goodgate:
Are they from Ohafia?

jashar:




No offence oooo..... I'm trying to wrap my head over the meaning of what you just posted. it's not entering.
So, appreciating ones spouse makes them cheap or what?

tonychristopher:
SO AS YOU CAN SEE THE DEMERITS OF INTER TRIBAL THING OUT WEIGHS THE METRITS

I DONE WANT TO TALK ABOUT DILUTING THE GENOME AND BRING IN FORIEGN DISEASE THAT IS FORIEGN TO A TRIBE


LETS FACE IT, CULTURALLY,ROMANTICALLY BIOLOGICALLY IT IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT...BUT IF YOU HAVE STRAYED IN ANY WAY OUT OF YOUR TRIBE...PLEASE HONEY MAKE IT WORK DEAR

tonychristopher:
SO AS YOU CAN SEE THE DEMERITS OF INTER TRIBAL THING OUT WEIGHS THE METRITS

I DONE WANT TO TALK ABOUT DILUTING THE GENOME AND BRING IN FORIEGN DISEASE THAT IS FORIEGN TO A TRIBE


LETS FACE IT, CULTURALLY,ROMANTICALLY BIOLOGICALLY IT IS NOT ALWAYS RIGHT...BUT IF YOU HAVE STRAYED IN ANY WAY OUT OF YOUR TRIBE...PLEASE HONEY MAKE IT WORK DEAR

jashar:



I'll marry who i'll marry.

Onegai:
(btw, where I come from, they bring up children with the phrase "if you marry an Igbo man, we will not attend that wedding".

Begonia:

No need to state this. Based on most of your ethnic related comments, it's not too hard to decipher.

Onegai:


Oh honey, I wasn't trying to be subtle. I never am when dealing with a tribalist who is also in favour of railroading my culture and says it to my face. Will it make you feel better if I say if it were a Yoruba person making these comments, I'd say the same?

Begonia:

Oh dear! I really do not care about your "dealings". I simply implied that the last part of your comment was quite unnecessary as that has always been discernible. As for your obviously "meant-as-an-insult" question, I've never and will never support tribalism irrespective of the ethnic group being denigrated. Don't forget, I'm not you

Onegai:


Well that's good for you. Yay! And you've had my 5 minutes of attention. Now, I'm sure myself and others will care to go back to the issue at hand.

KanwuliaExtra:
I can NEVER try it lai-lai!!!

EDO STATE. . . . HELL NO!

Yoruba? NO!
IGBO! NO!
BINI? NO!
URHOBO, IJAW, ITSEKIRI aka AGBERO areas? NO!
All those CALABAR, RIVERS, CROSS RIVERS witches and PERVERT areas? HELL TO THE NO!


In fact only ANIOMA areas of Nigeria, the NORTH or A WHITE MAN!!!

christopher123:


Is anioma not Igbo

KanwuliaExtra:


No!
IGBO means CROSSING THE RIVER JORDAN TO HELL!

I nor go try am!!!! Lai-Lai!!!!

One Nigeria get limit abeg.

christopher123:


Whatever .....identity crisis is a bliss

kaziblake:
I love intertribal marriages.

I'm a product of one.

And I'm also going intertribal too.

tonychristopher:


Nice ..but as a man stop cheapening yourself by telling the man how you are glad he married you..that statement has a way of puncturing your worth as a woman

A man should be head over heals on a woman not the other way round


Don't make the dude look at you that he did you a favour

Take this from a married man

But keep appreciating him but don't diminish your value mbok

BellaElla:
Wow, this is astounding. So u mean Igbo ladies like myself that married out of our tribes are bad with dirty histories. Simply incredulous!!!! Your logic is embarrassingly flawed. I wonder where u have been to or how you grew up, your thought process is shockingly backward. If you have mingled at all or worked with big organizations you would know that one great factor that influences choice of life partner is location. It would be foolish of one to pass up on good men or women around them simply because they are from different tribes or because they do not want to be termed wayward. God! I feel retarded even typing this. I have heard lots of ludicrous statements but clap for yourself, this one takes the cake.

