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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Nobody: 7:18pm On Feb 11, 2016
tonychristopher:


Madam abi na Oga

No be quarel ..I know it hurts but the truth must be told


Sugar, muah grin grin grin, you are too much
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by TheArchangel(f): 8:01pm On Feb 11, 2016
If he is a viking, English,Welsh, Irish, etc not from a poverty stricken Nigerian tribes.
We have lots of baggages here from either tribe to contend with.

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 8:28pm On Feb 11, 2016
mavany:


I guess you are from Anambra, Nwadiana practice and the Nwa ada group!
clap for urself. My likely sister.
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 8:30pm On Feb 11, 2016
TheArchangel:
If he is a viking, English,Welsh, Irish, etc not from a poverty stricken Nigerian tribes.
We have lots of baggages here from either tribe to contend with.
please run fast. Don't let the Nigerians read this oh. Biko
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by TheArchangel(f): 8:32pm On Feb 11, 2016
Eddygourdo:
please run fast. Don't let the Nigerians read this oh. Biko
hahaha bro. I hereby invoke my right to free speech. Contrary opinions should back off grin

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by sugah: 8:46pm On Feb 11, 2016
99billiondollar:



Sugar, muah grin grin grin, you are too much

grin grin grin
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by jashar(f): 9:07pm On Feb 11, 2016
thorpido:
It's in every tribe but the degree may vary.You want people you can easily relate with because they speak your language and understand your culture.It's human nature.

where's the fun, excitement and sense of adventure in that? undecided

I think people are not just accepting of what's unfamiliar. Hence the bias.
smiley

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Faith111: 11:12pm On Feb 11, 2016
IkpuMmadu:


before we talk inter tribal as tonychristopher will say what tribes are they

I mean ikwerre and igbo are same tribe
urhobo and isoko same
yoruba and itshekiri with edo almost same
igalla and idoma almost same


so which tribes are your granny lets start from there



Grandparents -Different geopolitical zones.
Parents -Different geopolitical zones...
Myself -Very far from hubby..Different state, Culture and Language.
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by tonychristopher: 11:58pm On Feb 11, 2016
Faith111:


Grandparents -Different geopolitical zones.
Parents -Different geopolitical zones...
Myself -Very far from hubby..Different state, Culture and Language.

You still did not answer his questions
What tribes are they from

Yoruba and igbo even ijaw can be found in different political zones

This is why I hate inter tribal marriage
It confuses the kids
It makes them lack confidence i n their tribes

You have proved that now
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by freshvine(f): 4:43am On Feb 12, 2016
I see a disconnect Here!

All the igbo ladies commenting here are married to Yoruba men and they're proud of their marriage but not a single igbo man here relating to marrying a yoruba lady.

What's the problem?

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 11:57am On Feb 12, 2016
I can NEVER try it lai-lai!!!

EDO STATE. . . . HELL NO!

Yoruba? NO!
IGBO! NO!
BINI? NO!
URHOBO, IJAW, ITSEKIRI aka AGBERO areas? NO!
All those CALABAR, RIVERS, CROSS RIVERS witches and PERVERT areas? HELL TO THE NO!


In fact only ANIOMA areas of Nigeria, the NORTH or A WHITE MAN!!! cool
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 12:04pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra:
I canNEVER try it lai-lai!!!

EDO STATA. . . . HELL NO!
Yoruba? NO!
IGBO! NO!
BINI? NO!
URHOBO, IJAW, ITSEKIRI aka AGBERO areas? NO!
All those CALABAR, RIVERS, CROSS RIVERS witches and PEVERT areas? HELL TO THE NO!


In fact only ANIOMA, the NORTH or A WHITE MAN!!! cool
grin gringrin You are always a case. Anyway am sure u have ur reasons, run away fast before people read ur post and come guns blazing
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 1:55pm On Feb 12, 2016
Eddygourdo:
grin gringrin You are always a case. Anyway am sure u have ur reasons, run away fast before people read ur post and come guns blazing

Run ke? cheesy
I nor be 'coward' o!
Make dem come na. I dey wait dem!
Sheeeesh! cool angry

Reasons?

The women are no different from the men! kiss

EDO. . . TOOOOOOO LAZY and FETISH. . . ALWAYS FIGHTING!!!!(Jungle aje-butters) cheesy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9IcVaVHXbk


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gbaPODVZnSs

YORUBA? TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO FETISH, TRIBALISTIC AND CHAUVINISTIC! Highly SADISTIC. angry
EMOTIONAL VAGABONDS! cheesy EVERY MARRIAGE IN NIGERIA AND ABROAD IS A 'SHAM MARRIAGE'! Incapable of giving and returning love! cheesy

EVERYTHING THAT COMES OUT OF THEIR MOUTHS IS A LIEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!! A BIG FAT LIEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!They can NEVER be trusted!!!! cry


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HSf79yAoOJI


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YV4vOM9YKWw

IGBO? TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO VIOLENT AND CRIMINAL!!!! Awon 'HOLY CRIMINALS' with BIBLES in their azzes 24/7! cheesy
THE ORIGINAL LOVE 'SCAMMERS'!!! cheesy


