I dont get some guys.

What do you mean virtuous wife should wake up early? You mean virtuous slave?

You probably put her to bed the previous night and expect her to be awake before 5am.

ridiculous

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

Set alarms for her

it depend on d type of your job and her own job if your religion is islam.6am is ok for waking up by this time before moring prayers rich by this time is after six.and it also depend on d time that all the family are sleeping make sure she sleep in time.may be u are watching the television till 1.00am.if u want u and her to wake up early make sure dat all the family are sleep by 8;00 or 8;30pm so u will see the cahnges now.!!!

Sparklequeen:
Signs of a trouble maker. 6am is early enough

...he is obviously a troublemaker. Why this is a headache to him (this much) shows he's a very cantankerous fellow

Op can you kindly tell us when exactly she goes to bed....u see why you shouldn't always compare ur affairs with other's Some wives wakes up at 7am and u HD even pity rhem cos they went to bed very late...op I won't advise you to wake your wife up at 6 unless you tell us when she's always going to bed and what day of the week it is...if she's weekend and she ain't going anywhere why not postpone ur prayer till everyone is up??

JeffreyJamez:
You call 6am late? ....abi you're looking for excuse to send her packing

6pm may be late to some people depending on their schedules and nature of jobs. If she is a full time house wife, 6am may not be too late but if she is the type that works and has kids, she should try and be waking up before 6am. Op you can encourage your wife to sleep early, as the saying goes, early to bed, early to rise.

vybzkartel:


i wasnt a christian then

Those words ^^^summarises your issue.
You can't force someone to be a christian.
When you were not a christian, I'm certain you didn't feel any strong urge to wake up early to pray. If your wife was a christian then and was complaining about it, you would have said she was nagging.
It's the same way oga. You cannot force her.You would only succeed in creating unnecessary tension and resentment in your home which could lead to its early demise (Lots of homes have been broken over less )
There is power in prayer and patience.We can't change our spouse only God and the Holy Spirit can.Commit her heart to prayer everyday. Have patience and believe God to melt and take over her heart.He will answer that prayer.Dont do the work of the Holy Spirit please

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

It seems you're a religious n*ut!

You can't force your wife to lose essential sleep because of rubbish prayer! Good sleep is healthier than your sh*it prayer you can't prove has helped you in any way!

Leave her alone! She has right and freedom to either pray or not! Don't allow st*upid prayer destroy your marriage! She wakes up at 6 am which is very impressive!

Just because you do not see her praying doesn't mean that she isn't. Her prayers are between her and the Most High. Not you her and the Most High. What does the Bible say about men who pray just to be seen of men? People rarely see me pray. If we lived together, you'd swear I was athiest. My talks and cries are between me and God and no one else

What were you two doing all night long? If she says NO, now you will start another thread on NL yet you the one who won't let her sleep. My friend 6 am is a good time to wake up!

tpiar:


did you just finish watching The Intern?

No

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

Poverty is disturbing you

Mayflowa:



Sincerely, your wife too try. Waking up early is my weak point. I work hard but when I sleep, I sleep hard. Like a dead man! I wake up like 8am on the average. There were times I woke up by 10am. It may interest you to know,that I am on top of my game and rich. If I woke up earlier,I know I would have had more successes and lesser procrastination. I am still good. So your wife is great. Don't push her hard!

Rich people dont just come out to say they are rich..besides who works and wakes up by 10am...bros wat are u not telling us?

vybzkartel:


i wasnt a christian then

i think i get the picture now. you married her as a non praying woman which you were comfortable with because u didn't give a damn about praying and stuff. But now you have changed and u want her to change too. what makes you think she will change by scolding her? she is an adult and not ur child so she knows when its suitable for her to do things. you can only change her by praying to God who created her to change her. you are not the holy spirit. By the way does she go to work or she stays at home? if she stays at home it wil be wicked of you expecting her to wake early when she has d whole day to do stuff. let peace reign in ur home, stop nagging and being jealous of your wife.

