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| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by MicroBox: 7:20am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Stop thinking you are a quite guy, stop thinking you are a hard working guy, stop thinking you are a cool and easy going guy, stop thinking yourself as a permanent staff, stop thinking you are not a rude guy.... Bro die like a man than to leave like a cowered, you are a permanent staff and nobody is going to sack you just like that, stop thinking about them cos you've got bills to fix, I know you are single that why you are thinking that way.... put them to their seats politely and when you start receiving query upon query then leave as a man but not as a cowered... you are a staff always remember that, their is rules of engagement and disengagement... offend them too and kill your fear now nobody will sack you.. look at them as your colleagues with equal right.... none of them own the bank, everybody come for daily bread so don't allow someone with tons of family and friends CV in his mail box to scare you away from your hard to get work... Bro think like a graduate Oil per barrel is declining everyday and Nigeria budget is base on that, Iran have now join oil producing which will further fall the price of oil per barrel.... Guy Bleep those your oga...watch channels TV, aljezeera, BBC, TVC and Bloomberg they will save and guide you more on how to plan your day to day as regards to money and decision making.... |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Gamusgamus: 7:26am On Jan 18, 2016 |
angryhumanbeing:My friend take the bull by the horn and quite that job , there is something he and his accomplice are doing and hiding , |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by swankylay(m): 7:29am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nigerians tho..... We are scared of our quitting our 'miserable jobs' even when we are dying doing it. It's obvious op is Not happy doing that job anymore 'n we still advising him to continue....... Why? Y' all wants to shorten his life span? What he needs is support to quit cuz he's already made up his mind. I'm with u op. The job is not attached to ur destiny. U r not happy, u r not a tree, biko move. Afterall u left one bank for this. Just fall baq to something bfr u get another job cuz d only regret u myt v is not doing smtin while u r waiting. It will bore u out . |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by goshen26: 7:30am On Jan 18, 2016 |
angryhumanbeing:sincerely bro I see you becoming the BM of branch soon. This is a sign of greatness. Can u pray? I can offer myself to pray with u, if u want. Don't resign......I mean it, don't resign pls. Email me, let pray 2geda. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Justopen2U: 7:31am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Take friendliness to him, Call him Good sweet name, Make him feel that you depend on him to succeed by going to him to seek advise and opinion ( not on real issues) just make him believed you owe him your success there. Tell him how you like him, that he should be your mentor other than treating you bad. Finally make sure you are not displaying the pride of coming from another bank as most experienced hires do. Believe me this will break him |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by maryhaam(f): 7:31am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Chidizman:seconded it's firstbank. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by EARN: 7:32am On Jan 18, 2016 |
You don't quit Jobs because of a Manager, You quit job because you have something more better ahead. Endure more, sooner or later Nemesis is sure to catch up with them. Your Victory dance may just be around the corner. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by exotiqueify(f): 7:32am On Jan 18, 2016 |
davide470:May God bless u real good.... Nigerians, WE ARE OUR PROBLEM! |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Nobody: 7:34am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Confront him head and quit, so that he can't fire u. Ur work place is like ur home, without peace its like a war zone. #Sambisa |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Justopen2U: 7:38am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Gamusgamus:. Dont you ever quit if you do you have been defeated just find the best way to with His trust. You advise is not worth it |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by westlius(m): 7:42am On Jan 18, 2016 |
angryhumanbeing:My dear I may not knw u but d best solution is if u ar a christian is to raise a powerful alter/ sacrifice/offering in a believing church den call his name, if u want to sack him. Or better still transfer him u ar free to do wat u want. It works lik magic |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by pedrilo: 7:42am On Jan 18, 2016 |
derespect:u tink say na SUG politics be dis? Lol |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by obitryce(m): 7:47am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Bro i feel your pain cuz i've been in your shoes before and also had tots like you but after sound advice from my mum and good friends i summoned courage and stomached a lot of shit from my boss to a point he grew tired and now we are best of friends. He even went as far as fighting for my pay to be increased when my overall boss refused to do so. The trick and lesson i learnt is to turn his insults into jokes whenever he makes them do my duty to the best of my knowledge and leave the rest for GOD.It is well with u and i believe u know the present situation of the labour market too. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by mcdonald247(m): 7:48am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Brother, your issue is preparing you For A better Position tomorrow,pray that jona that enter youur ship should die in jesus name amen |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by ghost08(m): 7:52am On Jan 18, 2016 |
diva90:Well said. I was once a victim |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Nobody: 7:52am On Jan 18, 2016 |
angryhumanbeing:Don't resign! Not because of the scarcity of good jobs, but because most wicked bosses project their employee's potentials and feel threatened themselves, so the next to best they can now do is frustrate and harass you into resigning. See the glory ahead and endure the cross! It happens almost in all workplaces. Your story is a carbon-copy of mine. Even the supposed Christians in work place now compromise and bear false witness like my boss just because they were promised a job or looking for 'favour.' OP, there is something about you that is bigger that what that situation entails. If everything moves you, then you can't move anything. As a Christian, I'd leave you with this scripture...one of the best. If you fail in the days of adversity, it is because your strength is small - KJV |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Honestly1: 7:54am On Jan 18, 2016 |