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_w4s7LcDUjU


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R7MqCL5XPdc


URHOBO, IJAW, ITSEKIRI . . . TOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO DAMN UNCOUTH AND UGLY!!!(jungle aje-kpakos) cry Nothing civilized about these ones o


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=20ry6FmCl_8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=noac_4beRFc


AWON RIVERS. . .CROSSRIVERS? LEWD AND OCCULTIC MENTALITIES. . .PEDOHILIC. . . WITCHCRAFT-MINDED. embarassed(Awon 'BETA PIKIN') Ta! embarassed


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dduasaRm-R8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xYaTWldV0uA


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d5BeYr0V__0
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 2:26pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra where did you get all those incriminating videos. You have finished us walahi. I refused to quote you lest it appears on my post and they attack me too. Hmmmmm. So anioma men are great I see........ Wonder why my anioma friend is a man LovePeddler simply cos he has a monstrous penis.
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 2:41pm On Feb 12, 2016
Eddygourdo:
KanwuliaExtra where did you get all those incriminating videos. You have finished us walahi. I refused to quote you lest it appears on my post and they attack me too. Hmmmmm. So anioma men are great I see........ Wonder why my anioma friend is a man LovePeddler simply cos he has a monstrous penis.

Am I not a Nigerian woman? cheesy
I know my pipo na.
YOUTUBE is ya friend! wink

ANIOMA MEN ARE THE BEST!
The best of all other 'EVILS'!
Very civilized!!! cool


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dtVxI6ACMQw

Your 'anioma' man is a love-peddler huhn? grin
Well! What are you getting in return? wink
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 2:47pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra:


Am I not a Nigerian woman? cheesy
I know my pipo na.
YOUTUBE is ya friend! wink

ANIOMA MEN ARE THE BEST!
The best of all other 'EVILS'!
Very civilized!!! cool

Your 'anioma' man is a love-peddler huhn? grin
Well! What are you getting in return? wink
getting in return from a man? Hian. Mbanu. Such doesn't know my address. Anyway it's because you likely married an anioma man. If you ended up with those handsome aboki from the north. You could have sung differently. Anyway I am not a fan of inter-tribal though. Too much differences
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 2:50pm On Feb 12, 2016
Eddygourdo:
getting in return from a man? Hian. Mbanu. Such doesn't know my address. Anyway it's because you likely married an anioma man. If you ended up with those handsome aboki from the north. You could have sung differently. Anyway I am not a fan of inter-tribal though. Too much differences

Aboki different for North o. We are not talking of 'BOKO HARAM' culture from NIGER OR CHAD O! wink

The ATIKU kind of course! The one that can MARRY FROM ALL CORNERS OF NIGERIA without the most exposed mind! wink

Na dis kain ABOKI I fit marry o. cool


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOlFFxrCW48
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 2:58pm On Feb 12, 2016
THE BEST INTER TRIBAL MARRIAGE IS WITH THE NORTH! kiss
You will be RESPECTED. . . IF NOT LOVED! wink


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kWnaCbf30NQ
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 3:07pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra:


Aboki different for North o. We are not talking of 'BOKO HARAM' culture from NIGER OR CHAD O! wink

The ATIKU kind of course! The one that can MARRY FROM ALL CORNERS OF NIGERIA without the most exposed mind! wink

Na dis kain ABOKI I fit marry o. cool


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JOlFFxrCW48
hmmmmm. Madam the madam. You like good things.. Too bad ur married if not we could have showed him this post, it would be love in Tokyo. Anyway don't anioma have any weird uncomfortable customs with respect to extended family. Eg weddings, burial, cheiftancies etc which you could find uncomfortable bring exposed to thanks to ur hubby
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 3:11pm On Feb 12, 2016
Eddygourdo:
hmmmmm. Madam the madam. You like good things.. Too bad ur married if not we could have showed him this post, it would be love in Tokyo. Anyway don't anioma have any weird uncomfortable customs with respect to extended family. Eg weddings, burial, cheiftancies etc which you could find uncomfortable bring exposed to thanks to ur hubby

I have graduated o. My next husband IF ANY. . . MUST BE A WHITE MAN. cool
Not interested in any shade of 'THE BLACK RACE'! kiss
I only go FORWARD. . . not backwards! wink
Aniomas are pretty liberal. . . . no weird customs I KNOW OF. cool

If at all there are. . . you have the right to BOOOOLSHYTE them! Women are VERRRRRY STRONG in ANIOMA culture. . . . .NEVER 2ND CLASS CITIZENS like in other offensive cultures! cool
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by sparkleRed(f): 3:42pm On Feb 12, 2016
Am from Akwaibom but i have neva thought of marrying 4rm my state nt to talk of my tribe


Dnt get me wrong am proudly Ibibio smiley

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 4:33pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra:


