I attended a beautiful all girls school. We were trained to be proper ladies..walk erect don't stoop, don't cross the lawn, hair must be done in a certain way, ), use deodorants, speak gently like a lady etc etc. We only saw boys on special occasions e,g Literary and debating events, inter house sports day. Completely sheltered by our dear teachers and Nuns.
Then there came this young unmarried teacher, ready to take us into the world of Poetry, into Shakespeare, into the mind of Wole Soyinka...and also make us fall in love with J.p Clark's Abiku.. Christopher Okigbo's ..Before you mother Idoto poem was not left out. Wao.,,he blew our young highly impressionable minds. Nobody missed Literature classes. Every girl hung on his words pretending to understand this "deeeeep" and very intelligent young man. He made the literary world to come alive and many a girl had a huge crush on him. Even as matured ladies now, we all still smile when we remember.

At that time parents were vigilant, female teachers were extra vigilant leaving nothing to chance. I believe this our teacher never took advantage of the very vulnerable and very young girls in his care.He could have picked any.,...innocence written all over.

This brings me to the point I want to raise, DO SCHOOLS HAVE GUIDELINES FOR MALE TEACHERS/FEMALE STUDENTS AND VICE VERSA INTERACTIONS?

The reality we are facing is that the girl child is becoming increasingly more vulnerable with several predators around and it has been said that Rape occurs once opportunity arises and there is access to the Victim.

There is an urgent need for vigilance, Yunusa is already claiming that it was a love affair with Ese not Abduction. There is an urgent need to ensure that our girls wake up to the reality of these times. I don't want to go into the various tales of teachers engaged in very steamy relationships with young girls but schools sometimes cover up to protect their brand name.

May I end this by advising Schools to develop guidelines that must be strictly enforced and to ensure that inappropriate behavior by anyone in authority is promptly reported...We are no longer in the 70s and 80s when we trusted everyone to do the right thing...,WATCH AND PRAY.

May The Lord protect our girls.


Culled from the Facebook group for Parents and Educators...

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God forgive me! Where I served ehhh! only God ccan forgive sha! guideline ko

a female corper was impregnated by a JSS 3 boy in kebbi state during my service year, she was employ by d boy's parent as a private class teacher so it has not jst to do wt male teachers alone, we guys loose our innocence to some badt older baes

utenwuson:
God forgive me! Where I served ehhh! only God ccan forgive sha! guideline ko

Badt guy... Are you sure you've truly repented? What if there's a second chance to serve in that same school?

utenwuson:
God forgive me! Where I served ehhh! only God ccan forgive sha! guideline ko

Lol! Only God!!!

kennysteve77:


Badt guy... Are you sure you've truly repented? What if there's a second chance to serve in that same school?

yeah not repent per say but am more into mature relationship now n am not in dt kinda environment

Mods let's have more experiences here...

Cc: lalasticlala ishilove

But truth be told some school girls are hot . Am saying dis from a clean mind o

So true, back then in my boarding school, there was a male corper who taught maths and each time he came to class, the girls will start to form activity, and did I mention that there was a surge in progesterone/oestrogen levels and an explosive testosterone levels?

I feel you OP. I also attended an all girl's private secondary school.

Some of my class mates were crazy about a few of the young male teachers which I didn't really understand. I wondered what they were crazy about.

There was one teacher though, he was young and thought himself charming. He got fired because one JS1 student had written him a very sexy love note which another classmate found and reported to the school administrator.

The guy was asked to pack his things immediately. I doubt the guy had anything to do with the student who was obviously crushing on him.

Fast forward later, the girl grew up to have serious issues o. She couldn't pass WAEC, wrote it a number of times and then she became a serious man freak.

She was very attractive but she didn't know how to say no to anyone that came her way.

The girl's matter no be here, I don't know whether she was cursed sef but she just wasn't normal. Something probably happened in her childhood to make her that way.

Yeah,Creating awareness is indeed important,many teenagers are still very much innocent,mistaking their raging hormones for love,if the girl/adolescent is properly tutored to understand that it is normal to crush on the males around her at any point in time,but that it should not necessarily lead to an intimate relationship,I believe there would be less stories of molest, most of these girls in subtle ways may have given consent to the molester,i am not justifying any act of MOLEST here,but then,she can properly identify a potential predator and know that she is not in love every time these girly hormones are raging.

brb

Tocheagle:
But truth be told some school girls are hot . Am saying dis from a clean mind o

I concur.

I'm proud to be born in United States of Nigeria

God, please Save our girls. Konji is bastard

Would u blame the teacher if he had made advances at some of u?

No b book dem send you to go read

Sum guys on NL need education....serious education.....like wtf is it bad to have a crush on someone Or have fantasies about someone Isn't that why you have hormone? Sum idiiiot are here shouting and wailing.... ......

OP , you're great.

But se u get connections ni? How you make front page without writing about the big snake once killed in your school?

They have guidlines for teachers in every school. Just that there are always Judas in every twelve.

Actually OP wasted my precious * time
Shame!

Why put Yanusa inside this story?





ThefakeStan

mmmm jagaban

hmm....kudos to those male teachers who never took advantage of those little minds.....They are the real mvp

Yeah we will worry about that after we fix the economy, I'm sure that even the predators have better things to worry about now,

utenwuson:
God forgive me! Where I served ehhh! only God ccan forgive sha! guideline ko

Talk true how many children do you have over there

Tocheagle:
But truth be told some school girls are hot . Am saying dis from a clean mind o

bros, what clean mind sees hotness in lil children, these re lil babies.

Before going to service I had already determined not to taint my reputation and not to do any of those things.
Fast forward to when I got to my PPA - a mixed secondary school. Tales had it that corp members before me came and messed themselves up....one of the cases led to a fight between some students over a male corp member, well I immediately set up a riot act which I read to them before every class session

'Good morning class, today we are studying Maths, if you do not have a pen, borrow one, if you forgot your book, tear out a sheet of paper, if you missed the last class leave a space, if you don't have a book write on your palms, if you do not want to write leave the class, when I write, you must write do we have an agreement?' *their voice ringing in my head yes uncle!!*
this became a routine and the students sang to it with glee every morning.
the stubborn ones, I'd flog (in the presence of the class to serve as deterrent) after two warnings and tell to leave the class, one day a girl chose to be VERY stubborn, refused to write, refused to leave the class, refused to be flogged on her palms.....lol! I flogged her anyway, she then feigned some kind of sickness, thank God I was finally vindicated.

I already knew from the teachers that they had slept with some, if not most students and they 'encouraged' me to have a 'wife' amongst on of the students, thing is once you mess up with ONE, the whole school hears about it the very next day!!!! as corpers no kuku sabi their language!
I recall that I had at numerous times told some of the students SSS and JSS girls to button up as some whether mistakenly or otherwise leave their top buttons open, one particular girl was even bold enough to wink at me, that was the day I took action and flogged her in front of the class and unlike me, I didn't explain to the class what she did, lol. she hated me after that, understandably.

At the end of the service year a non-academic staff of the school came to tell me that she heard whispers going round that corper Brunel didn't try for them that he couldn't even pick one out of the whole school. that day laugh wan kill everyone for staff room!
I gave presents to my best students and it was a mutually emotional departure service they gave me, the first of it's kind ever in the school.

My advice is guys shouldn't take advantage of these gullible girls - treat them like younger sisters, some no dey baff well, some carry infections, plus a few minutes of pleasure should not be exchanged for your reputation and respect, what goes around comes around.

A post is enough for the wise. lol

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