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Should I Do This For Love??? by cyberghost(m): 2:12am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Dear nairalanders,there is this girl that has been my crush for so long although we happen to be friends.she is an hairdresser and she is suppose to do her freedom within the last week of january,so last week i confessed my love for her and told her how i have felt for her all this while but of recent i noticed the way she replys and talk to me on fone which made me confronted her today and ask her if she is trying to send me away cos i told her i love her but she said that wasnt the cos but rather the cos of her recent attitude was her dad who promised to give her 80k for part of her preparations towards the freedom and she was disappointed cos the money wasnt ready.i asked her if i give her the money to show that i love her how would she feel but she said she will feel bad and its not possible i give her the money.,pls am a student but i dnt knw if its worth it if i give her just to prove my love 4 her. |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Nobody: 2:24am On Jan 11, 2016 |
OP, to be sincere with you. If u knw u have the money to give her, kindly do it and also don't expect her to just love you or say yes to your proposal just bcoz you helped her with the money. 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Nobody: 2:35am On Jan 11, 2016 |
the blunders in the write up . . . , i'm sorry i can't. |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Monalisa185(f): 2:37am On Jan 11, 2016 |
ladies can be very cunning and silly. .op, let her wait for her father to send her the money...she wan chop office for your head...could even be that her dad already sent her some money, but since you mentioned how much you love her, she felt she could blackmail you into giving her the money.... and to think that you mentioned being a student... anyways, I don't know her personally, so lemme not jump into conclusions....like someone said, if you feel you are equal to the task and wish to help her, please do so, but do not expect love in return... bottom line...be wise, don't come tomorrow to tell us how you got scammed...#peace 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Theanonymous9: 2:53am On Jan 11, 2016 |
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Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Nsonaso(m): 2:56am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Bro.... If you really know you're not going to be pained so much if things later didn't work out between you two, and you're ready to let it go no matter what. If you're ready to give her the money without expecting anything in return then you should give her. But if you're this kind that after giving her, you will want her to come nd sleep with you at all cost, then you shouldn't give her. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Nobody: 3:04am On Jan 11, 2016 |
u can give her part of it if u wish... buh make sure Wat u ar giving her wouldn't inconvenient u in anyway.... when u get over this situation try to observe her behavioural pattern, that is; maybe she might start demanding..... |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Charliewyt: 3:04am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Biebie bank!!! In this bank, no refund of money after paying in and no interest. If you are ready to sacrifice the money, then help. But that's not a guarantee that she is going to love you. |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by odiereke(m): 3:05am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Pls help her. Givers Never Lack. |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Nobody: 3:06am On Jan 11, 2016 |
This is why it's good to learn everything in a mahadum, not just academics. @Op, if you have been allowing the university to pass through you as you pass through it, you should know when to approach a lady. You don't approach a hairdresser apprentice lady who is getting closer to her "settlement or freedom" knowing fully well she will turn you to a Dasuki. Also xmas period is a bad timing too. |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by kokoA(m): 3:17am On Jan 11, 2016 |
First stage of Mugulization. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Kaylexzy(m): 11:03am On Jan 11, 2016 |
Monalisa185: D 1st girl in Romance section dat made common sense... Abeg, 3 bottles of Moet for u jawe... 2 Likes |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by SexyCeline(f): 11:32am On Jan 11, 2016 |
It's a 2-way thing.. It's either she'z simply gold-digging or her request was honest. Buh criously why not take that money and buy sumfin nice for your mum. |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by cruzita(f): 11:50am On Jan 11, 2016 |
SPEECHLESS |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Monalisa185(f): 1:17pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Kaylexzy:Lol...thanks for the compliment .. three bottles of moet? for me alone?...Lol...thanks again 1 Like |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Kaylexzy(m): 1:54pm On Jan 11, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Well Ur signature says it all... Hater of tribal bigotry... Seems we are on d same page... Jex dat am not a United fan... Sha, continue to keep it REAL!! |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Monalisa185(f): 10:28am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Kaylexzy:Lol...what club?? keeping it real for real 1 Like |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by lampardizik(m): 10:35am On Jan 12, 2016 |
it is easy for someone else that is not you and doesnt know exactly what you feel to say things what i'll say is that you should do whatever it is you feel is right if it was the right decision in the long run you would be happy with yourself and if not you will have no one else to blame and learn from it goodluck |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Kaylexzy(m): 10:51am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Ama Real Madrid fan, maybe dat is why I love keeping it REAL... So how u doing? |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Monalisa185(f): 10:59am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Kaylexzy:ahhh, real Madrid? great club..of course, that must be the reason.. I'm very well, and you? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Nobody: 11:02am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Ladies and their bag of tricks. They start acting funny and cook up all sort of unsavory tales just to squeeze the daylight out of any unfortunate guy's pocket who mistakenly professes his love. In her warped mind, that's her 'test of love '. SMH. And the guys be falling for this basic trick since time immemorial. Still SMH |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Kaylexzy(m): 11:10am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Lol... Sure thing... Am good... How is Ur day going? |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Monalisa185(f): 11:15am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Kaylexzy: ermmm, having a great day.. hope you doing same? 1 Like |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Kaylexzy(m): 11:18am On Jan 12, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Lol... it's getting a bit intersting tho... Been boring for long spells... Uhm... Hope u don't mind chatting up on Whatsapp or BBM? |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Omotaday(m): 11:57am On Jan 12, 2016 |
stupidity:your comment is contradictory to your moniker |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Monalisa185(f): 1:50pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Kaylexzy:ohhh....cool |
Re: Should I Do This For Love??? by Kaylexzy(m): 1:53pm On Jan 12, 2016 |
Monalisa185: Aiit... u can add me up on BBM, my pin is 24ED0AE5... Whatsapp is 08187541615... Da choice is yours... 1 Like |
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