Help ooooh...I am 23 but neva had a gf in my life because I believe no girl will fall for me because of my looks. I am neither handsome nor ugly......Anytime I get close to one of them,I like advising them thinking that would make her like me but I always end up in the friend zone!!!!!!!!.....no insult pls just advice.

Pharmumar:
Help ooooh...I am 23 but neva had a gf in my life because I believe no girl will fall for me because of my looks. I am neither handsome nor ugly......Anytime I get close to one of them,I like advising them thinking that would make her like me but I always end up in the friend zone!!!!!!!!.....no insult pls just advice.

LOL. No offence bro, but you need to work on your self confidence. Women aren't normally attracted by what they see but rather what they hear. I'm not saying looks is not important, but as long as you dress well and smell good, it really doesn't matter. All that matters is how YOU see yourself! You might look like OBJ but choose to see BRAD PIT in the mirror, it all in your head bro. Work on boosting your confidence.


Hope I helped.

Ask ursef do they like themselves!

I'm sure there's a girl secretly dying to have you and you're here lamenting. .... No offence just saying..

Self confidence my brada!.. But one thing u should know is dont rush into a relationship just because every tom dick nd harry has a gf... Relationships are more than I love you texts... It takes alot out of u

Pharmumar:
Help ooooh...I am 23 but neva had a gf in my life because I believe no girl will fall for me because of my looks. I am neither handsome nor ugly......Anytime I get close to one of them,I like advising them thinking that would make her like me but I always end up in the friend zone!!!!!!!!.....no insult pls just advice.

No offence, Hw Old re yo

Tanks synzu,sickstars and royle I appreciate... I am 23yrs old

Many people have bin saying that but I just don't believe it

Many people have bin saying that but I just don't believe it

Does always advising them to stay away from bad friends, face their studies and be righteous make them like u? because anytime I get close to one dats way I do

airmirthd1:
I'm sure there's a girl secretly dying to have you and you're here lamenting. .... No offence just saying..

many people have said that but it doesn't seem to work

Op, love yourself first...cos the absence of this gives birth to low self esteem and kiLLS your humour ...like the niccur above me have said...forget em bitchesfor now and work on yourself, both physicaLLy and mentaLLy...

Pharmumar:
Tanks synzu,sickstars and royle I appreciate... I am 23yrs old

seems ur more concerned abt ur age??

@OP. There is "someone" for "Everyone" . Just relax and work on urself first.

Pray for the power of the tongue, to gist well,babes like guys that know how to gist(toast), have a sugar coated tongue man

Pharmumar:
many people have said that but it doesn't seem to work

If that is the case.... Check yasef
The problem lies with you then... Brace yourself and walk up to whoever you love... Don't keep on advising them with the thought that you can get into their lives through advice.... Who does that anyway?? Be Confident and Bold..
Be proud of who you are...even some cripples have wives.... And I don't think you're one.....
Or are you a learner like some people will say.

tank u all for ur comments...really feeling encouraged

Anoda issue is dat I do go to d market to sell(means of livelihood) coming back at about 6pm looking dusty..The kind of tins we sell does not permit me to dress very well to d mkt because d clothes would b damaged.....I only dress very well when in sku but at home I don't though clean but not attractive clothes.

Well you are still young. Just be yourself and build your business/career.

True enough, ladies are drawn to handsome men, but they also love (and chase after) successful men and strong leaders. Fortunately, these are qualities that can be acquired. Even in the process of building yourself, you would have attracted a number of them. We all know that women can smell success in a man a mile off.

Also, the good thing about this approach is that you would attract women of high value. Not all these shallow instagram smallies posing with twisted or broken legs.

Just focus on your grind bro.

U resemble SU

u heave not tried to have a gf and u have concluded that they won't like u.u are your own problem

AfroKnight:
Well you are still young. Just be yourself and build your business/career.

True enough, ladies are drawn to handsome men, but they also love (and chase after) successful men and strong leaders. Fortunately, these are qualities that can be acquired. Even in the process of building yourself, you would have attracted a number of them. We all know that women can smell success in a man a mile off.

Also, the good thing about this approach is that you would attract women of high value. Not all these shallow instagram smallies posing with twisted or broken legs.

Just focus on your grind bro.

Waitressssss!!!!! Ask this Socrates what he wants..... I will take care of the bill.

digitite:


Waitressssss!!!!! Ask this Socrates what he wants..... I will take care of the bill.

thanks bro. Waiter, I dey wait o.

Thank u all...oda comments are still welcome

work on ur confidence

just checked ur dp
Ugly
Not my type

yemoxyl:
just checked ur dp
Ugly

Not my type

That's too harsh my dear. Last i checked no one is urgly. Just modify your post please.

yemoxyl:
just checked ur dp
Ugly
Not my type

Dis is cyber-bullying... Don't phuck with people's self esteem... U have no idea what a comment like dis one can do to a depressed mind

yemoxyl:
just checked ur dp
Ugly
Not my type

Even if u were to criticize, it should be a constructive but not destructive criticism like dis....I came here to get encouraged and adviced due to my ignorance and not to be insulted...u are not helping matters at all

Nigga this is not your pic...

OP,you are not bad ooo,,,just make more money and chop up small den u are good to go.