BellaElla:
Oga I hope you married from your clan, or better still from the compound next to yours in your village. it would be a shame if you didn't...really. see you championing for a cause that you have no business with. you do not know how long I dated my husband before marriage. you do not know our level of compatibility or lack of it thereof, but you have naively jumped into the conclusion that I was complacent or infatuated. the level of love and welcome I have received from my husband family, I cant even describe, my mother in law calls me to pray for on the phone almost everyday, so again I ask, why do you seat in your little closed world on and conclude on behalf of the millions of inter tribal families. who made you our spokesman? you have travelled the world does not mean you have learnt an iota of what life is all about. your first child is nine does not make you an expert on inter tribal marriages. why don't you focus on your clannish family and allow us the have broader minds to enjoy our uniqueness. I hope you are as passionate in your marriage as you are in your quest to prove that those of us married outside our tribes have less of a marriage than those married within their tribes. its people like you that would stand in the way of your children's happiness because of your tribalistic, bigoted mind set. oga wake up and smell the coffee biko. thank God I don't have someone as close minded as you in my family. I hope you don't do business with other tribes, or let your children go to the same school with them. abi they are only good for association but not for marriage. So people that think like you still exist. Chukwu zuputa kw'anyi n'aka ndi mgbochi uzo. Ekene kwa m gi!

ifyalways:

An apt reply.

tonychristopher:


Maybe your are in Mars or Jupiter but it African ....marriage isn't about two people tolerating each other ...it about family

It is a unio. Between families


Just like a girl that disobeys the parents and went ahead to marry a boy thinking that love is the major ingredient in marriage ..when the marital crisis cones..who will she run to



I am not saying that inter tribal marriages don't work ...they do but there is very higher tendencies for those marriages to break up


Ask Stella damasus or clarion chukwura abiola


These are few case studies

tonychristopher:



Th ratio of igbo men that married outside is very low even if they will marry they marry from near by tribes like cross rivers and Delta

An average well brought up igbo lady wants to marry an igbo man and will marry one but when the bad ones with dirty history doesn't see husband they end up as available becoming desirable


Look at tonto

baby124:

Tonto always said she would not marry an Igbo man.lol. That was a conscious decision by Tonto. You make a lot of conjectures.

waternogetememy:



But she dated mostly Igbo men, both the average and the rich.


The yoruba men she associated with are multi-millionaires. U take it as liking yorubas?


How many igbo multi-millionaires will leave a humble and virtuous girl for Tonto hand in marriage?


Public Toilet or Private Toilet? Yorubas choose Public toilet whilst Igbos choose Private Toilet. It all comes down to choice in marriage.

That is Y an igbo man is least likely to crash his marriage, he is very careful.



I make money finish leave all the fine girls in this world and decent career women na Tonto i wan marry, my mama go cry from morning till night and continue.


Beauty is not in the face but character. Fine face but public holes are not wifey.

waternogetememy:



But she dated mostly Igbo men, both the average and the rich.


The yoruba men she associated with are multi-millionaires. U take it as liking yorubas?


How many igbo multi-millionaires will leave a humble and virtuous girl for Tonto hand in marriage?


Public Toilet or Private Toilet? Yorubas choose Public toilet whilst Igbos choose Private Toilet. It all comes down to choice in marriage.

That is Y an igbo man is least likely to crash his marriage, he is very careful.

I make money finish leave all the fine girls in this world and decent career women na Tonto i wan marry, my mama go cry from morning till night and continue.


Beauty is not in the face but character. Fine face but public holes are not wifey.

baby124:

Tonto always said she would not marry an Igbo man.lol. That was a conscious decision by Tonto. You make a lot of conjectures.

Tonto Dike – “If I keep waiting for an Igbo man, I will just end up like Genevieve Nnaji who is eternally single”

ifyalways:

An apt reply.

BellaElla:
Oga I hope you married from your clan, or better still from the compound next to yours in your village. it would be a shame if you didn't...really. see you championing for a cause that you have no business with. you do not know how long I dated my husband before marriage. you do not know our level of compatibility or lack of it thereof, but you have naively jumped into the conclusion that I was complacent or infatuated. the level of love and welcome I have received from my husband family, I cant even describe, my mother in law calls me to pray for on the phone almost everyday, so again I ask, why do you seat in your little closed world on and conclude on behalf of the millions of inter tribal families. who made you our spokesman? you have travelled the world does not mean you have learnt an iota of what life is all about. your first child is nine does not make you an expert on inter tribal marriages. why don't you focus on your clannish family and allow us the have broader minds to enjoy our uniqueness. I hope you are as passionate in your marriage as you are in your quest to prove that those of us married outside our tribes have less of a marriage than those married within their tribes. its people like you that would stand in the way of your children's happiness because of your tribalistic, bigoted mind set. oga wake up and smell the coffee biko. thank God I don't have someone as close minded as you in my family. I hope you don't do business with other tribes, or let your children go to the same school with them. abi they are only good for association but not for marriage. So people that think like you still exist. Chukwu zuputa kw'anyi n'aka ndi mgbochi uzo. Ekene kwa m gi!

tonychristopher:
Even God told the Israelites to marry within their tribes

So what are we arguing here