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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by clefstone(m): 4:09pm On Jan 13, 2016
Ok
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by ahckmedkosy(m): 4:09pm On Jan 13, 2016
Osheeeee... Angel of reconciliation. Na u hook them up before?

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by wellmax(m): 4:10pm On Jan 13, 2016
Penisinpenisout:
Awwwww, nice fingers dear.

but its not neat

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by Cooladex(m): 4:11pm On Jan 13, 2016
You guyz shud settle ur scores!
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by MissNairaland1: 4:11pm On Jan 13, 2016
Are you sure she is a lady? not all ladies are ladies........

you have to check

1. if shes a lady from birth

2. if she has really transformed to a lady

plenty others
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by darmys(f): 4:11pm On Jan 13, 2016
petkruz:


Thanks smiley this your moniker though lol penisinpenisout

lol. You made me look at the moniker again.
Maybe it is just about Pen.. asin Biro grin

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by Kreamie(m): 4:12pm On Jan 13, 2016
Birds of a feather

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by passionate88: 4:13pm On Jan 13, 2016
angry naija girls for you

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by islandmoon: 4:14pm On Jan 13, 2016
egbo! se ejo mi ni? dont mind them jare! cheap cookies cheesy
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by Nobody: 4:15pm On Jan 13, 2016
petkruz:


Thanks smiley this your moniker though lol penisinpenisout

Its not what you think, my auto correct fvck'd up, lol
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by silent10(m): 4:19pm On Jan 13, 2016
This story is nt complete. Y is she angry with d guy(ur frnd) & also wantin u 2 stop talkin 2 him U said he has hit d cookie which i blieve she gave in willingly. There's something dat took place after den, pl's we'll lik 2 knw

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by kunle75(m): 4:19pm On Jan 13, 2016
petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely


Did she called you when she was going to visit the guy behind your back NO.


Leave her until she comes back to her senses.........she should even be ashamed of herself

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by platz(m): 4:19pm On Jan 13, 2016
OK let me go nd read the story now
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by sisisioge: 4:20pm On Jan 13, 2016
grin grin grin grin you sure roll with the big league.


Back to the issue, if u still wanna be friends with them both, call them out for a hangout. Girl thirty minutes before the guy. This time lapse will afford u opportunity to discuss your stand with one before the other gets in, just in case issue is irreparable and she walks out again. Then you would know u have tried. She shouldn't be crying wolf, after all, na only cookies the guy chop...he no carry container follow grin

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by omooba969(m): 4:20pm On Jan 13, 2016
Penisinpenisout:
Awwwww, nice fingers dear.

You see am too grin, I neva c her face o but I don fall in luv wit her already. cool

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by RexTramadol1: 4:21pm On Jan 13, 2016
Addicted2Women:
Leave trash for LAWMA.
I know how many of my girlfriends that had sex with my friends & they still want me to give them money or be buying other things for them.

The kind of unfaithfulness girls of nowadays are and how cheap they are.
I dey contemplate on becoming Gay.




Mehn! I no fit lie you.........we dey similar oh


This geh afta two nacks with me run back to her shiti ex



Afta sometime she wanna run back to me,naso I say no space.....when she come broke she come dey say "I still love you" "give me your heart"......afta "pls, I wanna get jamb form, can u send the money plssssss?"


Simple reply " Tell ur daddy and mummy to contribute to your development".

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by Nobody: 4:22pm On Jan 13, 2016
This is a very regular occurrence in Nigerian circles. The only reason I'd contribute is because a lot of girls are fond of this rubbish. I did not finish the story but I'd still advice to the best of my knowledge.

First, the guy is the OP's 'male friend', code word for maga. He has been trying to get intimate since but she put him in the friend zone where he spends on her and takes her out like a proper boyfriend would. Surprise surprise he had a girlfriend already but still wants the prize between OP's thighs so he's settled for the friend zone for the meantime.

The OP's friend saw the guy, knew the OP did not want him but kept him around because there was dating potential in him. This is called pre-selection; one of the things that starts a fire between Nigerian girls' thighs - a man selected by another woman as a friend or bf is always sexier to them. She moved ahead to sleep with the guy, she did the OP a favour as friends should. She did no wrong here.

OP has found out on their escapade and now feels bad knowing if the man moves on, nothing for her again - hence her vexation. The OP's friend now sees the OP as a romantic rival and wants him to cut off all ties with the OP. Him still seeing OP means a shortage of resources going to her; this is what girlfriends do. Do not blame her because they are now bf and gf... or man and side chick - however you choose to see it.

Petkruz your female friend is right, vamoose from that guy's life and leave him alone. Also you should report yourself to the man's original girlfriend for all the times you made him spend both time and money on you. Leave him and his side chick alone, it's not her fault you never made up your mind in the first place.

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by pweetychyka(f): 4:23pm On Jan 13, 2016
How interesting!

Ignore that friend of yours jareeee!
If not u might loose something valuable becos of her n if care is not taken she myt go diabolic undecided #jezsaying

Trust No One

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by Emeraldcute(f): 4:23pm On Jan 13, 2016
DrDauda:



I guess d next thread you will open is on how your boyfriend's prick has refused to stand up; and that u need an advice on how to get it up.


This girl, why do u keep bringing your personal life matters on d public domain?


Do you have a mental problem?

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by noblegrex: 4:23pm On Jan 13, 2016
Don't feature in the scene as she never informed you or carried you along before I guessed .unless you were informed.so just act as if you never heard anything and be good to the two of them.if she's still not satisfied,then its good ridance to bad rubish. Biko nu chere.let her be
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by yungkc(m): 4:24pm On Jan 13, 2016
It is not ur fault dat her pu**y was scratching her..Wade her off jare cuz she is inmature
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by realglob(m): 4:24pm On Jan 13, 2016
ignore her jare she'ss nt a gud fwend she wud do worst things in future

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by drnoel: 4:24pm On Jan 13, 2016
raayah:
He has a fiancee too?

I think the best thing to do is to tell this man's fiancee the truth. She needs to know what her husband to be is upto!


thats where I draw the line with this ur comment. What does that got to do with the question she asked? Orisirisi!!!

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by tellwisdom: 4:25pm On Jan 13, 2016
Ok, we don hear say you do birthday undecided

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by 1miccza: 4:26pm On Jan 13, 2016
Ignore her ladies like your friend are the reasons for some guy's being indiscreet when it comes to sleeping with the opposite sex..
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by Nobody: 4:26pm On Jan 13, 2016
petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely


Runs girls and their wahala

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by tivta(m): 4:26pm On Jan 13, 2016
Girls and their wahala, I have niggas I don't talk to but they talk to niggas I talk to, why should I say that my niggas should avoid them cause of my beef? Instead all I do is say be careful. Girls have way too much drama...

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Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by austine4real(m): 4:27pm On Jan 13, 2016
Sleep wt her bf too case solved
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by austine4real(m): 4:27pm On Jan 13, 2016
Sleep wt her bf too case solved
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by morganacanta: 4:28pm On Jan 13, 2016
Bullshit the LovePeddler biko.
Who she be?
Re: She Slept With My Best Buddy And Expects Me To End Friendship With Him. by Nobody: 4:29pm On Jan 13, 2016
realglob:
ignore her jare she'ss nt a gud fwend she wud do worst things in future

Stack illiterate, can you read this poo you typed? Lazy asss motherfvcking sh!t.

Gerrahia and find your way to kindergarten.

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