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Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:19pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
I have this current girlfriend. I have seen what I don't know whether to call love or desperation which she keeps showing me. She buys me different things, can kiss me for long minutes and never gets tired of cuddling. In fact, during the Christmas period, I didn't buy not even a single thing for myself or her. All the money I spent was on my family and relatives. Not as if I didn't want to buy for her, but I told her I will buy just to test what she will do or say. She told me that I shouldn't look at the fact that she's earning money and not buy her things, that she likes surprises once in a while. I agreed. But it didn't stop her from showing me affection in any way you can conceive. At times I get a little bit scared because I know women are powerful in their schemes. She's aware that my ex is also In the picture, my ex is literally awaiting for me to just invite her over so that she can come over and 'fight for her place'. I don't know if it's part of why the current one is doing all these. I have tried to avoid giving her hopes of marriage or even long relationship, I told her that we should date with an open mind. This I said so that she will take it easy with this show of affection but it's not working. When a woman tells you that you are the only man that complements her. Guys is this young lady desperate or what? Lalasticlala 1 Like |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by ClitoPen: 7:33pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Activate your spiritual microscope but be neutral and watch things unfold |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by dingbang(m): 7:33pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Now someone is being real with you, you are calling the person desperate... Me thinks you don't deserve this lady. 21 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:34pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Only if Rita Dominic can love me like this. 1 Like |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by pocohantas(f): 7:39pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Nothing can please you men. Later you'll open that your big mouth to say Nigerian girls are all materialistic. 11 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
pocohantas: E pain am oo Did I say she's materialistic? She's just showing me a very high affection that I can't fathom 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:42pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
iyke926:Go and meet her and talk to her na |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:43pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
dingbang:I didn't call her desperate. Just wondering if she is. I deserve all life's best |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ClitoPen:Be neutral. How? |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Blackhawk03(f): 7:47pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
pocohantas: You make demands? - you're a gold digger. You don't? - you be olosho and desperate woman, definitely collecting from other men and spending it on him to tie him down... Their confusion is legendary! 8 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Divay22(f): 7:48pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
I thought you and this your girlfriends tale ended in 2017 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by ennyj01(m): 7:50pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
all i can say is that you should try your best not to loose her, because girls like dis are hard to find. and to your question dis is luv not desperation 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by DEIFIED(m): 7:50pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
i can understand the fear of the op, it look too cool to be true. well there is a way I deal with girls now, I just act along with them when their motives are not clear to me, its just a risk I am willy to take, but I am still very careful and observant of every of their actions and body language, If I deduce she is playing a game or on some kind of mission, then I withdraw subtly. the thing is you can never understand a woman, that's why you have to consider it a risk being in a relationship with any. 3 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:52pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Divay22:It will end when I show my wedding pics here |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:54pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ennyj01:How did you ascertain that it's love |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by elantraceey(f): 7:54pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
You guys though... show affection, you complain.... don't show affection, you still complain What do you guys want? 1 Like |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by jesusdiedLOL(m): 7:55pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
The number of stupid people on nairaland is mind blowing. Not suprised though, its an accurate representation of the average Nigerians intelligent quotient. Sad 2 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:57pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
DEIFIED:She loves everything I do including scolding her or giving her instructions. She even thanks me for that The only thing she doesn't like is another woman in the picture |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
elantraceey:E tire me oo |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by ennyj01(m): 8:02pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Assuming she was desperate, she would be stalking you, she will be disturbing you about marriage (and from ur story, u told her to b open minded and u av cleared her several times that u were not ready for marriage), u also said she knws ur ex is very much in the question, assuming she was desperate she would av tried to cut u frm ur ex, knowing she could loose her place any moment, if she was desperate... am not sure the points are enough sha, am also open to thought and suggestions sha. FortifiedCity: 1 Like |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 8:02pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
jesusdiedLOL:Shut up. Intelligent mugu |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by jonaifame22(m): 8:09pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
, does she ask for sex regularly? |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 8:11pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ennyj01:She doesn't like seeing my communication with my ex. |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
jonaifame22:What do you want to do with that?
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Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by jonaifame22(m): 8:13pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
FortifiedCity:I jus wanna feed my curious mind |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by ubunja(m): 8:15pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
ClitoPen:what does that even mean?? |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 8:15pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Blackhawk03:Yeah. Their confusion is legendary
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Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Blackhawk03(f): 8:16pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
FortifiedCity: Please, let the babe go meet better person biko. 4 Likes |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
She loves you and values you too much. |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by ennyj01(m): 8:19pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
i don't know what to say, but i believe what she is doing is because she loves u FortifiedCity: |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 8:19pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
jonaifame22:I wont answer you. You too like sex |
Re: Is This Love Or Desperation On The Part Of This Lady? by Nobody: 8:22pm On Jan 10, 2018 |
Blackhawk03:I be better person na. That's why she's with me Do you want to take over if she goes |
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