₦airaland Forum

"If you don't like a guy, you don't like him."

Does it mean that if he tries wooing you once and you declined, he should quit wooing you?

Some ladies like to be pestered.

If he likes, he should speak all the english in the dictionary for you, you will still decline.

If he likes, he should buy you all the gifts item in shop rite, you will still not like him.



My question, what makes you like a guy?

Is there an innate likeness that a lady develops towards a guy or there is a special characteristics that will make you like him?

I like and accept people over time.

ashewoboy:
"If you don't like a guy, you don't like him."

Does it mean that if he tries wooing you once and you declined, he should quit wooing you?

Some ladies like to be pestered.

If he likes, he should speak all the english in the dictionary for you, you will still decline.

If he likes, he should buy you all the gifts item in shop rite, you will still not like him.



My question, what makes you like a guy?

Is there an innate likeness that a lady develops towards a guy or there is a special characteristics that will make you like him?

Abi

sinaj:
I like and accept people over time.

N I like u o...how much time e dey take b4 u like person, I can wait!!!

There are a lot of factors in my experience.

1. Strongest is what their friends think.

Possess skills that would make the friend say "wow or awwwww".. And she sees them as competitors, she'll want in soon enough.

2. Second should be ur mannerisms.
Be predictable, apologetic and she'll resent you
For me, when guys come in through the door, I come in through the window. I am never predictable, I fit enter pidgin this minute, enter Queen's English the next, I move as fast as the wind. They like originals

3. Define ur relationship early... "babe, I wanna hit that arse", or "i wanna date you.. Works for some pple..
It does not matter how u drop the hint.. Drop it anyway. It takes u way ahead other guys.. If she is into you, things will move faster.

4. Don't make her feel like she's ur only hope in this life.
Make her feel she could be ur last hope if she tries. She would have to earn it. Dunno how to explain this o. But it's something I just do unconsciously

kilokeys:
There are a lot of factors in my experience.

1. Strongest is what their friends think.

Possess skills that would make the friend say "wow or awwwww".. And she sees them as a competitor, she'll want in soon enough.

2. Second should be ur mannerisms.
Be predictable, apologetic and she'll recent you.
For me, when guys come in through the door, I come in through the window. I am never predictable, I fit enter pidgin this minute, enter Queen's English the next, I move as fast as the wind. They like originals

3. Define ur relationship early... "babe, I wanna hit that arse", or "i wanna date you.. Works for some pple..
It does not matter how u drop the hint.. Drop it anyway. It takes u way ahead other guys.. If she is into you, things will move faster.

4. Don't make her feel like she's ur only hope in this life.
Make her feel she could be ur last hope if she tries. She would have to earn it. Dunno how to explain this o. But it's something I just do unconsciously

You don't need say more...

Smartguy001:
N I like u o...how much time e dey take b4 u like person, I can wait!!!

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