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Men crack me up – to be fair, myself included.
We know exactly the type of girl we’re supposed
to be with. We all do. We all know exactly the
type of woman we ought to end up with in order
to have a happy and healthy relationship.
But guess what? We’re not going to choose her.
We’re going to choose that other girl – the one
that will screw with our heads and break our
hearts.
Men choose the bad girl instead of the good girl
four out of five times. Even though we all know
that choosing the good girl is the wise decision,
we almost never choose her. Why? Here are 10
reasons:

1. Men conflate "bad" with sexy
Bad is exciting. For men, quite literally. Men have
managed to even incorporate the word “bad” into
everyday language as a synonym for “sexy.”
Such as, “Damn. She’s bad.”
We find bad sexy because the things we plan on
doing to bad women are likewise “bad,” or
naughty. Bad is naughty and naughty is sexy.
Good, on the other hand, sounds predictable.

2.Men are gamblers, risk takers
Sure, some men avoid gambling and taking any
and all risk. We call them wimps. Wimps will take
any women they get because they’re simply
happy a woman even started talking to them.
Every other man takes risks in one part of his life
or another.
Not all men want to gamble on a bad woman –
we label these men mature and intelligent.[/b]The
majority of us are still under the illusion a bad girl
is a gamble we can cash out on.

3.[b]Bad girls are usually better in bed
I’m sorry good girls, but it’s true. But first, allow
me to clarify. There are plenty of bad girls who
come across as good girls to the untrained eye.
These women will play straight arrows out in
public, but once they get you behind closed
doors, they unleash the beast.
When I say good girls I mean girls who are good
through and through – the kind of girl your
mother wishes for you. These girls aren’t as
good in bed because they simply aren’t overly
adventurous.

4. Although emotional pain sucks, men kind of like it
Yes, we’re slight masochists. We don’t enjoy the
pain itself, of course. But we do enjoy that we’re
able to feel so much. Most women don’t know
how great they have it being able to physically
experience a deeper level of emotion than men.
Men will always try to use that against them, but
they’re just jealous. Women are more alive than
men are because they feel more alive – they
literally feel more. Bad girls may hurt us, but they
remind us we’re breathing.

5. Good girls can come off bland The best way to explain it would be like this: To
men, bad girls are like a bucket of spicy buffalo
wings – you know you’re going to regret digging
into it, but it just tastes so good.
Good girls, on the other hand, are the equivalent
of a quinoa salad – it’s good for you, it’s the
healthier decision and it grows on you.
Unfortunately, four times out of five, men will go
for that wing.

6. Men like women they have a difficult time
figuring out
Personally, I love puzzles. If I can figure a girl
out entirely, I get bored. Most men probably
aren’t as extreme, but they do like mystery.
Every guy loves a bit of mystery in his life.
Bad girls are mysterious by nature. They’re
secretive and elusive. They’re hard to catch and
almost impossible to keep. I know this sounds
stupid, but men like that.

7. Most men aren’t looking for a woman and
thinking, “I wonder if she will make a good
mother
If this were the case then I promise you the
divorce rate would be cut in half. Men don’t like
to picture relationships too far down the line
because a lot of us have some level of
commitment issues.
If men all got wiser, then all the good girls would
be scooped up in an instant. We’re talking about
the mother of our kids after all.

8. Men like the uncertainty
While women are smart enough to want a man
who is clearly there to stay, men like to worry
about losing their women. We don’t want to be
certain we’ll have you forever.
We want to have you for ourselves for the rest of
eternity, but what we want even more than that
is to actually want you.
Men want, as women themselves do, what they
can’t have. If they already have you, then they’ll
settle for the thrill of the risk of losing you.
This kind of stuff excites men. Bad girls are
never a certain-thing and that’s why they catch
the interest of so many men.

9.Men love danger
Have you ever met a man who didn’t like action
movies? Who didn’t like to watch fights, races or
stunts? Of course, not. Men love danger.
We don’t love it so much when we’re in a
position of danger, but we like to look at it from a
distance. We like the concept of danger and bad
girls are a type of danger we feel comfortable
enough jousting with.

10. We feel like good is easy to get – but, of
course, we’re wrong Good seems easy to us, while bad seems more
like a challenge; men love challenges. We like to
see ourselves as conquerors. What we don’t
realize is that we are targeting the easier prey.
Bad girls may seem like a greater challenge to
keep, but that’s because they aren’t really worth
keeping. They are bad – by definition, not
something of much value. So if you win them
over, you’re not really winning.
Good girls, the strong and smart ones anyhow,
are the real challenge. To hold on to them, you
constantly have to prove your value. You
constantly have to put in as much as you take
out. To keep a good girl, you have to be
something most men can’t seem to do: be a good
man.

Estharfabian:

pinceprinz:
Everybody likes it when she so good looking but her ways so wicked...

Stupedinluv:
Except for mature men who would take no chances.

Cutehector:
I love this piece stupedinluv.


It's cool if we all embraced the truth and make corrections where possible


But I should correct u in some places tho


Men do not love danger


Cc: hateu2

Stupedinluv:
Actually they do. The average man loves anything that keeps him on his toes.

Jadekitana:
Very correct Op. #teamheartless brings them to the yard.

IsaacBuchi:
Do you mean the one Ludacris calls
"A lady in the street but a freak in the bed....

...Always stays fly, keeps it so real
But behind closed do's she a nasty girl "

Stupedinluv:
What do you have to say lady

Men are totally Silly beings...



Oh, before they come at me!
I meant to say "Some" men.

pinceprinz:
Are you a man? -No!
You have Dikc - No
You don't like your man sexy - No
Now, shut up!

Cutehector:
I dnt like anything that kips me on my toes

Estharfabian:
Men are totally Silly beings...



Oh, before they come at me!
I meant to say "Some" men.

BumBae:
Trash.com


Not u op dat weyrey wey u copy this thing from ...


What is a bad girl seff ? Does anyone know the definition ? Think that varies for every individual

Stupedinluv:
Thank God you didn't mean most, cos that's offensive too

Lucky me!

Stupedinluv:
Oh I didn't know bad is now relative.

BumBae:
Example : u see a girl with nose maybe 3 piercing on one ear ( nigerians : ahh nah bad bae be dat, plosho etc ) the girl might even b a virgin or even holier dan some .. But in some guys mind she is a bad girl cuz she get piercing ..

Mayb a girl clubs alot .. She might just go out for fun n nothing more someone can call her bad girl ... N she might not be .. So everyones has different views on bad .. I guess


Like the guy said bad girls are good in bed but how does he know ... Not necessarily the case

Cutehector:
I love this piece stupedinluv.


It's cool if we all embraced the truth and make corrections where possible


But I should correct u in some places tho


Men do not love danger


Cc: ha.teu2

Estharfabian:
Men are totally Silly beings...



Oh, before they come at me!
I meant to say "Some" men.

HateU2:
Mai boo

pinceprinz:
Everybody likes it when she so good looking but her ways so wicked...

Stupedinluv:
Hmmn i dont believe you

KingCheezyPuff:
Every last one of them dudes on here that love cryin'....

" these b's an h' ain't loyal"

...need ta been here seein' this!
Wipe ya eyes an stop ya bawllin' cause it's yo fault!