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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 3:49pm On Jan 26, 2016

Damsel21:
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, what shld I do,, how will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more Pls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness

You were not dating anybody...

So all these while, boys no dey toast you

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 4:00pm On Jan 26, 2016

Damsel21:
I sincerely agreed with u,putting my eggs in one basket is d mistake I've made in my entire sch days,i wish I can turn bk d hands of time...I wade every guy away Jst bcus I felt I was in relationship...jst put me in ur prayers I really need to this off my mind for good...

[font=serif]Wow! this is sad...really.

I'm trying really hard not to be Judgmental.. coz if I had known better, I'd say You're Naive.....

Anyways, I'd pray for You! cheesy

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 4:03pm On Jan 26, 2016

Cutehector:
Esther relax when u get to Dat age, u will totally understand what she is passing through

What was she doin at ages 21, 22, 23, 24, 25, 26 when home boys were chasing her? Maybe forming hard to get I guess.. buh look at her nw. So neeeedy.. needy for a guy. Awwww. Aren't we guys awesome?

LoL!

At 27?? She's still VERY young Hector! undecided

Madonna's almost 60 and still has suitors..
My Granny's also Re-Marrying Soonest! so, Age doesn't really matter...

LoL! you guys are Annoying jaweh...
By the way..did anybody ever tell You you're a big Hypocrite? lipsrsealed

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Cutehector(m): 4:05pm On Jan 26, 2016

Estharfabian:
LoL!

At 27?? She's still VERY young Hector! Madonna's almost 60 and still has suitors..
My Granny's also Re-Marrying Soonest! so, Age doesn't really matter...

LoL! you guys are Annoying jaweh...
By the way..did anybody ever tell You you're a big Hypocrite?

lol what have I done dis time?

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 4:11pm On Jan 26, 2016

Onpe fun eee, having this feeling she would have turned down some serious guys,

In those 3years na how she wan go France she dey think. Lof wan tin tin embarassed

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Laveda(f): 5:00pm On Jan 26, 2016

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]seriously all I can do is laugh.

Dating voice and picture for 3years. [/color]

Dee ..this is too funny

3years? Love is indeed blind

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 5:11pm On Jan 26, 2016

Ebubeslym:
Ladies and Gentlemen.

Let's pray for a sister who is dating a voice and a picture.

A moment's silence.

am gonna fast for her sef cheesy

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by naijaboiy: 5:12pm On Jan 26, 2016

Laveda:
Dee ..this is too funny

3years? Love is indeed blind

[color=#1980BC]Lool...asin ehn!

Like I know people do long distance relationship and stuff,I also did it too. But I never reasoned that I'll stay as long as 3years without seeing my partner.

How did she even possibly trust that he wasn't cheating or not joking with her?

They never met,there were no hugs,no touching,kissing or the ultimate sex. Not even an intimate moment.

What the fück was she holding on to as memories?

Skype? Nûde pictures of his dick? Emojis of kisses and hugs or his husky voice over the phone?

I just can't get it mehn!

Love isn't blind it's the people into it who are actually blind.

Damnit!!! [/color]

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by danbrowndmf(m): 5:16pm On Jan 26, 2016

I have been talking to a girl on phone now for the past 6years,have not seen hear before.from 2go to facebook,to whatsapp & the rest. It fun sha... But in your own case if the guy is not serious about you again like he use to do then i'll advice u to move on... & do u really love him or you just fell inluv with him cus he said he stays in france? Or how sure you that this particular guy reside in france sef? My advice to you is "No what you want".

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by hooklover: 5:28pm On Jan 26, 2016

I advise u move on settle down to a real relationship don't hurry into it take ur time to get wat u want.

Warn dose sisters of urs putting pressure on u to bring somebody to flee from u dey don't mean well for u dey only after d rice and money dey will make from ur head.

If u choose wrongly dey will laugh at u and blame u did u notice it while dating forgetting d pressure dey put on u.

