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Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by hardebayho(op): 2:39pm On Jan 09, 2016
I know what some people here is gonna say...

Buh seriously, i don't see anything wrong in a girl approaching a guy to share her feelings... It doesn't always have to be a guy all the time, you know.

It's not as if you're the only ones that have pride or something... Or is it the guys that's meant to be shameless and not you? If we start dating now, am i the only one that'll enjoy the relationship?

You people should know that guys too have their own pride ooo... And pride isn't made for females alone.
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Richardonald(m): 2:42pm On Jan 09, 2016
If u ask me na who i go ask
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by iceberylin(m): 2:44pm On Jan 09, 2016
Are you asking a question or stating the obvious undecided
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by hardebayho(op): 2:45pm On Jan 09, 2016
both
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Topestbilly(m): 2:48pm On Jan 09, 2016
Cos men were created first b4 women by God grin


Few yrs ago der was dis pretty gal who asked me out, I felt like wao!! N I said yes..

I know some of u will quickly rush to see my pix at my profile n b like dis ugly boy, but she did not bother about dat cos she was interested in my qualities. cool
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by LaurelP(m): 2:53pm On Jan 09, 2016
African mentality says so
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Monalisa185(f): 2:56pm On Jan 09, 2016
still on this matter? KILLIT already..
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Justiyke4u: 2:58pm On Jan 09, 2016
SMH
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by missdebs(f): 3:02pm On Jan 09, 2016
because feminism ti take over
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 3:04pm On Jan 09, 2016
Do they always make the first move or are ya'll going where ya'll are lead?
--#She smiles and you smile back or approach and start talking to her
--#She gives you a look or 2 and and you give her a couple yourself then you approach with a "hi".
--#She greets with a "hi" or "hi, how are you" and you take over gibbering away about how some street seller scamed you outta $20 bucks,she gives her appologies and tells you how much she hates that that happened to you and your half in love with her,thinking up ways to get her to marry you and you just meet her that morning! lipsrsealed shocked grin
So are ya'll always leading or are you sometimes being lead,think about it wink
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by hardebayho(op): 3:16pm On Jan 09, 2016
QueenValerie:
Do they always make the first move or are ya'll going where ya'll are lead?
--#She smiles and you smile back or approach and start talking to her
--#She gives you a look or 2 and and you give her a couple yourself then you approach with a "hi".
--#She greets with a "hi" or "hi, how are you" and you take over gibbering away about how some street seller scamed you outta $20 bucks,she gives her appologies and tells you how much she hates that that happened to you and your half in love with her,thinking up ways to get her to marry you and you just meet her that morning! lipsrsealed shocked grin
So are ya'll always leading or are you sometimes being lead,think about it wink
Yeah, we're always leading and we'll always lead because Y'all made it so.... So why do some women complain about men's leadership in other areas (especially politics)? Maybe you people should just leave leadership for us then. Afterall, no be only me go enjoy the relationship...
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by naijaboiy: 3:19pm On Jan 09, 2016
QueenValerie:
Do they always make the first move or are ya'll going where ya'll are lead?
--#She smiles and you smile back or approach and start talking to her
--#She gives you a look or 2 and and you give her a couple yourself then you approach with a "hi".
--#She greets with a "hi" or "hi, how are you" and you take over gibbering away about how some street seller scamed you outta $20 bucks,she gives her appologies and tells you how much she hates that that happened to you and your half in love with her,thinking up ways to get her to marry you and you just meet her that morning! lipsrsealed shocked grin
So are ya'll always leading or are you sometimes being lead,think about it wink
[color=#1980BC]That's just green light and not the first move which any guy may ignore. undecided[/color]
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by naijaboiy: 3:21pm On Jan 09, 2016
[color=#1980BC]Well I don't a have a problem with a girl asking me out,but I think I'm more comfortable with doing the job myself. smiley[/color]
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody:
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]That's just green light and not the first move which any guy may ignore. undecided[/color]
But the light is a move.Especially the "hi" or "hi how are you",she talked to you first.You probably had moves made on you and you didn't even realize it,sometimes it's more subtel.
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by nerdfrost(m): 3:29pm On Jan 09, 2016
Me am here to read comments huh










