so I fell in love with this girl earlier this month , and went for her, luckily for me, she agreed,

We’ve been dating for the past two weeks now , and something that baffles me , is the fact that she hasn’t gotten over her ex boyfriend.

At times she compares me to him, Mocks me when am incapable of doing something her ex seems to know how to do.

she cries a lot whenever her ex name is mentioned randomly, Or when She remembers some memories ,Or Glance at some of his pictures.

I confronted her the other day to clarify some issues, but she says I should give her some time.

I even adviced her not to force herself into any relationship with her current situation, when I called for a breakup so as for her to get herself together, she refused and said I should just give her time and that she is not ready to lose another guy.

am confused right now and don’t know what to do
this is a girl I love very much, and not ready to lose.
But it seems to me that she is trying to use me to get back to her ex.

Please I could use a little advice?

I have been through hell because of this

Get over her ASAP!

My friend, you are just a pawn in her game to get back to her ex and she seem disappointed that you ain't living up to her billing!

Dump her sorry a$$!

Or do you want to remain stagnant?

Note that if you can't do away with ur "past" you are just reminiscing in your present.

dude, become a man and tell her you gon' end d shii if she doesn't stop

sorry advice don finish for today,that $14k linda money dey vez me.

This is wat we call quandary in English

vault:
dude, become a man and tell her you gon' end d shii if she doesn't stop

I STILL LOVE HER

Do the needful

brandnew3:
Get over her ASAP!

WHAT ABOUT THE PART I TOLD YOU THAT I LOVE HER

Onyejemechimere:
I STILL LOVE HER

and she doesn't seem to love you...... desperate times calls for desperate measures.... man up and make ya self happy

decatalyst:
My friend, you are just a pawn in her game to get back to her ex and she seem disappointed that you ain't living up to her billing!

Dump her sorry a$$!

Or do you want to remain stagnant?

Note that if you can't do away with ur "past" you are just reminiscing in your present.

but I still love her
lalasticlala, could you help

Oma307:
Do the needful

which is

decatalyst:
My friend, you are just a pawn in her game to get back to her ex and she seem disappointed that you ain't living up to her billing!

Dump her sorry a$$!

Or do you want to remain stagnant?

Note that if you can't do away with ur "past" you are just reminiscing in your present.

hmmm

Sincerely this is a serious issue.


I think it all boils down to you sitting her down and trying to let her see what she's putting you through.

Love indeed is a life sublime and should be patient but I still believe you need to let her understand your stance because she will have to choose between her past and the present.


Better still get over her as your ex if she insist....

Help her get over her ex... give her some time to forget the memories.... Heart break is always a bitch.....

Truth is... This girl is gna leave u without consideration if the so called ex asks for a reconciliation... So now dat ur head is still above the ocean of luv...plz brk up with her, but dont become enemies with her, keep her as a friend till she is emotionally detached from d other guy... But shld u chose not to brk up, just have it in mind dat ur relationship is headed nowhere so u don't get shocked too nuch wen she dumps u

Royle2014:
Truth is... This girl is gna leave u without consideration if the so called ex asks for a reconciliation... So now dat ur head is still above the ocean of luv...plz brk up with her, but dont become enemies with her, keep her as a friend till she is emotionally detached from d other guy... But shld u chose not to brk up, just have it in mind dat ur relationship is headed nowhere so u don't get shocked too nuch wen she dumps u

thanks bruh

Onyejemechimere:
but I still love her
lalasticlala, could you help

I am not convinced that you love her! You guys started dating just TWO weeks ago!

Wake up from your sleep, its infatuation, for now!

Onyejemechimere:
so I fell in love with this girl earlier this month , and went for her, luckily for me, she agreed,

We’ve been dating for the past two weeks now , and something that baffles me , is the fact that she hasn’t gotten over her ex boyfriend.

At times she compares me to him, Mocks me when am incapable of doing something her ex seems to know how to do.

she cries a lot whenever her ex name is mentioned randomly, Or when She remembers some memories ,Or Glance at some of his pictures.

I confronted her the other day to clarify some issues, but she says I should give her some time.

I even adviced her not to force herself into any relationship with her current situation, when I called for a breakup so as for her to get herself together, she refused and said I should just give her time and that she is not ready to lose another guy.

am confused right now and don’t know what to do
this is a girl I love very much, and not ready to lose.
But it seems to me that she is trying to use me to get back to her ex.

Please I could use a little advice?

hello?

Tell her to deal with her ex before she starts a new journey with u.

That's how u will end up marrying her and she will continue fvcking her ex

Well bro, I am not skilled in this but still, what is worth saying is worth saying: Keep your distance. If she reacts ignore.

I smell Rebound everywhere

Give her some time and if u noted there are no improvement, then you can go ahead by give her RED CARD

Onyejemechimere:
which is

Comparing u with her EX is an obvious sign dat she jst wanna use u to get over her EX, and she's still madly in love with him. Don't be fooled cos bae's aren't loyal. It's a clear sign dat she caused Y her EX dumped her. Guy man-up and make clear ur stance to her, or very soon she'll man you down.

Onyejemechimere:
WHAT ABOUT THE PART I TOLD YOU THAT I LOVE HER

She doesn't love you so quit.

What is that thing that his ex is capable of doing that u can't do. Try to sit her down again n talk to her. 2 weeks is not long enough for u to know her. Give her some time more. But if the same story keep repeating itself, I advice, u show her THE EXIT DOOR.. I hope this help!!!.