You coward! How dare you allow an unbeliever to threaten you.. .. I believe you are an unbeliever yourself.... Cos if not, a one night prayer is enough to remove him from that office for life. Take spiritual charge and Raise up to him physically that he should leave you alone and let you do your job in Peace or else!.. .. But before you do that, you must have taken charge spiritually. Don't leave ur job o. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by butanep(m): 7:55am On Jan 18, 2016 |
dammytosh:Your explanation is different from what you have here. It doesn't correlate. You need check your correlation skills. People like you are always afraid to take risk hence remain as slave to others. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by AmyBelg(f): 7:55am On Jan 18, 2016 |
In Nigerian don't you have a pen recorder or a pen camera recorder ? Record his ass like 5 times or more and use it as evidence on him and if it's a pen camera you can video the other idiot and you report them both and ask for a transfer. Do not resign. angryhumanbeing: |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Nobody: 7:58am On Jan 18, 2016 |
My dear friend, the type of your case is everywhere, but let me ask you, have you reported this case to your HR ? 2ndly you need to pray, mention all the bad guys name in your prayers, let the fire and power of God Almighty fight your battle for you, my dear friend as i speak to you, you need to wake up in the middle of the night and pray, fire words of prayers and mention their names in your prayer. You need not to resign your appointment. okay |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by stainlex(m): 8:02am On Jan 18, 2016 |
I'd suggest you look into the employment/labour laws of the country, as well as the reporting measures of your company handbook, gather evidence (video recordings and internal memos and all), don't stop reporting him, and when the HO still fail to do anything, sue the fūcking bastarrd's ass and resign. Or Set the fūcking bastard up. Instead of worrying about him, use the time to plot some sweet pro revenge on his sorry asss. Get him fired or something like that. Either way, don't resign without frustrating the bastarrd. If you do, you lose! |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by MaxyBrown(m): 8:11am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Get the HCMD involved (by that you know some of us know where you are coming from). Write letter like one of those that have left would have done and see how things turn out from there. You are educated first to be able to defend yourself and not be treated like a nonentity. Every other thing is secondary. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Abbey2sam(m): 8:16am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Emmaesty:the same bank came to my mind |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by dammytosh: 8:22am On Jan 18, 2016 |
butanep:It still point to u lacking understanding. The Op will resign and go into business like u advised. I hope that settles it. Your last conclusion though, but no need talking about it. ![]() |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Nobody: 8:24am On Jan 18, 2016 |
I really feel your pains.What you experience is common in banks especially when the boss hates you for no reason.My advice is for you to get another job or find a good business that will sustain you before you quit. If you quit now without an alternative source of income,you'll regret your decision and life aferwards will be so unbearable for you.What makes you a man is when you know the right time to take any action or decision that'll better your life. Taking decision based on emotion Isn't the best for now and been depressed at your place of work Is also bad for your health,therefore,your decision should be based on how you would cope with life without an income. To me,your boss remains insignificant if you decide to ignore him because he must surely get tired one day.Leaving your job because of that fool makes you a man that lacks the spirit of perseverance.Just think twice. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by sam4(m): 8:24am On Jan 18, 2016 |
angryhumanbeing:i will recommend 3day's fasting n prayers. Ask me for d prayer point |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by sorepco(m): 8:34am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Why should resign? That is exactly what he wants....and maybe he sees you as a threat to his own position. I will say you write an anonymous letter to zonal office directorate. If you are not satisfied with their intervention you send another letter to head office. Make sure you write in details the goings on in that branch. Come to think of it sef....maybe you are one proud geezer eho thinks he is superior to others....look urself well opp. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by seaga: 8:35am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Nienie:So Access is that bad, because most guess has been access, but good advice by the way |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Dammiesugar(f): 8:39am On Jan 18, 2016 |
I smell Access Bank too, a friend resigned from there recently due to a bad boss anyway all these aren't new my dear. I am in a similar situation, it's just that my own is a one man's business and this Guy harasses me like shit but am hoping to resign soon because I can't deal with a boss that gives me high blood pressure. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Seun360(m): 8:43am On Jan 18, 2016 |
maryhaam:I applied for that job but FBN didn't get back to me. The OP is just been lazy, what's wrong in being an ATM custodian? Come Wema Bank and do marketing na there u go know how far. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by Nobody: 8:43am On Jan 18, 2016 |
angryhumanbeing:Oga, save money o and start business. Some of these managers just hate staff for nothing. In my last place of work, my boss once voiced out during one of his hateful outbursts that, " Do i want to collect his position " ? Sometimes, it's jealousy, incompetence, wickedness etc. I saved up money and peft, after suffering under 2 bad managers for over 4 years. Have a target business and capital. Dont just leave like that. |
| Re: Am About To Resign Because Of My Boss Wickedness,harrassments And Embarassments! by seaga: 8:44am On Jan 18, 2016 |
Dammiesugar:Harassment? That I really don't like, but is it... |
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