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Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by ZYZZA: 2:49pm On Feb 21, 2016
I personally had this girl as a close friend we talk and do many stuff together ,later on I noticed I the feeling I had towards her where not normal ,i knew I had developed feelings .


I just keep wondering how possible it is to be just friends for a long time with no feelings

Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Strahovski1(m): 2:51pm On Feb 21, 2016
YES!

My best friend is a girl

So it's possible
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Cutehector(m): 2:52pm On Feb 21, 2016
Marry your best friend. cool (of the opposite sex ooooooo)

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Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by RoyalBlak007: 2:52pm On Feb 21, 2016
YEs...if ya both are virgins
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by iceberylin(m): 2:54pm On Feb 21, 2016
That's like having a chicken as Pet.. You will eat it someday...

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Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by tope24(m): 2:57pm On Feb 21, 2016
iceberylin:
That's like having a chicken as Pet.. You will eat it someday...

Na true. I once tried it though but it didn't work. Best friend without feelings. Only. Jesus cn do that
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by McCarlito(m): 2:59pm On Feb 21, 2016
Not possible.... except u are castrated or u are a eunuch.....




















Meanwhile what's the purpose of keeping a chicken as pet When u know say it's either u chop am or u sell am grin grin grin grin grin

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Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Tallesty1(m): 3:00pm On Feb 21, 2016
Ask Pete Edochie

Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Tallesty1(m): 3:01pm On Feb 21, 2016
iceberylin:
That's like having a chicken as Pet.. You will eat it someday...
It works for some people bro.

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Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by ZYZZA: 3:01pm On Feb 21, 2016
iceberylin:
That's like having a chicken as Pet.. You will eat it someday...
that the best illustration my friend ,having a chicken as a pet

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Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Mutuwa(m): 3:01pm On Feb 21, 2016
Yes..very possible.
I have alot of girls as friends and also colleagues at work,whom have shared terrible and awe inspiring secrets,yet not a single feeling..
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by theunnamed: 3:02pm On Feb 21, 2016
No angry angry
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by ZYZZA: 3:03pm On Feb 21, 2016
tope24:


Na true. I once tried it though but it didn't work. Best friend without feelings. Only. Jesus cn do that
lol
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by iceberylin(m): 3:05pm On Feb 21, 2016
Tallesty1:
It works for some people bro.
Depends on how unattractive the bestie is...
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by cruzita(f): 3:05pm On Feb 21, 2016
ofcos I have a lot of male friends and I'm very close to at least 3 of them but no strings attached
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Nobody: 3:06pm On Feb 21, 2016
Dating my best friend i suppose embarassed
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by iceberylin(m): 3:06pm On Feb 21, 2016
tope24:


Na true. I once tried it though but it didn't work. Best friend without feelings. Only. Jesus cn do that

Imagine Omotola As Bestie undecided

Can even make a gay bestie reconsider
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by ZYZZA: 3:07pm On Feb 21, 2016
RoyalBlak007:
YEs...if ya both are virgins
how does that stop you from falling in love
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by ZYZZA: 3:10pm On Feb 21, 2016
cruzita:
ofcos I have a lot of male friends and I'm very close to at least 3 of them but no strings attached
hope you know you are speaking for only yourself

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Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by cruzita(f): 3:11pm On Feb 21, 2016
ZYZZA:
hope you know you are speaking for only yourself
should I speak for u too?na me and you waka come?
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by dhardline(m): 3:12pm On Feb 21, 2016
Very possible but one always ends up making a difference...caught feelings for my very good female friend,real strong feelings. cry . But am trying to break loose anyway.

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Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Nobody: 3:16pm On Feb 21, 2016
Very very possible.
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by ZYZZA: 3:17pm On Feb 21, 2016
cruzita:
should I speak for u too?na me and you waka come?
I mean you can't read the mind of those guys, one might just be thinking something else, you never can tell
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by sinequanon: 3:19pm On Feb 21, 2016
I am not quite sure what you are asking, exactly.

Saying you are friends or close friends is different from saying you are best friends.

Having feelings is different from falling in love.

So to the answers, depending on what you mean..

1. Best friends, no. I don't even know how I could be best friends with a woman.

2. Close friends, yes. I can be close friends with a girl without falling in love.

3. Close friends without romantic feelings? It should be possible although it has never happened Just because you don't find a particular woman physically attractive, does not mean that you don't have a lot of common interests or common outlook. So, you ought to be able to be close friends if the situation were to arise (without your d1.ck arising too. cool )

Of course, the "i-will-hit-anything-in-a-skirt-brigade" will step forward and tell us that they find all women physically attractive, and this is a sign of their incredible manhood (but I think it is a sign of their desperation. grin )
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by ZYZZA: 3:20pm On Feb 21, 2016
dhardline:
Very possible but one always ends up making a difference...caught feelings for my very good female friend,real strong feelings. cry
that the point
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Swaggeronfleak(m): 3:37pm On Feb 21, 2016
iceberylin:
That's like having a chicken as Pet.. You will eat it someday...

Lol

Bad guy...u don see dah parable too abi
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Swaggeronfleak(m): 3:40pm On Feb 21, 2016
cruzita:
ofcos I have a lot of male friends and I'm very close to at least 3 of them but no strings attached

Be lying mohamed der oo

When I'm still on NL



See her face
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by tope24(m): 3:43pm On Feb 21, 2016
iceberylin:


Imagine Omotola As Bestie undecided

Can even make a gay bestie reconsider


Even as she don drop kids, gbagbe I fit auction my properties to be with am. Omo toh pretty
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by tommychow(m): 3:56pm On Feb 21, 2016
Mature men who have high level of self-control can maintain a close friendship whether they have feelings or not. Having feelings is impulsive but how you choose to act on it is what really counts. You value you friendship? Stay strong, the feelings will fade away.

Women on the other hand can hide their feelings for life so no problem on their part.
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by Dabosslady(f): 4:13pm On Feb 21, 2016
tommychow:
Mature men who have high level of self-control can maintain a close friendship whether they have feelings or not. Having feelings is impulsive but how you choose to act on it is what really counts. You value you friendship? Stay strong, the feelings will fade away.

Women on the other hand can hide their feelings for life so no problem on their part.
Very sensible and matured comment.
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by tommychow(m): 4:20pm On Feb 21, 2016
Dabosslady:
Very sensible and matured comment.

Cheers!
Re: Can A Guy And A Girl Be Best Friends With Out Developing Feelings by cruzita(f): 4:54pm On Feb 21, 2016
Swaggeronfleak:

Be lying mohamed der oo
When I'm still on NL


See her face
oga mi longest time

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