sukkot:
yup. its called TRANSPARENCY. its part of the package. they have many laws that make everything they do transparent and above board. thats why all your brothers are dying at the british embassy to get a visa. because they want a piece of that civilized lifestyle.

Pidggin:


No woman will act like that if she feels respected, he must have mocked her, maybe she was trying to correct him and he said it to mock her. Don't jump into conclusion without hearing both sides. Guys harrass women a lot here, sometimes they take it too far and end up like this. Save your vengeance for something else.

doveda:


You really need to be smarter

1) I couldn't find a proof of a man who lost his job because he complimented his colleague. I didn't say I do not understand what is going with sexual harassment, I asked you to give a case

2) The second news is a different story entirely. The circumstance of that was based on a moral ground not legal ground. A married man sent a private message to a strange woman on a professional website!!! It was not enough to fire him and if he wanted to fight his employees he would have done so and won!

I don't think you read the article and the email he sent, if you did you would not have included it

3) I know what sexual harassment or harassment is. I know what type of behaviours and compliments that would be lead to termination of employment and what not

magicminister:


even if he mocked her, can't she mock hi back?
why resort to physical violence?

Timbuktou:


Nah, I'd say the relevant transparency is the one where the money is fully accounted for. Nobody cares if a boss is harmlessly complimenting their subordinates or pinching their butts. Just don't mess with my money.

The ones killing themselves one visa are just there economic reasons. Giving the same opportunity to make a living or create wealth, desperation for visa for a "civilised" country would be non-existent.

Timbuktou:


For someone who claims to be lettered in the law, you don't sound very bright. The law specifically states that verbal expressions of a certain nature will b considered harassment, the punishment of which would range from mild disciplinary action to termination of employment. I provide a link showing the reluctance of men to even have any innocuous dealings with women, let alone speak to them and youre asking for case files? Hold on, I've petitioned the Attorney-General for the files. I'll mail them to you once in my possession. I'm sure Sukkot will be willing to help you out if my documents come late.

doveda:


I didn't ask you for explanation. I asked you to provide proof of how ‘beautiful' have amounted to termination of employment.

doveda:


I didn't ask you for explanation. I asked you to provide proof of how ‘beautiful' have amounted to termination of employment.

Kgdavid:
That guy is a wuss... first of all, those are baby slaps and second of all no unarmed female soldier dares that with me...is she mad? I'd rather let her male colleagues give me the beating of my life than tolerate such from a woman. In fact, unarmed, one on one no soldier will ever do such a thing to me.

sukkot:
thats the black mans thinking. ' money money money but no ethics '. this why we are third world. open up your mind. elevate your mind from the hell it is currently in. your mind is trapped in hell

HARDBUOI:


bro chill abeg stop saying wat u cant do.
u can say that if they are outside their barracks or premises,.
but u dare not try anything stupid when u are in army barracks except u want ur burial to come too soon.

chat2deen:


I see! U have mouth ba? I don't need to baptize myself. Am just a Nigerian serving my fatherland, if u are cadet, let my remind u of d core value d very last among dem which is "respect for others", surely am from dia. I and many others on this forum where fireeaters.

Pidggin:


That's the way they react, if you interact with military personnels you will know that they are quite physical, I grew up in a barrack so trust me on this.

There is a place and time for everything don't flirt with an officer on duty, she must have felt insulted. I am not supporting violence but one needs to be cautious when dealing with people.

Kgdavid:


don't you dare project your own sense of incapability on me...how dare you?

Pidggin:


That's the way they react, if you interact with military personnels you will know that they are quite physical, I grew up in a barrack so trust me on this.

There is a place and time for everything don't flirt with an officer on duty, she must have felt insulted. I am not supporting violence but one needs to be cautious when dealing with people.

Timbuktou:


That's a rather broad simplistic brush you're painting the black man with. People are the same everywhere, black or white or red. The difference between 1st and 3rd world is the existence/lack of institutions. For all the ethics that exists in the west, Caucasians are constantly arrested for white collar crimes in the west. That's the reason why most Nigerians would conform when they arrive there. In America, as in other places, there's organised crime. Let's be a bit more deliberate in our painting classes, shall we?

magicminister:


even if he mocked her, can't she mock hi back?
why resort to physical violence?

magicminister:


well, the only crime that guy committed was being poor.
Tell me... if i pull up in my benz and give that same girl the same compliment, she will smile.
i don't care who you are, if you disrespect anyone of my people like this e go hard ooooh!!!...

Pidggin:


She may not if she is on duty and it depends on how you approach her, but why take the risk? You will still meet her else where then you can complement her or chat her up. Right now, if she is charged to court she will say he was sexual harassing her. There's a time and place for everything, people need to learn to understand this

Sunnybobo3:


Shut the Bleep up you zombie. A citizen is molested by an slowpoke and all you could come up with is the crap you typed up there?

DonBobes:



Y don't u try dem first n see what happens to ur soul. Dey even have a job serving der father's land. Wat do u do for a living only criticism n no pay!

chukstel:


@pidggin, did you watch the video, the army lady said because the guy said I am beautiful.

doveda:


You love to argue blindly. They have no right to react except within the law and rules of their professional ethics. That is the price they pay for choosing a career with uniform.

Kgdavid:
That guy is a wuss... first of all, those are baby slaps and second of all no unarmed female soldier dares that with me...is she mad? I'd rather let her male colleagues give me the beating of my life than tolerate such from a woman. In fact, unarmed, one on one no soldier will ever do such a thing to me.

Pidggin:


It is going to be difficult to make people understand that he shouldn't have said so while she was on duty.

Picture this scenario, a Police woman is questioning a man for a traffic offense and he says

"Gosh, you look sexy"

Truckpusher:
If I were that boy , I'll take that beating with no single scream and after they've satisfied themselves and let me go - I'll find her and I will waste her even if it takes me years.

magicminister:


if that man sues the Nigerian Army for assault or whatever, do you know he will cash out big time?
First off, cadets are not posted on any major duty so that lady was not on any duty. Even if she was, the duty is not that important if it afforded her ample time to assault a civilian....

Again, i maintain that if i pull up in my Black benz... yeah the one in my profile pix... and i get the bitttcch the same complement in and ask her to "come here"... she will comply.

Then, i will get her number and fucck her within a week.... Loool.... Military or no military, she is still a woman and every woman wants a rich nigga loool!!

matrix199:
Is this a country?