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Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by joseph1832(m): 9:41am On Feb 07, 2016
Weblow:
(a) for virgins
1. Virginity is a virtue. It may be lack of opportunity but it could be a blessing in disguise so dont be deceive by those anti virgin slogans.
What is virtue? How do you define virtue? And what premise did you use to arrive at this virtue? Who and who do you know who have been blessed because of their virginity status?

2. When its gone it is gone for ever. Many ladies regret loosing it and try there best to regain it, that why virginity surgery and becoming a secondary virgin is now threading.
Virginity surgery? Did you bother to conduct a scientific research to know why and how many ladies use virginity surgery?

3. Men love it and you will hardly escape the questions about your virginity. You will be in trouble when your man thinks you are but you are not. Its harder for a no sex relationship when he discover you are not.
Did you bother to ask or ascertain why men ask ladies about their virginity status? And how do you know "men love" if you do, how did you arrive at this conclusion? What research method did you use to arrive at it? You will be surprise men get when they discover a girl isn't a virgin just because she lied to them, not otherwise.

4. Men have a way of rewarding their virgin wife. When they think of being the first man it makes them happy and tend to pay back that gesture.
Can you kindly tell us the ways men reward their virgin wife? Because if truly they do, then how come the society is filled with men who cheat on their wives? Because if a man truly loves his virgin wife, nothing on this planet will make him cheat on her.

5. Men talk about. Because the are proud the boast about it with there friends, am sure you must have heard some pastors using their wife as model.
Men only talk about this just to boast their ego, nothing more, nothing less.

6. You will regret when you found out the person that took it from you does not deserve it. It comes after heart break.
Yea life's a b1tch, but so will the wife who lost her virginity to a husband who cheats on her? So, what are you saying?

7. Its the best gift you can give your husband if not name it. Once emotionally attach you will wish you were.[quote]On the contrary, the best gift a wife can give her husband isn't her virginity, but loyalty, love, care attention and undying support for the progress and success of the family.

[quote]8. A man might use the fact you are not a virgin to hurt you. Normally during arguement even if you are not his wife or girlfriend (LovePeddler bitch etc)
Such men are scum, any man who call a girl a LovePeddler because she's not a virgin should be asked if he's sister of mother is a LovePeddler if they're not virgins, or even him if he's not a virgin, we still have male prostitute too. grin

9. Non virgin are jealous of you must especially those that have experience one thing or the other.[quote]You don't say? I'll love to know how you came about this finding because it is very intriguing.

[quote]10. A man that truely loves you will help you keep it when you say you want to keep it. But many men are like hit and run.
Yes that's true, but what's the joy of waiting till marriage, after marriage, you discover that you both can not have children? Yes you can adopt, but what's not yours, aint yours? Or you discover that she or he can not satisfy you sexually?

11. Many young ladies have sold their virginity for what can be said millions of naira. Imagine you with yours there are men that will spend money to buy, money that can build a duplex and buy cars. You waste that given it to a random guy while you will end with one man that will be strugling to provide for your need. Why not preserve it for your man
So you're saying anyman who disvirgin a girl automatically give her cars and duplex? Hmm. This is very intriguing?

(b) For non virgins stop deceiving the virgins and stop deceiving yourselve for its a terrible sin to cause someones downfall.
A terrible sin you say? A terrible sin according to whom? You? Please spare us...

Men that say they dont care are probably those that have deflowered girls before or will hit and run or dating a lady above there class. i know some ladies might have experience it. A man is concern about your past life, and will not marry his friend ex must especially if his friend has browse before.
You don't say, you should know not everybody is the same. Many have married girls whom their friends have slept with before. And how do you know men who say they don't care are the ones who have deflowered girls or probably hit and run? Did these men come to your door step to confess?

Reason this, why do some ladies have problem with their brothers girlfriend no matter how close the are with the girl, why do girls reconmend a girl for their brother to marry.
Virginity is not religion and its not a do or die affair. This is aimed at encouraging or discouraging you on the path you chose not to confuse though.
Am not a god nor a demigod please pardon me errors of any form and poor fomating thank you
You should know reason why girls recommend girls to their brothers isn't just about if the girl is a virgin, but has a lot to do with if she can be a good wife? Plain and simple.

Now, you should know girls have the right to Bleep as much as they like without the likes of you coming to bother them that loosing their virginity is a sin, of what use is a virgin who doesn't have manners?

Favolly, happy first Sunday of the month. Me likey. grin wink smiley
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Favolly(f):
joseph1832:
Firstly, there's no christian content here, what the OP is saying is just based on generalizing, I won't take me nothing to poke holes in the post he created.

Nobody is forcing me to be a christian yet those who aren't forcing me are the ones who come to my erotica and throw their religious beliefs down my throat. In case you forgot, this forum is filled with christians shoving their christians belief down peoples throat.