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by flokii: 6:10pm On Jan 26, 2016

Ok na..

facebook love.. waiting for ur message on my wall, nibo lo lo *singing cheesy

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Laveda(f): 6:24pm On Jan 26, 2016

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Lool...asin ehn!

Like I know people do long distance relationship and stuff,I also did it too. But I never reasoned that I'll stay as long as 3years without seeing my partner.

How did she even possibly trust that he wasn't cheating or not joking with her?

They never met,there were no hugs,no touching,kissing or the ultimate sex. Not even an intimate moment.

What the fück was she holding on to as memories?

Skype? Nûde pictures of his dick? Emojis of kisses and hugs or his husky voice over the phone?

I just can't get it mehn!

Love isn't blind it's the people into it who are actually blind.

Damnit!!! [/color]

This one is crazy mehn, 3 good years? I've been in this before, but after a month I became lonely I felt like seeing the face behind the picture and voice..

How she held on for 3years is surprising and was even hoping for marriage? Not even a person in same country? Like she didn't get any toaster within this period?Seems some ladies are becoming more foolish as the day goes by
Any online relationship I get into if within at least a month we don't see? I'll call it quit, why stress myself over some Nigga who's very far from me?
Loving without having good times with your partner?
Then there's absolutely no reason going into it

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by IamLEGEND1: 7:44pm On Jan 26, 2016

France, you say?

b*tch pls,that guy is chilling inside a brown-roofed face-me-i-face-you apartment in Ibadan.

I guarantee it.

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Toks2008(m): 7:50pm On Jan 26, 2016

Damsel21:
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, what shld I do,, how will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more Pls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness

I bliv in online hook up but i will nver indulge in online dating..

If he is truly serious,he would have made a decisive move so snap out of it and move on.

my humble submission.

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by leoblaze(m): 8:54pm On Jan 26, 2016

You wan tell us say u Neva bleep ....I mean quash for 3 years while waiting ..

You must b d snr greatgrand uncle daughter of Lai ..

Keep waiting ...Jesus is coming

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Gofwane(m): 9:19pm On Jan 26, 2016

Smartguy001:
Kilode not even 1 person...omo which kind guy b dat 1 he nids sum1 he can ride(f**k) wen he comes from France dats all ....open ur eyes girl

baaaaad guy, you sabi the scope wella. The guy is just arranging for a kitty he can shine anytime he lands in naija.

Make i no lie, me self dey do am. Afterall if you fail to plan, then you plan to fail be dat. Shikenan!!!

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 9:20pm On Jan 26, 2016

Naughtysite:
You were not dating anybody...

So all these while, boys no dey toast you

Ofcus I had a lot of guys chasing after me but I decide to bt faithful that was why I nevr gave in to any other guy

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by ourchoice(m): 9:23pm On Jan 26, 2016

99% of Nigerian girls dream to marry a guy living abroad....and 99.99% of Nigerian girls in nursing school pray and daydream to marry a guy abroad too, especially USA, and this is the result!

Op wanted to marry an abroad based guy at all cost...forming 'taken' for serious-minded guys here in Nigeria just because of a guy living abroad.

anyway, at least u enjoyed the Euro he was sending to u while u were in school and u didn't give us any grin

....now he's not sending Euro again because France and Europe in general are facing bad economy, increase in job loss, poor welfare...your eyes come clear.

What can I say to u now? Be patient and pray...but tell him your mind...you maybe lucky to find a serious man shaa...though it's difficult now with the harsh economy in Nigeria now....many guys aren't ready to even marry again cheesy

Take heart, time solve every life issues, be patient

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by ourchoice(m): 9:26pm On Jan 26, 2016

Damsel21:
Ofcus I had a lot of guys chasing after me but I decide to bt faithful that was why I nevr gave in to any other guy

You can still be faithful to him now; 27 is not too old to marry.

