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coolscott:
Picture in ur profile fine.

thanks

have been a victim, just b calm she will get over it and things will b normal.. #individual diff.. dey sha

midehi2:
thanks

no be she dey her profile o. she no get that kind dress sense

petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely

Why is she now angry,was she no paid for the cookies he gave the guy?.....Abi all the fast food eating was for free......


Sometimes I Dnt knw Wat is wrong with girls,you eat his money and he eat d cookies so Wats d prblm...is that not balance..... if he says he can no longer eat ur cookies n Wats to start taking anoda to fast food and eat cookies....Wats bad


did the guy force ha??

Wat makes ha think that she will Jst jump and be a man's 1st ,wen u knw the guy mst Hv seen several girls before you


she went to his mansion,like say anoda girl no dey wen the guy begin plan to get d mansion n u Jst wan jump from no way enter.....

Is she the 1st Dat ha given the guy cookies,she will Nt be the 1st or last....the guy s still single....


Come to think of it,does ha cookies contain gold??or was the road blocked before this guy made way.....


May she go rest jare afterall how much papa emeka d okada driver dey gv ha,for a whole nite


My dear 4gt d girl jare!!if u had stop ha or told ha he will eat n leav d cookies,she culd Hv said u Dnt want ha to Hv a boyfrnd or Dat u r jealous....

And as for you Op cookies are sweet,Bt reserved cookies are sweetest.....

Don't leave your friend let the girl go,jareh did the guy force her to do anytin

Addicted2Women:
Leave trash for LAWMA.
I know how many of my girlfriends that had sex with my friends & they still want me to give them money or be buying other things for them.

The kind of unfaithfulness girls of nowadays are and how cheap they are.
I dey contemplate on becoming Gay.

Shouldn't you be ashamed of yourself? Most of your gfs are having sex with your friends and you still have the guts to ‘yarn'?

Cheap fo.ol

charix:
This is a very regular occurrence in Nigerian circles. The only reason I'd contribute is because a lot of girls are fond of this rubbish. I did not finish the story but I'd still advice to the best of my knowledge.

First, the guy is the OP's 'male friend', code word for maga. He has been trying to get intimate since but she put him in the friend zone where he spends on her and takes her out like a proper boyfriend would. Surprise surprise he had a girlfriend already but still wants the prize between OP's thighs so he's settled for the friend zone for the meantime.

The OP's friend saw the guy, knew the OP did not want him but kept him around because there was dating potential in him. This is called pre-selection; one of the things that starts a fire between Nigerian girls' thighs - a man selected by another woman as a friend or bf is always sexier to them. She moved ahead to sleep with the guy, she did the OP a favour as friends should. She did no wrong here.

OP has found out on their escapade and now feels bad knowing if the man moves on, nothing for her again - hence her vexation. The OP's friend now sees the OP as a romantic rival and wants him to cut off all ties with the OP. Him still seeing OP means a shortage of resources going to her; this is what girlfriends do. Do not blame her because they are now bf and gf... or man and side chick - however you choose to see it.

Petkruz your female friend is right, vamoose from that guy's life and leave him alone. Also you should report yourself to the man's original girlfriend for all the times you made him spend both time and money on you. Leave him and his side chick alone, it's not her fault you never made up your mind in the first place.

Good analysis

But you forgot to to talk about the Id.iot that kept spending and hoping

1miccza:
Ignore her ladies like your friend are the reasons for some guy's being indiscreet when it comes to sleeping with the opposite sex..

There is something call responsibility. We are responsible for our actions. We always have a choice. The friend had a choice so did the best friend. Therefore you can't blame the friend for the actions of the best friend

butch:
Bro sorry about what happened to you, Just keep been the nice guy you are.......though I expect your friend to tell you he did it with your woman that's the norm for correct guys so you be cautious about the chap, however now they use your brain try get another sharp damsel so you forget about her and continue you relationship with your hommie,I dont think 87% of black sisters worth the stress they are terrible.....Think how you wan make serious cash and more closer to your God, enjoy.

87% of black sisters?

What shit are you on bro?

Penisinpenisout:
Awwwww, nice fingers dear.

perv alert!!!!!

