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chidekings:
Pls take out time to read as I try to explain this whole thing that have kept me emotional unblanced for some time.


I am a fair average successful guy,a businessman and a student,have been in relationships and ever since I started all this relationship stuff,I had never for once been emotionally attached to anyone and that's why up to today am still frnd with almost all my exes except for one.
Now the matter at hand,I started a relationship with this young girl of 21 on october,she has the qualities I thought I need in a woman,at the initial stage ot was all lovey dovey,she was all over me until December 6,she started been aloof and distant ,still pick my calls,still claims she loved me but everything changed.i tried within my power to find out what was wrong,she told me am being too serious about the whole stuff that she is fine and if any problem arises she will tell me.after that day she started been herself again.then on 24 Dec they traveled and she promised me she will come to the city and see me on 28.fast forward to 28,she did not come called me in the night saying her cousin sis had a weeding ceremony so she could not make it and promises to make it up to me.due to network wahala in the village we could not communicate until 3 she came back.she called me telling me they are back and promised to come see me sunday .on Saturday she came around where I make my daily living,she greeted almost everyone she knew there and yet she did not come to my side telling me later in the night that she did not want to disturb me and cancelling our meeting on Sunday claiming she is travelling.

This girl have some academic challanges which have been been disturbing her ,jamb have been making a mess of her education ,this year's jamb she is to write it with her younger sis she senior ed by 2yers. I had to ask the sis without my girls knowledge to let go of her own jamb for this year for my girl to be given a last chance,which she reluctantly agreed after much persuasion from me.

Here is my dilemma ,I have been emotionally attached to this girl and I want to have a future with her,my frnds have always said that I give easily on relationships that I got to fight to some extent the one I love,and most of my exes after break up always tell me that I never loved them cus at the slightest misunderstanding I give up...that's why am trying to fight for this one,should I give up on her,should I break up with her ,should I give her space?.and just confused on what to do.

Pls forgive my long epistle and grammatical blunders and render mature advice for me.

Cc decker,sonofmark,yourmain,and all naira sees

Benard94:
dont knw y people keep following those dt av long reverse 4rm following them

chidekings:
How bro


Cc Lalasticlala,pls I need more contributions, just don't want to make a mistake I will regret

Oma307:
Lol...........










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