₦airaland Forum

kay29000:
I am single by choice because of something I want to achieve this year. But sometimes I can get so lonely, and there is never a warning of when that feeling would come, it just comes, and makes me miserable. I mean, I might be so excited one minute about something in my life, and then next minute I become depressed. I guess God knew why he created woMAN for MAN.


Anyway, I just want to know from the single people in the single people in the house- How do you deal with loneliness?

dukeolumde:
Socializing...

kay29000:
Okay. True that. I usually socialize with my small circle of friends when I am lonely. But from where I work through the week, I don't talk to anyone there. I guess that's why I get lonely during the week, and on weekends that I don't go to where my friends are.

kay29000:
Okay. True that. I usually socialize with my small circle of friends when I am lonely. But from where I work through the week, I don't talk to anyone there. I guess that's why I get lonely during the week, and on weekends that I don't go to where my friends are.

LaurelP:
U don't talk to anyone. Why?

dukeolumde:
That the problem. Where are u based? Maybe I can hook u up.

kay29000:
Bariga, Lagos.

dukeolumde:
K. I used to live in Gbagada Phase 1 so many years ago. Do u like girls?

xpac01:
We're on same page bro. Most times I read books, pick my phone and keep surfing whatsoever or I just start writing.

kay29000:
lol! Of cos I like girls.

dukeolumde:
Ok. Just want to make sure u not weird..truth is u need to make friends by socialising.

kay29000:
Yes, I know that. I am working on it. But I don't go out much. I guess I have to start going out.

dukeolumde:
Yes indeed. Please try not to appear desperate because women are very dangerous. Only a few are ANGELS..

kay29000:
Yup! Thanks.

Elosky20:
i visit nairaland when am lonely

dukeolumde:
I come into Lagos every now and then for business. I will holla at u when I ball in. I will hook u up too with some of my hommies and if ur good,
1 or 2 girls depending on ur kind of person...

kay29000:
Okay. That would be great.

dukeolumde:
I live in PH and I will change my profile picture now so u can see the face. U can have my digits too on my page...

WARNING: I have a baby face

LaurelP:
Now you've identified ur problem. You are too uptight, loosen up a bit.
You cant tell me that in the whole office, you don't like anybody not even one person.

AlienStar:
I read books, write poems and songs or maybe surf the net.

kay29000:
Okay. Nice to know you write songs...keep the creative juices flowing. I have discovered that creative people (like me and you) are most times loners.

kay29000:
Okay. Seen. My number is also on my profile page.

AlienStar:
Lol, i think so.