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Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Welcomme: 5:30pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
After reading this boy' s post and peoples' comment, I just feel lyk slapping this boy. Boy, I am seriously shaking my head for u. Wat is freedom without money? I gained my freedom at d age of 15, reasons being that I hav no father and my mum no strong financially. I hear and see ''ween' goin to sec and university. I had to shuttle hustling and study. Op, Se ope tie...If na d freedom u want, come and take it, me I need d protective parents. 5 Likes |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by NemzySeries(m): 5:36pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
d kingdom of God suffereth violence & d violent taketh by force.....ma parents are very very social especially ma dad but dere are sum issues dat u dunt jst talk wit mouth if not d'll not understand xcept u take action.....i remember in 2007 after secondary sch ma dad said no driving till I'm 18, I enta 18 e say no driving till I get admission, I kon get admission e say till I graduate....oboi I start to steal car Õoº°˚ ˚°ºoo. dem beat me tire till once day I carry 3k go meet pman say I wan do licence na so d man tire complete d money & 2day I'm d chief driver....but d most important tin is dat u shd open up to ur parent & make dem see tinz slightly frm ur view 4 once @least......do u guys hold family meeting or a social platform were d parents & kids open up deir minds?.....we do in ma hauz & na wine n pepper soup ma papa dey use flex us 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Tosman12(m): 5:51pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Dragovich: From your write-up. You are obviously still a kid and still need to be treated as such. Ungrateful teenagers of nowadays. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Panzerfaust(m): 5:58pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
The only language such parents understand is REBELLION. Don't waste your time trying to change who they are. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by toaskid(m): 6:13pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
XieXie: bro, I seriously won't mind being friends with u |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by ewizard1: 6:17pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
cutebobo:Exactly migth thought... I have promised i'll only call him (my dad) to say hi and ask how everything is going. Would start planning my own fatherhood from there. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Rhea(f): 6:25pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Dragovich: This is an opportunity for you to learn to be patient. It seems like your parents are denying you the right to emancipate and be yourself (grant you freedom to do as you please). I would advise that you focus on your studies and strive to graduate as scheduled and then get a job. When you become financially independent, you can then move out of your parents protection and free yourself. Different parents have different ways of raising their children. It is hard to judge them if you do not have a child of your own. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by ewizard1: 6:28pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Welcomme: Its not that way you are actually looking at it... |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Barigaboy(m): 6:32pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Dragovich:wow, I need to let u no d truth. Your parent wants d best for u. I have learn to try n understand my parent over d years. N I saw they knew abt life more than I do. If u notice, u will notice that your friends loves your matter that's d impact of parent. A friend had once felt like killing himself becos his mom told him to breakup with his ex. Which he later find out to have committed a series of abortion n also have 2 children with a man. D mother just felt the lady was a wrong choice before he later discovered n thank d mom for devising a means to separate them. U still have a long way to go. When d time comes they would surely grant u your freedom without u demanding. Don't forget that is not only your mom that his involve. U said your parent meaning they have plans for u |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Nobody: 7:15pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
This is exactly one of the reasons Some females are too scared of getting into relationships and cant even maintain it and some don't even see Suitors, cos either the strict Father or Mother would have chased them awa with a cutlass, thinking they want to spoil their daughter... 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by lilreese: 7:57pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Smh |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Mekzmoney(m): 8:13pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
20+ and ur complaining.. During my late 20s,my mum was so harsh to d extent dat she always embarrass me in public with insults and all that. Even pour water on a lady dat was standing close to ma house just to say "hello". Then I was already a graduate. M in my early 30s now but each tym I visit home 4rm lag to see her, we would alway quarrel cos she's still harsh and very rude on me any time we're discusing. Even if I return very late at night, she would not talk to me d next day and wen she do, she wud start with insult. So, u see? Ur parent are even beta than sum parents.. Its because dia so over protective and the always think that ur still dat litle baby. So just play along. Its 2 late to misbehave cos of dia attitude. All u need is to finish ur studies then leave d house and hustle 4 ur self. 4get those cars and work for yours. And finally, don't 4get ur God. Always seek him and he would always guide and favor u. Dragovich: 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by lonelylove: 8:39pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Lucky u that has a parent who cares n seeks for ur welfare,u have mouth to say u r beginning to hate them. Sorry to say this but u r still a kid. Lemme ask u,if dey liv u nw,cn u take care of ur needs only,like all ur toiletries alone let alone feeding ursef,imagine! Wht do u want sef, to go out n club,party with friends or ur bf abi? Keep late night ryt? Don't worry freedom go purge u soon. Sm pple wish 2 see theirs evn 4 two seconds. U need to grow up n ask for wisdom. May God guard u |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Bizzyliss(m): 8:44pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
