₦airaland Forum

sauceTDA:
Torr. I think person don tiff your heart.

mimibright:
My name is Fred, friends call me CJ, lol. I am 25 yrs old. Okay I graduated from the uni some years back and followed my passion of becoming a business man In the oil and gas sector. Yea dreams come true and I own two companies presently and God is really blessing me. It happened that before the wealth I have been in series of relationships that ended up with hearth cause the girls always cheated and I always catch them. 5 different girls I really loved, the last girl I dated VIVIAN was the love of my life and I planned to marry her, introduced her to my mom and they loved her. Yea I was a hustler then, she bleeped this guy who told her he is an oil worker and washed her brain till she slept with him in less than a week she met him. Yea I found out cause I hacked her Whatsapp account (am an IT guru, pls don't ask me to teach you how to do it). For like 3 months I felt seriously ill cause of her. I later made a vow to face the money mehn and leave them girls. 3 years later I made it. Now I have a serious problem, all these girls look fake to me. I can't even date any, I don't know how to love anymore. If I want to have sex I ask my friends and even offer to pay them. I don't know what's wrong with me, no matter how hard I try to love someone I just can't When they say I love you am like yea me too as if I know what that means. My mom even offered to find a girl I can marry cause even her noticed I have this problem. I really need help forgetting what these ladies did to me but I don't know how to go about it. I don't want to punish my wife for the sins these usless girls committed.

mimibright:
I need mature advise please, before someone could seek help online don't you think he or she is dying on the inside?

VampireeM:
@bold, you ve not tried yet. Its all about mindset. Lets assume you ve not met the right lady YET cause when you do, you will even be the one head over heels for her.

mimibright:
What if I tell you ave been hearing this quote you used seens I was 12? And yes I have really tried hun.

then what it means my dear is you ve not met the right lady.... There will always be this lady out there who will change your mind and your heart.. Just believe, its inevitable and nothing is impossible in love

VampireeM:
then what it means my dear is you ve not met the right lady.... There will always be this lady out there who will change your mind and your heart.. Just believe, its inevitable and nothing is impossible in love

Csami:
Do whatever that makes you happy. Don't let the actions of four ladies and Vivian dictate the your life and the lives of other responsible women out there. If I were you, I be very happy I caught the LovePeddler before we got married. If you can handle been a single parent, why not go for it? Mama would understand with time.

mimibright:
You know sometime ago my pastor David Ibeomieo was preaching and mentioned how he married his wife and had 50naira left in the house
. And how young girls shouldn't seek weathly men to marry them but a man with vision and together they will build their empire. It makes a lot of sense to meet her before you make it. It's alot difficult now every girl acts like they will die without you . Am seriously considering single parenting...

Topestbilly:
Ok...

Something similar happened to me n marriage scares me now even tho am not rich yet talkless of u dat will feel like, I don't wanna fall into d hands of gold diggers.

My advice.

1. Do u best to forget anything about ur past relationship issues.

2. Don't see ladies like bird of the same feathers

3. Try making new female friends (don't show interest in relationship immediately)

4. Try not to reveal your status in any ways.

Lastly and very important.

5. Don't bow down to pressure, take ur time n use it wisely.

falconey:
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onyowo:
While am here crushing so hard on u ohhh,lol, just joking plsss.
Just calm down, pray and don't pressurize ur self towards loving again, when the ryt Babe comes u will love her like never before...

Affable0709:
It will affect the child. Can you cope?

mimibright:
The child won't lack anything else from his mother's affection. Somehow I believe this could be sorted out someday if it means he still go visiting mom.

Kayoski:
beta talk true.. na oil money we dey talk 4 here o

onyowo:
Lol, I know.......the guy get plenty options and am not one of the options.....

HateU2:
Keep fu3king oloshos