to protect something that can simply walk away or get carried away, swayed away by more capable hands?
Why?

She's not my wife, neither is she my wife to be (as supposed) so I see no reason for panic. I won't even feel bad or feel a pang of jealousy once I learn about her dealings with others.

But I will try to make my sense of possessing a little bit obvious. . .
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by missKiffy(f): 4:10pm On Jan 08, 2016
In fact, extremely bad
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 4:28pm On Jan 08, 2016
its like datin d devil cos d devil sole aim is to possess people undecided
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Richiy(f): 4:46pm On Jan 08, 2016
AT the beginning it will be "sweeting" you , but later it will become so disturbing. Op mull over these words


True love comes with jealousy but jealousy without trust is
disaster.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by firstking01(m):
Well...i am too, bt i do it in a moderate way...u dnt have to be possessive all the time, infact 70% of guys are possessive in their relationships...they always wanna knw everytin and be in charge undecided...and dis is a very big turn off for most gals...there's notin wrong with being possessive as long as u moderate it mr op....after all, ur d one dating her and nt her dating u.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 08, 2016
MelancholicGuy:
It's bad if such possessive attitude is stretched past normal.

I mean why should I claim ownership over a commodity that is not yet fully certified to be mine. Why should I fight effortlessly to protect something that can simply walk away or get carried away, swayed away by more capable hands?
Why?

She's not my wife neither is she my wife to be (as supposed) so I see no reason for panic. I won't even feel bad or feel a pang of jealousy once I learn about her dealings with others.

But I will try make my sense of possession a little obvious. . .
which school u go sef? Nonsense grammar construction..ashhhhhhh
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 4:59pm On Jan 08, 2016
firstking01:
Well...i am too, bt i do it in a moderate way...u dnt have to be possessive all the time, infact 70% of guys are possessive in their relation...they always wanna knw everytin and be in charge undecided...and dis is a very big turn off for most gals...there's notin wrong with being possessive as long as u moderate it mr op....after all, ur d one dating her and nt her dating u.
Excuse me?
Dating requires d both of u workin out things

Wtf is u dating her she is not datin u
If m never included in a relationship has a partner wats d point if we cant make decisions togeda

Wat kind of evil tot did u just spill out wat rubbish even my future husband dare nt tell me he married me nt me marrying him

Cos d agreement to marry was a decision we both made let alone a bf u are among d reasons why femimism was created
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 5:02pm On Jan 08, 2016
Richiy:
AT the beginning it will be "sweeting" you , but later it will become so disturbing. Op mull over these words


True love comes with jealousy but jealousy without trust is
disaster.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Sexxkillz: 5:20pm On Jan 08, 2016
[color=#000030]Possessive guys always lose the girl they are over possessive about. . . You have to realize that everyone has a life to live. That you are an ordinary boyfriend doesn't give you any right to lord yourself over a girl you aren't married to, or, you aren't even sure of getting married to.

When they notice that shitty attitude about you, they're gonna wanna stay with you for a while, hoping you're gonna change. But when they see no change in the horizon, they'll start asking themselves if they don't deserve better, and why they have to stick with your nonsense.

I guess you know what follows next.
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Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by firstking01(m):
sickstars:
Excuse me?
Dating requires d both of u workin out things

Wtf is u dating her she is not datin u
If m never included in a relationship has a partner wats d point if we cant make decisions togeda

Wat kind of evil tot did u just spill out wat rubbish even my future husband dare nt tell me he married me nt me marrying him

Cos d agreement to marry was a decision we both made let alone a bf u are among d reasons why femimism was created
1=are u the one that ask me out??

2=are u the one that foots the bill any time we go out??

3=are u the one to always demand for sex in the relationship as it is the culture here in nigeria??

4=are u the one that always call??

5=are u the one to always ensure that i'm ok where ever i am??

Answer those questions sncerely from ur heart miss halfrica...if only u knw the stress we go through just to make u happy u wnt try to differt dis assertion...so, i stand to be correct my dear wen i said we are the ones dating u.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 5:22pm On Jan 08, 2016
sickstars:
Excuse me?
Dating requires d both of u workin out things

Wtf is u dating her she is not datin u
If m never included in a relationship has a partner wats d point if we cant make decisions togeda

Wat kind of evil tot did u just spill out wat rubbish even my future husband dare nt tell me he married me nt me marrying him

Cos d agreement to marry was a decision we both made let alone a bf u are among d reasons why femimism was created
yes!!! I second this babe, very reasonable comment.

I love this babe, this kind of babe will not wait for me to beg endlessly for sex. She go equally dey beg me sef. Gender equality#
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 5:24pm On Jan 08, 2016
firstking01:
1=are u the one that ask me out??

2=are u the one that foot the bill any time we go out??

3=are u the one to always demand for sex in the relationship as it is the culture here in nigeria??

4=are u the one that always call??

5=are u the to always ensure that i'm ok where ever i am??

Answer those questions sncerely from ur heart miss halfrica...if only u knw the stress we go through just to make u happy u wnt try to differt dis assertion...so, i stand to be correct my dear wen i said we are the ones dating u.
Cos of dat ewww i will make it before i ever tink
Of commiting fully to a guy

All cos of money u treat me like an object

I reject with my life

Ewwww goan giv ur gf to answer d irritating questions not me
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 5:27pm On Jan 08, 2016
stupidity:
yes!!! I second this babe, very reasonable comment.

I love this babe, this kind of babe will not wait for me to beg endlessly for sex. She go equally dey beg me sef. Gender equality#
Go nd tell ir gfs nd sex buddies smiley
Preach to them
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jan 08, 2016
Its not good to be EXTREMELY possessive

At the same time, it's not good to not be possessive at all. Girls live for that ish.

Find a balance.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by firstking01(m): 5:31pm On Jan 08, 2016
sickstars:
Cos of dat ewww i will make it before i ever tink Of commiting fully to a guy
All cos of money u treat me like an object
I reject with my life
Ewwww goan giv ur gf to answer d irritating questions not me
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by SexyCeline(f): 5:33pm On Jan 08, 2016
Being possessive can be very romantic buh when in excess it becomes something else.. My ex was extremely possessive, i had to dump his sorry ass lest he kills me before my time.
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by firstking01(m): 5:38pm On Jan 08, 2016
stupidity:
yes!!! I second this babe, very reasonable comment.

I love this babe, this kind of babe will not wait for me to beg endlessly for sex. She go equally dey beg me sef. Gender equality#
lol, ifa hear,,,dey der dey dream grin
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 5:43pm On Jan 08, 2016
sickstars:
Go nd tell ir gfs nd sex buddies smiley Preach to them
how dare refer me to my oloshos? Do you know me?
*pulls singlet and boxer*
Doo uuu knw mee??
Re: Is It Bad To Be A Possessive Boy Friend by Nobody: 5:58pm On Jan 08, 2016
adeobaagoro1:
which school u go sef? Nonsense grammar construction..ashhhhhhh
Saying you're worthless is as wrong as saying pigs are not filthy organisms.

There is nothing about you that can give a scarecrow inferiority complex. What a fûcktard!
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