The best is for you to reserve your screwing her by 4am every day. Tough though but this is the cross you have to bear. aA for me I adjusted mine when the marriage started and she wanted my kids not to wake early but I stopped her and we all wake 5am when the alarm rings.

JeffreyJamez:


How the hell is 6am considered late?!

He is a banker.......need to eat nd get to office b4 7am

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

What is "Let"?

you wan make her dey wake by 4am like you ba? haba! una dey fry akara abi na mama-put una dey cook?

What time do you expect her to wake up? 3am?

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

Lolz. When I saw d title I was expecting her to wake up like 9- 10am. How is 6am late? I wake up earlier than tht bt 6am is in no way late, if u were Muslims I cld understand d prayer part. Bt a Christian can wake up anytime and still pray.

I dnt knw what u're complaining abt really, u wake up by 4 or 5, so? That's what u're used to and for whatever reasons. As long as she wakes up to time enof to prepare u guys and kids (if any) for work and sch.

vybzkartel:



pray and do household chores

When you went to marry her, did you inform her and her family that you were looking for a slave?

vybzkartel:

She wakes up at 6am

sometimes after 6 am

and i believe a virtuous wife should be waking up earlier

I am often up by 4am or 5 am

She wakes up late and doesnt pray

I have been diplomatic, harsh and all...but she hasnt changed. what do i do?

@the bolded, rubbish talk, where is it stated that this is a criteria for being a virtious wife. Pls dont put unnecessary burden on the poor woman.

slimmy2005:
Poverty is disturbing you

Lmaoo!!!

skarlett:



Okay, well you can't force it on her since that's not the way you both started. You need to be the virtuous man now and pray to God to reform her.

Anyways this is the cross most women bear with husbands who aren't really spiritual, just don't allow your zeal ruin your marriage

babe, u ar sensible. Most pple ignore ds fact in d name of love. Hw wil u marry someone u ar no okay wit d spiritual life and u intent to change them abah, its impossible except God intervenes. I av met quite a no of babes dat i cant marry not because they are not educated but i know being a wife is more than just being educated.

STFUareyouGod:
maybe cuz he's always up 4am. He thinks 6am is late

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA NOBI SMALL THING:

redcliff:


Rich people dont just come out to say they are rich..besides who works and wakes up by 10am...bros wat are u not telling us?

Really? The greatest boasters are the rich ranging from music stars to top business moguls . However, I only chipped my success in so as to prove that one could still do well if you woke up late. By the way, I make up for my deficiency by sleeping late. I said 8am on the average. That means 10 is rare but it happens.

Although I regret my action, yet this is my weakness. I won't tell u my job here but u may find it if you looked through my previous post if u are that curious.

Again. I am rich. Very rich! And it's personal wealth not inherited!

STFUareyouGod:
hahahahaha. Me personally think 6am is just ok and very alright

6 to 6 is too much for sleep. And who prepares the food for the guy before he leaves?

op's profile picture is not it at all.

he didnt even bother disguising as a sheep rather than wolf.

since its nl I guess, doesnt matter even if he photographed himself holding a pitchfork and sporting a tail and then opened thread saying his regular booty calls are not allowing him to pray well before hookups.

HaneefahRN:


Lolz. When I saw d title I was expecting her to wake up like 9- 10am. How is 6am late? I wake up earlier than tht bt 6am is in no way late, if u were Muslims I cld understand d prayer part. Bt a Christian can wake up anytime and still pray.

I dnt knw what u're complaining abt really, u wake up by 4 or 5, so? That's what u're used to and for whatever reasons. As long as she wakes up to time enof to prepare u guys and kids (if any) for work and sch.

12 hours sleep is much

vybzkartel:

i wasnt a christian then

HAHAHAHAHA HMMMMMM SO

They always close very late in their nocturnal meetings .... #demflyingbabe

skarlett:



Okay, well you can't force it on her since that's not the way you both started. You need to be the virtuous man now and pray to God to reform her.

Anyways this is the cross most women bear with husbands who aren't really spiritual, just don't allow your zeal ruin your marriage

GOOD ADVICE,U HAVE SAID IT ALL