obiorathesubtle:
op made a point


Where did the poster above me get all the energy or motivation to write all that?? Nigga must be a life coach or counsellor or sth.

ronald4ever:


OP, si ka anyi kalia nu, o bu part nke'm ka nkwuru. Abum ekwurekwu sha o.

asikwam na I bu ekwurekwu nwanne.. Beko kwa.. Ngwanu, ka odiri otu e si ekwu ya nu..

STFUareyouGod:
Pls what wind?

Emac34:
boss me dey wait for my seven ladies o

STFUareyouGod:
ha! That's true o. I don almost forget. I go Carry out research for you

Emac34:
just hala me wen u don see one

ronald4ever:
I once read of a story where it was alleged that Lagos home owners no longer lease their homes to single ladies, you must be married and present evidence. Such situation only add up pressure for women to get married as they are disregarded unless they can boast of a husband.

Like you said the more people feel pressured to get married, the likelihood they would marry an incompatible partner. Even the increase rate of divorce in today's society is an evidence of a marriage that should never had happened in the first place.

I'm of the believe that people shouldn't make marriage a priority in their lives and shouldn't set out looking for who to marry them. But should rather be on the search out for love and good companionship. When they find love, marriage is eminent.

Relationship is a ladder to marriage but relationship in itself isn't a springboard to marriage. Marriage mustn't be an end goal to every relationship. Embark on a relationship to experience love and return love and if marriage comes up, fine.

In a nutshell, one shouldn't date coz they want to get married, they should coz it guarantees happiness and love. Only then can we be close to certainty that we're exchanging vows with an ideal one. Else, marriages will keep crumbling.

obiorathesubtle:
asikwam na I bu ekwurekwu nwanne.. Beko kwa.. Ngwanu, ka odiri otu e si ekwu ya nu..

STFUareyouGod:
Pls what wine?

ronald4ever:
I once read of a story where it was alleged that Lagos home owners no longer lease their homes to single ladies, you must be married and present evidence. Such situation only add up pressure for women to get married as they are disregarded unless they can boast of a husband.

Like you said the more people feel pressured to get married, the likelihood they would marry an incompatible partner. Even the increase rate of divorce in today's society is an evidence of a marriage that should never had happened in the first place.

I'm of the believe that people shouldn't make marriage a priority in their lives and shouldn't set out looking for who to marry them. But should rather be on the search out for love and good companionship. When they find love, marriage is eminent.

Relationship is a ladder to marriage but relationship in itself isn't a springboard to marriage. Marriage mustn't be an end goal to every relationship. Embark on a relationship to experience love and return love and if marriage comes up, fine.

In a nutshell, one shouldn't date coz they want to get married, they should coz it guarantees happiness and love. Only then can we be close to certainty that we're exchanging vows with an ideal one. Else, marriages will keep crumbling.

justbeenpaid:


Google it if you can't deduce from the post!

pinceprinz:
BTW, op how'd u know I'm eating wine for dinner? - Nothing but wine

pinceprinz:


U dey type sha

justbeenpaid:

Type your own