Join the feminists; there are many of them I see here on nairaland...make friends with them and u will stop bothering about marriage...they hate marriage and men, try feminism or remain faithful to your French guy

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by akatekpe(m): 9:39pm On Jan 26, 2016

Food don done for nairaland nicurs wey de at alert to PM lonely babes.OP d face 2 of the online dating is sure .. grin

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 10:33am On Jan 27, 2016

Damsel21:
Ofcus I had a lot of guys chasing after me but I decide to bt faithful that was why I nevr gave in to any other guy

Some of those boys abroad are jobless and are not living a decent life.

So dont trust someone you have not seen. Even if i have seen you, i cannot date you if you stay in Lagos and i stay in Abuja. Long distance relationship is a NO NO.

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Skillz21(m): 11:50am On Jan 27, 2016

simple. Move on But be careful not to appear desperate, cos of awa boys.

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by prettymina(f): 11:53am On Jan 27, 2016

Slimzybaby:
.

Someone has been masturbating for 36 months... Chai! Babe una village witches has finally remembered you. Na to marry okada man remain 4u...though i would advice you to go for a keke owner.

why not just show maturity and give a reasonable advise to a sis in need..rmbr the clock had not stop ticking....it could happen to anybody

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Slimzybaby(m): 12:18pm On Jan 27, 2016

prettymina:
why not just show maturity and give a reasonable advise to a sis in need..rmbr the clock had not stop ticking....it could happen to anybody

.

It's anything wrong with my advice?

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Smartguy001(m): 1:18pm On Jan 27, 2016

Gofwane:
baaaaad guy, you sabi the scope wella. The guy is just arranging for a kitty he can shine anytime he lands in naija.

Make i no lie, me self dey do am. Afterall if you fail to plan, then you plan to fail be dat. Shikenan!!!

bad guy

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 2:18pm On Jan 28, 2016

Damsel21:
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, what shld I do,, how will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more Pls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness

Don't worry dear. U will only get the best in life. Only be a lil patient, as per being lonely try and socialize.

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Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by prettymina(f): 2:42pm On Jan 28, 2016

Exactly what I wil also advise her to do.

dukeolumde:
Don't worry dear. U will only get the best in life. Only be a lil patient, as per being lonely try and socialize.

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by skywalker240(m): 2:49pm On Jan 28, 2016

Damsel21:
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, what shld I do,, how will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more Pls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness

08169821237
OOya call me

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by skywalker240(m): 2:50pm On Jan 28, 2016

Damsel21:
Good day my fellow NLDERS,had to create another account for this thread..
Am a young lady bin in a relationship wit a guy who is based in France for 3yrs now,we met on facebook nd we've nt seen each other till this moment that am writing this,duo he was caring nd supportive,I told him abt my family nd my sisters nd close family knws abt him!but he ver introduce me to any member of his family. Wen I ask he said I shld not worry I enjoyed d relationship wen I was in sch now am out of sch am feelin so lonely,he hadly call or send msg again I will be 27 this year nd my family wants me to get married this year..all my 3yrs of waiting I don't knw anybody wit him,I was thinking one day he will introduce me to him family but he never did..am back home now no boyfriend or fiance,my sis is wailing that I shld bring a man home,am dying nd crying in silent, what shld I do,, how will I overcome this?i don't hav a job yet that can keep me busy,this hurts me the more Pls matured minds help me overcome this my present situation,am dying in lonliness

08169821237
OOya call me
Hee hee hee hee

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by herboshedhe(f): 2:59pm On Jan 28, 2016

OP,I really feel sorry for you,please brace up and move on with your life,that guy isn't yours',take it or you leave it,get busy and socialize the more,HE could be around you even when you least expect...I'll be praying for you#cheers#

Re: Pls Help I Dont Knw If Am Dying Of Loneliness, by Nobody: 3:14pm On Jan 28, 2016

prettymina:
Exactly what I wil also advise her to do.

Really? Now am beginning to like u very much..

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