If they are driving u crazy pls match brake with care ooo |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Aybamdbay(m): 9:37pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
I also had same issue. Bt overcame it by staying where I presently. Bt still my phone keeps ringing. At least, I have free of mind. Anyways, You just hv to take in with them. I believe they dnt hate u. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by CioAngels(f): 9:53pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
You cannot hate your parent becos they are building you for future. Let me ask you, does your not driving a car make you less a man that you are growing into? The biggest make you will make is going to look for friends in the wrong places. You are not working yet and someone suggest to get selfcnn, don't make the mistake that you will regret for life. If you get a job today or even next year you will still leave with your parent, qed. Well, or else you get a job out of the state you are, but don't be too sure this will be a visa for independent. Your parent cares and loves you. You are lucky aren't you. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Kayswat(m): 10:44pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
See this one oooo, your own matter still better now. I'm usually his hand bag to saloon every Sunday making me scrap all what's on my head and it will be as smooth as my laps My graduate sister still had ten strokes of cane this evening cos she didn't pick his call and also didn't tell him she's gonna register her sim |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by akuracy(m): 11:02pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
sickstars:I keep seeing you everywhere I go like Mtn |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by obibanks: 11:18pm On Jan 23, 2016 |
Dragovich, don't mind all this people telling you not to express your feelings. It's true your parents are treating you in the way they "think" is best for you, but you should know what is best for yourself. It's not your parents that will live your life for you. Just try and start hustling & earning "legally" |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Goridoe(m): 12:25am On Jan 24, 2016 |
darkenkach: [size=14pt]lol, leave ahm, when dem buy cage for ahm, hin go know wetin sup[/size]. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Goridoe(m): 12:27am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Kayswat: kikikikiki, omo this one pass me gidigan ... ano fit to laff ur papa na soldier? |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Goridoe(m): 12:29am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Welcomme: [size=14pt]LOBATAN... one man's food, na another man's poison.![/size] 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Nobody: 5:02am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Look @ this OP moaning about "not being allowed to drive a car". Smh. Kids of nowadays....sha. Go out there and see how many families can't boast of eating a good meal per day talkless of having a car. And by the way, you'd appreciate your parents' efforts and seeming strictness in the nearest future, prolly when you have children of your own. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Welcomme: 5:12am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Goridoe:Naso my brother |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Kayswat(m): 9:36am On Jan 24, 2016 |
Goridoe:Hin own pass soldier own, that always baffle my mind that if this man now happen to o be a soldier nko? I've got nothing against him after all he is my father. My going home from school self is once in a year or once in 2 years, I always endure the little time I do spend with him |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Dom2020: 9:38am On Jan 24, 2016 |
guy ur parents mean well for u, you don't have to hate them. somehow the re trying to protect u base on their own upbringing, all u have to do is endure and strive to be the best in whatever u do. by so doing u'll make them proud and the will relax knowing the make u the man that the want u to be, pls, pls do not compare ur parents to other parents. The all grew up in different environment with different upbringing. |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by U2ice(m): 9:41am On Jan 24, 2016 |
XieXie: Dat ur neighbour is not d only child,he's d second the car is d 1st |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Olawale995(m): 2:05pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Well if they are driving you crazy, get out of the bus! |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by ManuelRichard(m): 3:09pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
U really wanna know what u should do? ANS: Since u think u r martyred n need d necessary level of freedom n space...,why not call a meeting..lols call them up,sit with them,beging by appreciating them,then express yourself and have a meaningful dialogue....about the whole ish.. But again,I believe u can earn their trust n confidence by d level of maturity u show in dealings,attitude and decisions....n did will in turn earn u ur needed space.. except u ain't as ready as u claim...u can't b matured only in ur own eyes...or because u r seeing ur mates....n dia parents... D world n ur parents will know when u r matured enough....lemme leave u here...4more cancelling,Manuel Ovie is my name..can chat me up on fcbk |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Jennystyle(f): 9:19pm On Jan 24, 2016 |
Am a graduate in my mid twenties, my curfew at home is 7pm, I cant sleep out or travel for a friends wedding, things i have to endure, till I get a job and leave their house, or better still get married. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by Prechicliff(f): 10:35am On Jan 25, 2016 |
eyaaa..just endure |
Re: My Parents Are Driving Me Crazy! by XieXie: 2:47pm On Jan 25, 2016 |
U2ice:lols.... You may be right.... But he has moved on a long time ago and counted all those things he was denied as nothing. |
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