I have graduated o. My next husband IF ANY. . . MUST BE A WHITE MAN. cool
Not interested in any shade of 'THE BLACK RACE'! kiss
I only go FORWARD. . . not backwards! wink
Aniomas are pretty liberal. . . . no weird customs I KNOW OF. cool

If at all there are. . . you have the right to BOOOOLSHYTE them! Women are VERRRRRY STRONG in ANIOMA culture. . . . .NEVER 2ND CLASS CITIZENS like in other offensive cultures! cool
ha. Whitey so you are part of the I love white men group abi. Anyway they aren't so bad. I hope they not as emotional as the females
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 4:38pm On Feb 12, 2016
Eddygourdo:
ha. Whitey so you are part of the I love white men group abi. Anyway they aren't so bad. I hope they not as emotional as the females

Emotional to the core! They don't know how to TELL LIES! cool




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ePwX4pAvZ6Y



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VBgVvTzgvXg



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHECqCZqxSU

This is my SOLE INSPIRATION right here! kiss

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 4:50pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra:


Emotional to the core! They don't know how to TELL LIES! cool




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ePwX4pAvZ6Y



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FHECqCZqxSU

This is my SOLE INSPIRATION right here! kiss
really? Guess you will have to learn to pet a crying man. The white friends I have are really cool guys though. Very mature. Though I heard their kini is on the micro level. Manage despite all na cross
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by KanwuliaExtra: 4:54pm On Feb 12, 2016
Eddygourdo:
really? Guess you will have to learn to pet a crying man. The white friends I have are really cool guys though. Very mature. Though I heard their kini is on the micro level. Manage despite all na cross

You have to learn to choose. . . a big 'kini' with small brains or BIG BRAINS with small kinis! cool
I am not a USELESS 'black' kini freak! grin
Mba o! I kon 'fingerer' myself to satisfaSHUNNN! cool
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 4:56pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra:


You have to learn to choose. . . a big 'kini' with small brains or a BIG BRAIN with small kini! cool
I am not a USELESS 'black' kini freak! grin
Well am with u on the big brain thing. Kini no be food. Thank God ur still alive, guess I will soon be killed thanks to those attacking me on a thread of mine on front page. Simply cos I confessed my sins on this forum
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Eddygourdo(m): 5:01pm On Feb 12, 2016
KanwuliaExtra:


You have to learn to choose. . . a big 'kini' with small brains or BIG BRAINS with small kinis! cool
I am not a USELESS 'black' kini freak! grin
Mba o! I kon 'fingerer' myself to satisfaSHUNNN! cool
u eh eh......
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by Faith111: 6:57pm On Feb 12, 2016
tonychristopher:


You still did not answer his questions
What tribes are they from

Yoruba and igbo even ijaw can be found in different political zones

This is why I hate inter tribal marriage
It confuses the kids
It makes them lack confidence i n their tribes You have proved that now

I answered the question perfectly well...
Yorubas getting married from different political zones is not inter-tribal neither are ijaws nor ibos..
Inter-Tribal from different geopolitical zones is the farthest relationship in inter-Tribal marriage..e.g
Hausa (North East) and Igbo (South East)
So you are confused and never the kids from inter-Tribal marriage...You need to free your head
and mind...There's no problem with inter-tribal marriage...The problem is you

.

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by thorpido(m): 10:52pm On Feb 12, 2016
jashar:


where's the fun, excitement and sense of adventure in that? undecided

I think people are not just accepting of what's unfamiliar. Hence the bias.
smiley
Some people have chosen the unfamiliar and that's where the fun is.
The majority which is human nature anyway won't choose the unfamiliar.
Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by TheArchangel(f): 3:02am On Feb 13, 2016
Faith111:


I answered the question perfectly well...
Yorubas getting married from different political zones is not inter-tribal neither are ijaws nor ibos..
Inter-Tribal from different geopolitical zones is the farthest relationship in inter-Tribal marriage..e.g
Hausa (North East) and Igbo (South East)
So you are confused and never the kids from inter-Tribal marriage...You need to free your head
and mind...There's no problem with inter-tribal marriage...The problem is you

.
Human nature embellishes and cherish what it understands and is involve in. He made a point, you made a point. No need resorting to tantrums.
Tribes differs from geopolitical zones and can't be mixed together. Some couples can be from same tribe but different geopolitical zone. Intertribal marriage is not geopolitical, it is tribal.


My take on the topic.
Our language and culture will go extinct.
English language becoming a lingual franca in the home is something I abhors and detest because when there is language disparity between the couples, someone has to start learning the language, cuisines and culture all in the name of marriage. So in other to prevent problems a neutral language has to be used.

How many kids from intertribal marriages speaks both languages fluently and understands the culture.?
If I am going to marry again and presented with these intertribal decision, I will go for a white man instead. It makes the understanding of the language and culture easier.

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Re: Inter-tribal Marriages,....... How Did It Turn Out For You by tonychristopher: 7:17am On Feb 13, 2016
Even God told the Israelites to marry within their tribes

So what are we arguing here

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