Might I remind you how this discourse came to be? If I don't believe in something yes I see no reason why I should even listen. So on the contrary, this thread is for me and anyone who feels concern because the OP is just voicing his/her opinion without facts or evidence to back it up.

You should know, opinions, if left unchecked can prove to be disastrous, that's why threads like this should be checked so it won't mislead the unsuspecting minds. Remember, this is the information age, where uninformed and narrow minded opinion is the other of the day.

So because you've asked, I'll take my time and poke holes in the opening post. Its filled with so much generalization that it bothers on too much fallacy.

At the embolden, you should tell that to those who come to my door every Saturday and Sunday to preach, despite being told to leave me the Bleep alone.

And I don't remember me being you, do I?
Okay, I agree that the original post was indeed filled with fallacies, and that not everyone has to agree with it. In fact, I even disagreed with most of his points

But what brought about this our banter? I said I don't believe in keeping virginity for husband and I said I will not advise my girl-child likewise. Instead, I will advise her to do it for herself and/or in obedience to God. It was at this point that you mentioned me and started saying stuff about  there being no point since 'so called christian virgins end up masturbating' and some other thing about 'cheating nature'

You don't believe in what I believe in, and knowing this, you still decided to quote me and make cynic comments about what I posted. I gave my opinion on how i will raise me child based on my beliefs. That's my own cup of tea, yes?

Now who is shoving opinions down whose throat?
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by joseph1832(m): 12:06pm On Feb 07, 2016
Favolly:
Okay, I agree that the original post was indeed filled with fallacies, and that not everyone has to agree with it. In fact, I even disagreed with most of his points

But what brought about this our banter? I said I don't believe in keeping virginity for husband and I said I will not advise my girl-child likewise. Instead, I will advise her to do it for herself and/or in obedience to God. It was at this point that you mentioned me and started saying stuff about  there being no point since 'so called christian virgins end up masturbating' and some other thing about 'cheating nature'

You don't believe in what I believe in, and knowing this, you still decided to quote me and make cynic comments about what I posted. I gave my opinion and how i will raise me child based on my beliefs. That's my own cup of tea, yes?

Now who is shoving opinions down whose throat?
Did I refer to you as 'so called christians?' Course I didn't. So, are we cool?
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Favolly(f):
joseph1832:
Did I refer to you as 'so called christians?' Course I didn't. So, are we cool?
Not me, but that's part of the 'undertones' I was referring to

Of course, we're always cool wink

You still owe me sef...
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by joseph1832(m): 12:25pm On Feb 07, 2016
Favolly:
Not me, but that's the part of the 'undertones' I was referring to

Of course, we're always cool wink

You still owe me sef...
Oh yeah, the undertone... How did I forget that?

I still owe you? Hmm... Now I won't bother asking how the debt came to be. Lol.
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by latinoKingdom(m): 1:28pm On Feb 07, 2016
So non virgin ladies, they don't have dignity? Crap, most nowadays virgins are masturbators or lesbian lol
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Favolly(f): 4:07pm On Feb 07, 2016
joseph1832:
Oh yeah, the undertone... How did I forget that?

I still owe you? Hmm... Now I won't bother asking how the debt came to be. Lol.
You owe me! angry
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by joseph1832(m): 4:31pm On Feb 07, 2016
Favolly:
You owe me! angry
Yea yea I know I do, no need to shout, lol, was only trying to yank your cord. You know how I like to do that. wink
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Favolly(f): 5:21pm On Feb 07, 2016
joseph1832:
Yea yea I know I do, no need to shout, lol, was only trying to yank your cord. You know how I like to do that. wink
Yankee doodle ni
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by joseph1832(m): 5:26pm On Feb 07, 2016
Favolly:
Yankee doodle ni
Hope, you didn't forget he went to town riding on a pony? wink grin
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Favolly(f): 5:51pm On Feb 07, 2016
joseph1832:
Hope, you didn't forget he went to town riding on a pony? wink grin
He did, so what?
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by joseph1832(m): 6:54pm On Feb 07, 2016
Favolly:
He did, so what?
I'm sure you know what riding on a pony means. Metaphorically I might add. wink
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Weblow(op): 8:06pm On Feb 07, 2016
Sori to everyone that got hurt for saying to his/her mind.
Just that you can get criticize when people fail to understand you.
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Weblow(op): 8:12pm On Feb 07, 2016
cruzita:
#TeamVirgin even if its not to impress any man ,I'm doing for myself.
your signature has finish everything.
Give us the closing remark
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by Favolly(f): 10:05pm On Feb 07, 2016
joseph1832:
I'm sure you know what riding on a pony means. Metaphorically I might add. wink
I don't. Tell me what it means
Re: Its Virginity Talk Again by dingbang(m): 4:12pm On Nov 05, 2016
pweetytonie:
Does it put food on anybody's table?
u seem to look good in red
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