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It all happened during the festive period,me and my friend travelled home together in his car just so we can hook up for few days in his town before i get to my place since his town is close to mine. We left on the 20th and logded in a hotel in Benin for two days before heading to Asaba. during those two days all my friend did was bang bang bang.as if dat was not enough when we got to Asaba...he continued to the extend that he even banged one in his car.I tried talking to him on several occasions but he wasn't trying to hear it,we even had a quarrel because of it. His marriage is just 2 years and they are blessed with a son,the wife is someone i love so much being a very caring wife and a good mother too.i am very close to the wife too maybe cos i was their best man.but ever since we came back i have been avoiding her cos i kinda feel guilty myself knowing that i can't tell her what went down and she has been kinda suspicious lately..cos she has been asking a lot of questions about our trip.pls pals how do i desolve her suspicion without keeping distance from her.i am tired of lying to her.

Leave the area... if u dnt want to tell just leave and come back wen u can face her now

Keep your cool and relate with her as usual. Don't be the bearer of bad news. Keep praying for your friend

[color=#990100]hmmm.. A friend indeed.. Smh[/color]

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Tell her to ask her husband about any doubts of hers. If she persists, expose the cheating fuccker of a husband!

What kind of suspicion is she beginning to have? We need more details and what brought about the suspicions. But I'd tell you to not divulge any info meant to be secret to her. Not your business if her hubby fvcks around. Abeg face front.

just be a good friend and keep advising him and it seems u like d wife

But why.

Live her alone....don't be the cause of ending a two year old marriage....let her find out her self.......more Over watin go make you dey close to person wife..... Simply because you are the best man of the we doing.....reduce being closer to her.... There are so many things you can be close to.... not someone's wife#hide to pple's advise

Op mind your business,the next time she ask you such question,direct her to the hubby.


Dont interfere in their marital life else it will fall back at you.

Live her alone....don't be the cause of ending a two year old marriage....let her find out her self.......more Over watin go make you dey close to person wife..... Simply because you are the best man of the wedding.....reduce being closer to her.... There are so many things you can be close to.... not someone's wife#hid to pple's advise

Marriage has now turned to a thing that can be scorned with reckless abandon.


I give up on marriages of this generation ....

dhebo:
just be a good friend and keep advising him and it seems u like d wife

I kinda I have d same feeling! @Op, Keep advising him to change his ways. Also keep Praying for him to Change

I already know your type bro. You hardly hide your feeling that's why the smart woman began suspecting sth but in whatever you do, never put asunder even if it's for a genuine reasons.

All I can say is, that your friend will influence you with his bad habit. Do away with him, he isn't the type of friend to keep company. Dont tell his wife, it will bring lot of troubles for you and the family. Your friend will hate you, his wife will hate him, his wife will also hate you for keeping this from her, and also she will feel like you were the one who arranged everything from the start.

Just stay far from that your friend, he's a bad egg. He just got married not up to 2 years and see the shît he's doing already . I hope he gets what is coming his way, useless cheater foolish mugu of a husband

Not a good one

AwesomeDuru:
Tell her to ask her husband about any doubts of hers. If she persists, expose the cheating fuccker of a husband!

does he ve evidence,prolly pix to support his claims

viceldo:
Live her alone....don't be the cause of ending a two year old marriage....let her find out her self.......more Over watin go make you dey close to person wife..... Simply because you are the best man of the we doing.....reduce being closer to her.... There are so many things you can be close to.... not someone's wife#hide to pple's advise

when i say close it's not what u think....i am a family friend and the closest friend to the husband she knew even while they were dating..she took me as her brother smh.

RadicallyBlunt:
@bolded -this is a well orchestrated evil. You don't deserve to be forgiven. Ur husband shall cheat on u worsely than this.

@italics -you just stated what will avenge her against ur home in the nearest future

Wicked fool.

read ND understand bfor commenting.... the story tella is a male... or HV best man start becoming females??

RadicallyBlunt:
@bolded -this is a well orchestrated evil. You don't deserve to be forgiven. Ur husband shall cheat on u worsely than this.

@italics -you just stated what will avenge her against ur home in the nearest future

Wicked fool.

I am trying hard to fathom what u are assimilating... and who u are referring to.

kaynaychee:
read ND understand bfor commenting.... the story tella is a male... or HV best man start becoming females??

I tire o......which kind thing be dis one.

kaynaychee:
read ND understand bfor commenting.... the story tella is a male... or HV best man start becoming females??

djgrafiti:
I am trying hard to fathom what u are assimilating... and who u are referring to.

Thanks for the notice.

djgrafiti:
when i say close it's not what u think....i am a family friend and the closest friend to the husband she knew even while they were dating..she took me as her brother smh.

guy once again....stay off someone's wife

RadicallyBlunt:
Thanks for the notice.

UWC

viceldo:
guy once again....stay off someone's wife

nna menh? try understand before commenting ?? staying off someone's wife as if there was string's attached to dis closeness

ronald4lif:
What kind of suspicion is she beginning to have? We need more details and what brought about the suspicions. But I'd tell you to not divulge any info meant to be secret to her. Not your business if her hubby fvcks around. Abeg face front.

She noticed i no longer relate with the hubby the way i used to and she knows i am a very disciplined person..so she is wondering what has transpired btw us that made me not keep in touch like before..at least b4 d travel everything was cool btw us..and knowing that d hubby has a reputation for being a player in the past while they were dating and still keep in touch with some of his ex on social network...she is curious to know what is going on and am not ready to tell her.My guy has been acting weird too...no longer leave his phone like he used to..always with it and password longer than Third mainland bridge.

kaynaychee:
nna menh? try understand before commenting ?? staying off someone's wife as if there was string's attached to dis closeness

There are some words you can use to insult person you mustn't call names.......oga I read the post ok

ok

Even ur gal Faith is so unfaithful.