Pls give me her number, let me see if I can hit the cookie within one week.
#NoTime

petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely

his fiance is ur best frnd? But u let him tap ur frnds cos of financial gains frm him to u lol
so from my understanding its all bout gold digging rships.
And u dnt see anytn wrong in this post? Knowing girls am sure u withheld some information bout ds story, my guess being u love-vendor ur frnds to him,hapns all d time
not judging tho bt dnt act like d SAINT here

petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely

Permit me to say both of you are LovePeddler. U and ur friend are Prostitute in disguise.

figo05:
no be she dey her profile o. she no get that kind dress sense

Lmao....you know me na

petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely

. See me see complaint. Thot you told her that he had a fiance. She got what she wanted. Maybe she thot she could dislodge his fiancee finally.
Abeg, tell her she is a shame to womanhood. You sef u r at risk, if she turn her eyes on you one day what is d probability that u too no go enter hot soup.
Na wa for all d kin friends wey surround you.

midehi2:
Lmao....you know me na

where I know u? abi we family?

figo05:
where I know u? abi we family?

is that what you said, ok no wahala, i have changed my mind

midehi2:
is that what you said, ok no wahala, i have changed my mind

Oya am sorry. plz just say YES. haba! av been wooing u for d past 2years now. by now we for don born 2 great kids o

petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely

@Kpekuz, ur friend is a control freak, she want u to also suffer frm her own stupidity. tell her to go n settle her differences n learn to once in a while block her cunt. Second can ruin a perfect friendship

petkruz:
Some friends or would I say acquaintances are quite shameless. I threw a birthday party @sailors lekki and had prominent friends in attendance including my best friend who didn't hesitate to spend lavishly as he kept ordering drinks and food. I noticed this friend of mine was exceptionally quiet all through, probably observing the whole thing.Next thing I knew she was glued to my buddy,dancing,laughing and all that.I was totally ok with it because everybody was having fun,they exchanged numbers and everybody left happily.I warned her to be careful as he wasn't single!

2 weeks later this lady started insulting the guy,saying all sorts about him,if we are hanging out and he shows up she leaves angrily,this continued for about 4months. I got to find out she went to his mansion several times,they went to all the expensive restaurants in lekki and in 2weeks the guy hit the cookie

The annoying thing now is she wants me to stop being friends with him,someone i'v known since Adam,his fiancee is my friend,he has helped me in so many ways, I can't stop talking to him because of some careless act.

My so-called friend has stopped talking to me,she doesn't hang out anymore,she doesn't call and all but biko is it my fault? Is it a crime I refused to support either of them? We all are adults and solely responsible for our decisions. Should I call both for a hangout to settle the issue? Or ignore completely

So he is just helping you like a person ?

Can you swear you have never phucked him ?

that your friend is afraid that the guy must have told you all the bad things she told him against you before he hit the smelling cookies. Instead of you to stop talking to the guy, discard your girl friend.

LOL... can't stop laughing. i understand the whole scenario.. wasn't what she was expecting. if i may ask; did she inform you before visiting this your so call friend? if not, then leave matter. she's feeling used, cheap and ashamed to face the guy. that's why she doesn't want you around him... it's ganna be a big shame...best is to avoid..nah watin long throat dey cus... laughing at some lazy ass wannabe gurls.

figo05:
Oya am sorry. plz just say YES. haba! av been wooing u for d past 2years now. by now we for don born 2 great kids o

doveda:
There is something call responsibility. We are responsible for our actions. We always have a choice. The friend had a choice so did the best friend. Therefore you can't blame the friend for the actions of the best friend

That's your view bro for me i believe if her friend wasn't so eager to have a piece of the loaded guy he wouldn't have taken advantage of the situation. She is the englishman's definition of a gold digger

happyjuliet:
Op is not ur fault jare, i mean y should i stop talking to my frd coz of her silly mistake. ur frd till say she don hama jackpot only for her to b disappointed some ladies we never ever learned.

greed.

jbekins:
Permit me to say both of you are LovePeddler. U and ur friend are Prostitute in disguise.

AWALT!