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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
One convocated from my school last year and the orphanage home were really proud of her. They made souvenir for her that she distributed on that day. Her pix childhood pix was also there. If it is a standard orphanage home, they will keep watching your back until you can be independent. 2 Likes |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Abialayinka(f): 2:34pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
They have God ,God is their strength. People should not neglect them. 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Wyttcat: 2:38pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Great topic you have here, I was just discussing this with a cousin who celebrated Christmas with an orphanage. Government should make adoption easy after vigorous background checks and then unannounced monthly follow-up to the homes where the children live and schools they attend. 3 Likes |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by grandstar(m): 2:58pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
In the poor european country of Moldova, orphans are to depart at the age of 16. many of the girls end of as sex slaves in rich european countries |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by jayebros01(m): 3:14pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
SHAIBULIAR:Lol..... Bad man |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by sorom4: 3:16pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Keneking:always talking out of point 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Freeman50(m): 3:34pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Have been asking people what will be the fate of this children when they grew up and discover they had no relatives. Especially when they are of age to be their own independent and get married. These same thought of yours came to me one certain time ago, am yet to get a tangible answer. iamodenigbo1: |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by dayoonline: 3:40pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I am one. Lost both when I was 5. Graduated last year atop of my class n as d only first class in my dept from UI. Still held posts at d departmental and faculty level and engaged in extracurricular activities with normal social life. Almost done with nysc now. Being one teaches you to be resilient, circumspect and unwaveringly focused. Needless to say, I'm 21. God be with all others across the world. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by francisbiz: 3:57pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
OP, God must remember you this 2016 with favour, as you have remembered these people. This a call for us to go close to orphans & find out more, their plight are unimaginable! Best post ever in nairaland. Better than posts like pictures of davido etc 3 Likes |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by softtouch2(m): 4:02pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
iamodenigbo1: Let me respond to you based on what I have seen. There's an orphanage home located not far from my house (the kids there normal come to fetch water at my place at the peak of dry season). The home was initially established by a Nigerian couple (the couple now reside outside Nigeria) but the orphanage is now running nearly self-sufficient. Before those couple relocated, they were able to train some of then kids to adulthood. Most of which are now married and doing very well. These are the people now financing this orphanage home. They all meet to celebrate Xmas together yearly with present kids in the orphanage home. It is just amazing, I have been invited before, I thought all the people are just good samaritans, not knowing they grew up in that home and still see themselves as part of big family. @Poster Back to your question, it is not what they brag about, growing up in orphanage is not an excuse for not doing good in life. 2 Likes |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 4:04pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
dayoonline:congrats!. 4 Likes |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by 4everGrand(m): 4:26pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
calliope: Which type of upbringing did u have. Mscheew...crappy talk |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by cantara: 4:27pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Homes gives them education (formal or informal), when they get to adult stage, they are exposed to reality of life through training/workshops, they are then settled to fend for themselves and have families. of course they see others in the home as their kinsmen- foster mothers are recongnised as their mother 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 4:35pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
softtouch2:wao speechless |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 4:36pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
francisbiz:Thank you sir |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 4:37pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
iamodenigbo1: They've got to go once they age out. But not to worry, most of them have tremendous support from new extended families. 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 4:38pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
dayoonline:wao I don't know what to say 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 4:39pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Wyttcat:true sir 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by cantara: 4:41pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
dayoonline: Thank God for your life. you were able to achieve these because you face the reality of life early enough,you didn't give much room for self pity or you were determined and God by your side. Please encourage others in your home to emulate these your attributes so that they don't end up becoming children of circumstance 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by GodnGold: 4:46pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Odenigbo,good question. The last time I asked,the Reverend sister, said some of them have relatives though extended, whom they go to when they are older. Some of them have their father but their mum may be late,so the man gives them to be cared for to claim them when they are older. Others help them in the orphanage when they grow. Others leave to fend for themselves. I hope this was helpful. 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by GodnGold: 4:51pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Wyttcat:The orphanage run by the Catholic organisation I know has refused the adoption process. They are rude about it. They don't even allow you to get as far as the security post with such intentions. #mooffencetothecatholics 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 4:52pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
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Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by craleonic: 4:56pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
calliope: Sorry, what statistics are you quoting? |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by fireforfire: 5:00pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
bidemi12: Hahahahahahahahaha... dis ur ansa na killer ansa. "God wil assist u" ..lol. 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by dayoonline: 5:03pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
cantara:All glories be to God. I'll do my best 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by bidemi12(m): 5:05pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
fireforfire: Wetin i go do na. Just because NL is faceless no mean say everybody be de same na. 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by alexlee50: 5:06pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
Keneking:if you lack knowledge about a subject matter or don't have anything to say about a subject matter, why don't u keep quiet or ignore the thread and allow people who know make useful contributions for people who want to know.from your response, I perceive u are dull,aand lack creativity and self centred.have u never wanted what becomes of orphans if not adopted? Well start thinking about others around you and show love |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 5:07pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
I use to hv a friend who grew in d orphanage. she's married with kids now. D instructors in d orphanage stood as parents for her on her wedding day. 1 Like |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by LordBaelish: 5:43pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
calliope: come on! which statistics? let's face it squarely rich kids have a greater chance of survival than less fortunate. lesser motivated yes but lesser chances? NO. it's just Darwinism. |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by SexyStrawberry(f): 6:06pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
geesilver: I am quoting u coz of ur signature, not coz of ur comment, in just a few words u just spelt out my life there. |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by Nobody: 6:17pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
alexlee50: I don't know! You tell us how they go about their lives at an advanced age and stop this personality profiling and provocative remarks. |
Re: What Becomes Of Kids In Orphanages When They Grow Up? by iamodenigbo1(m): 6:19pm On Jan 09, 2016 |
GodnGold:insightful thank you |
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