And the Frost descended on them! grin
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Jan 09, 2016
hardebayho:
Yeah, we're always leading and we'll always lead because Y'all made it so.... So why do some women complain about men's leadership in other areas (especially politics)? Maybe you people should just leave leadership for us then. Afterall, no be only me go enjoy the relationship...
Uhm,I don't know you'll have to ask the ones that complain.We made it so? Are you informing me of this or blaming me of it?
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by hardebayho(op): 3:42pm On Jan 09, 2016
QueenValerie:
Uhm,I don't know you'll have to ask the ones that complain.We made it so? Are you informing me of this or blaming me of it?
I certainly am not blaming you...
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by lampardizik(m): 3:44pm On Jan 09, 2016
Because ever single sign she gave was a hit back to back from laughing at whatever you said to hanging with your friends to be near you, still u u give her face
Fvck dahshit mehn
Now she's tired
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by hardebayho(op): 3:47pm On Jan 09, 2016
lampardizik:
Because ever single sign she gave was a hit back to back from laughing at whatever you said to hanging with your friends to be near you, still u u give her face
Fvck dahshit mehn
Now she's tired
And what's wrong with her coming to me and telling it to ma face?
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 3:47pm On Jan 09, 2016
lampardizik:
Because ever single sign she gave was a hit back to back from laughing at whatever you said to hanging with your friends to be near you, still u u give her face
Fvck dahshit mehn
Now she's tired
smileyYeah,something like that
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 09, 2016
Topestbilly:
Cos men were created first b4 women by God grin


Few yrs ago der was dis pretty gal who asked me out, I felt like wao!! N I said yes..

I know some of u will quickly rush to see my pix at my profile n b like dis ugly boy, but she did not bother about dat cos she was interested in my qualities. cool
Lol@this ugly boy. Dude you are a good looking man and don't allow any one tells you otherwise. You really funny though! grin
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by naijaboiy: 3:57pm On Jan 09, 2016
QueenValerie:
But the light is a move.Especially the "hi" or "hi how are you",she talked to you first.You probably had moves made on you and you didn't even realize it,sometimes it's more subtel.
[color=#1980BC]a green light is not a move. It's more like an invitation from a girl to a guy that she's available for a good conversation that could probably lead to something better.

Don't twist things babe. Except that's just how you see it.[/color]
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 09, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]a green light is not a move. It's more like an invitation from a girl to a guy that she's available for a good conversation that could probably lead to something better.

Don't twist things babe. Except that's just how you see it.[/color]
It is to a move,but okay let's not argue.Hi,goodbye.
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by lampardizik(m): 4:01pm On Jan 09, 2016
hardebayho:
And what's wrong with her coming to me and telling it to ma face?
Dude girls are sensitive
If you missed those signs,there's a high probability that you won't appreciate her
Or at least that's what she'll think
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 4:24pm On Jan 09, 2016
Why should a Girl toast me? the thing no go sweet again na
I'm okay with making the move as Long as she doesn't Play Hard to get endlessly...Giving me the green Light every now and then just to get my Hormones rushing while I strategize on making the first move wont be a bad idea
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 4:27pm On Jan 09, 2016
Some girls uses constant quarrel to give a guy green light.It's only the guy who is observant that will know.
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jan 09, 2016
DonUjay:
Why should a Girl toast me? the thing no go sweet again na
I'm okay with making the move as Long as she doesn't Play Hard to get endlessly...Giving me the green Light every now and then just to get my Hormones rushing while I strategize on making the first move wont be a bad idea
If they give you a green light and you make a move they will still snub you.They have one hell of a attitude we are yet to understand.
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by hardebayho(op): 4:35pm On Jan 09, 2016
lampardizik:
Dude girls are sensitive
If you missed those signs,there's a high probability that you won't appreciate her
Or at least that's what she'll think
Ehen, na guys no sensitive abi?
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Heromaniaa: 8:37pm On Jan 09, 2016
QueenValerie:
Do they always make the first move or are ya'll going where ya'll are lead?
--#She smiles and you smile back or approach and start talking to her
--#She gives you a look or 2 and and you give her a couple yourself then you approach with a "hi".
--#She greets with a "hi" or "hi, how are you" and you take over gibbering away about how some street seller scamed you outta $20 bucks,she gives her appologies and tells you how much she hates that that happened to you and your half in love with her,thinking up ways to get her to marry you and you just meet her that morning! lipsrsealed shocked grin
So are ya'll always leading or are you sometimes being lead,think about it wink
hi
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by Nobody: 8:43pm On Jan 09, 2016
Heromaniaa:
hi
Hi,hi.Lol
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by lampardizik(m): 8:44am On Jan 11, 2016
hardebayho:
Ehen, na guys no sensitive abi?
Guys wey dey form baddo abi?
Re: Why Do Guys Always Have To Make The First Move? by macdon4all(m): 8:53am On Jan 11, 2016
hardebayho:
I know what some people here is gonna say...

Buh seriously, i don't see anything wrong in a girl approaching a guy to share her feelings... It doesn't always have to be a guy all the time, you know.

It's not as if you're the only ones that have pride or something... Or is it the guys that's meant to be shameless and not you? If we start dating now, am i the only one that'll enjoy the relationship?

You people should know that guys too have their own pride ooo... And pride isn't made for females alone.
the shy guys will always want to be wooed,bright greenlight is very ok for me.
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