Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / NewStats: 3,152,879 members, 7,817,586 topics. Date: Saturday, 04 May 2024 at 03:00 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? (851 Views)
My Ex-Girlfriend Has Become Best friends With My Current Girlfriend / 4 Reasons Why You Can't Be "Just Friends" With Your Ex / She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. (2) (3) (4)
Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by domainservice(m): 7:30am On Feb 20, 2016 |
No! I have gone back and forth with a lot of girlfriends about this topic. For me it’s a no. I don’t think there can be a clear friendship after a break up. Some friends said “well, it depends on how the relationship ended”. In their opinion, if the relationship ended amicably and both parties parted ways without any mess then there is room for a friendship. One of my girlfriends even said one of her exes has now turned out to be a very good friend. Two snaps and a twirl to them for making it work, but for me I still believe that it is not possible. Well, maybe ‘not possible’ is not exactly right so I will say I don’t advise it. Just as they say men and women can’t be friends because someone always wants more, I believe that the same thing applies to people who become friends after a relationship. What do you think |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 7:32am On Feb 20, 2016 |
No. Our end time contract has expired |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by grad2012(f): 7:34am On Feb 20, 2016 |
No their wahala is too much jare.But that doesn't mean if we meet we won't say hi to each other. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 7:34am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Never advisable! There will always be room for misbahaving. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Darammliveth(m): 7:38am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Not always advisable... It's a 'NO' to me. Our contract expired the day we cut it off! |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 7:55am On Feb 20, 2016 |
No o Cos when u set boundaries they wud violate it cos dey wud feel dey once had access to such boundaries they can still do all over again so if u my ex i dont kno u but wen i see u i say hi nd move on I tried making an ex a friend bt d mutherfvcker blew it up screwed it by sayin he wanna cum bck dat shii drives me nut like if it never worked before wat improvement will it make? Every one cant b lucky like tu face nd annie now na diff race man dey run individually So No Excuse my long irrelevant story im really such a dumb lady 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 7:56am On Feb 20, 2016 |
friends with benefit... |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Rone16(f): 7:59am On Feb 20, 2016 |
I tried it..it didn't work out so I think you can be just normal 'hi' and 'hello' friends not close. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:00am On Feb 20, 2016 |
justified10: really cant u just let go of sumone without selfish desires hain why use nd use d babe wen u kno u cant love her Guys complicates life women just helps to enlongate matter |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:01am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Rone16: Exactly u on point |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Youngpo413: 8:01am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Only foolish people do that. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:07am On Feb 20, 2016 |
sickstars:if d lady wants to b ma friend after breakup, it can only b friends with benefit especially if I av had(F)her before. how can I b demoted from being a fck-mate to being just a friend..? |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:13am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Yes but not a close one. Just a hello hi friends... |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:13am On Feb 20, 2016 |
justified10: ma nigga nd his level sha |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:18am On Feb 20, 2016 |
sickstars:friendship with an ex will always turn somtin else... even if I "toast" babe and she no Gree, I no fit b ha friend... |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by JeffreyJamez(m): 8:29am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Depends in the situation around the break up. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by domainservice(m): 8:38am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Like I said I just can't just imagine myself
doing it. We have bn there, done it & outta it. If it didn’t
work then, it ain’t gonna work now. So what’s d point?
Ain’t trying to go down memory lane with no Ex.
Most times, they end up becoming friends with benefits.
Lai lai I just CAN’T deal. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by domainservice(m): 8:38am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Like I said I just can't just imagine myself
doing it. We have bn there, done it & outta it. If it didn’t
work then, it ain’t gonna work now. So what’s d point?
Ain’t trying to go down memory lane with no Ex.
Most times, they end up becoming friends with benefits.
Lai lai I just CAN’T deal. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by domainservice(m): 8:38am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Like I said I just can't just imagine myself
doing it. We have bn there, done it & outta it. If it didn’t
work then, it ain’t gonna work now. So what’s d point?
Ain’t trying to go down memory lane with no Ex.
Most times, they end up becoming friends with benefits.
Lai lai I just CAN’T deal. |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 8:46am On Feb 20, 2016 |
I can take my ex as a friend if i have no feelings for him. But the one I still burn for, Hell No !!! I will prefer we don't see or make contact at all. Its either we make up or we become Enemies. Thats it 1 Like |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by chigoizie7(m): 10:51am On Feb 20, 2016 |
Sure, why not? |
Re: Loud Thinker: Can You Be Friends With Your Ex? by Nobody: 10:54am On Feb 20, 2016 |
y not. friend wt benefits lo sure ju! |
(1) (Reply)
8 Qualities In A Woman That A Man Can't Turn Away From / B-itches Aint Shit / Arrange Marriage Vs Love Marriage!!!
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 21 |