It sexual appealing for male to teach and guild the female.

That same psychology is what play out in the four wall of the class room filled with girls, the reaction is what brings about crush from girls on their male teacher especially when he's super intelligent.


My experience still lingers till today, I happen to do my 300level field work in an all girls secondary school and till date my phone still don't rest in peace.

Hmmmm

repogirl:
I feel you OP. I also attended an all girl's private secondary school.

Some of my class mates were crazy about a few of the young male teachers which I didn't really understand. I wondered what they were crazy about.

There was one teacher though, he was young and thought himself charming. He got fired because one JS1 student had written him a very sexy love note which another classmate found and reported to the school administrator.

The guy was asked to pack his things immediately. I doubt the guy had anything to do with the student who was obviously crushing on him.

Fast forward later, the girl grew up to have serious issues o. She couldn't pass WAEC, wrote it a number of times and then she became a serious man freak.

She was very attractive but she didn't know how to say no to anyone that came her way.

The girl's matter no be here, I don't know whether she was cursed sef but she just wasn't normal. Something probably happened in her childhood to make her that way.

Do u still ve her contacts?.....

Correct!!! More comments on that forum...

kennysteve77:
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Using an All girls school is taking too far, try your street, the 13 years old are already having sex.

You can't blame the ‘predators'. I wouldn't call them that because it is a usual practice in Nigeria. What we need is education and a legal reform that puts age of consent to sex with an ‘adullt' at 16 with the consent of the parent.



Whatever Yunusa and Ese had was consensual

trishapal:
I attended a beautiful all girls school. We were trained to be proper ladies..walk erect don't stoop, don't cross the lawn, hair must be done in a certain way, ), use deodorants, speak gently like a lady etc etc. We only saw boys on special occasions e,g Literary and debating events, inter house sports day. Completely sheltered by our dear teachers and Nuns.
Then there came this young unmarried teacher, ready to take us into the world of Poetry, into Shakespeare, into the mind of Wole Soyinka...and also make us fall in love with J.p Clark's Abiku.. Christopher Okigbo's ..Before you mother Idoto poem was not left out. Wao.,,he blew our young highly impressionable minds. Nobody missed Literature classes. Every girl hung on his words pretending to understand this "deeeeep" and very intelligent young man. He made the literary world to come alive and many a girl had a huge crush on him. Even as matured ladies now, we all still smile when we remember.

At that time parents were vigilant, female teachers were extra vigilant leaving nothing to chance. I believe this our teacher never took advantage of the very vulnerable and very young girls in his care.He could have picked any.,...innocence written all over.

This brings me to the point I want to raise, DO SCHOOLS HAVE GUIDELINES FOR MALE TEACHERS/FEMALE STUDENTS AND VICE VERSA INTERACTIONS?

The reality we are facing is that the girl child is becoming increasingly more vulnerable with several predators around and it has been said that Rape occurs once opportunity arises and there is access to the Victim.

There is an urgent need for vigilance, Yunusa is already claiming that it was a love affair with Ese not Abduction. There is an urgent need to ensure that our girls wake up to the reality of these times. I don't want to go into the various tales of teachers engaged in very steamy relationships with young girls but schools sometimes cover up to protect their brand name.

May I end this by advising Schools to develop guidelines that must be strictly enforced and to ensure that inappropriate behavior by anyone in authority is promptly reported...We are no longer in the 70s and 80s when we trusted everyone to do the right thing...,WATCH AND PRAY.

May The Lord protect our girls.

Only foolish male goats rape women and only demonic beast of burden and imbcilic animals rape little girls. I taught in an all girls school during my NYSC but I never touched any of them kids till I finished my NYSC and left the state. I'd even walk into the school at night, from 7pm to 10pm to charge my laptop and phones when the school gen will be on. Still didn't touch any kid.

Well, people are diff tho..

That one na true talk.

Tocheagle:
But truth be told some school girls are hot . Am saying dis from a clean mind o

Googleus:


Do u still ve her contacts?.....

Shuuu! Na so your desperation be?

daretodiffer:
Using an All girls school is taking too far, try your street, the 13 years old are already having sex.

You can't blame the ‘predators'. I wouldn't call them that because it is a usual practice in Nigeria. What we need is education and a legal reform that puts age of consent to sex with an ‘adullt' at 16 with the consent of the parent.



Whatever Yunusa and Ese had was consensual

Madam!!! 13 years old .... Fear God now. What does a 13 year old know for crying out loud?

Mpyaw:
Madam!!! 13 years old .... Fear God now. What does a 13 year old know for crying out loud?

Everything

In a neighbourhood like Ese's, she knows everything. Her sexual awareness could have started before age 11 sef. And she could have started her menses before age 11.

God's care is the best

Icecomrade:



OPS.
How about guidelines for female teachers in relating with male students.

For your information, the first sexual experience I had was with a female corper who served as my government teacher then as an SS 1 student.
We had unaccountable sex in her apartment given to her at our teachers quarters during her period of service.

I had innocent fun then in my innocence and I don't regret it. Sadly I never saw again after her service till date.

I cant imagine how she looks like now and wont even recognize her if I should see her

Women should stop this holier than thou attitude and feeling that everything unacceptable is done by the male folks.

Structure a more balanced campaign

So true, unlike your case of female corp member, I also had a similar experience, my 1st sexual intercourse was by my aunts very mature friend. I was a kid then.


So, I get mad whenever is see threads where people( especially) female folks try to channel all their campaign in one direction.


I have even said something about my experience here on NL, I think d family section. However, as I remember that now, I don't feel bad, even though it robbed me of my innocence, but what about other young innocent boys?. Least I forget, during my secondary skul, I know many male students who normally have sex with female teachers( mostly young girls, some are corps members, some are permanent teachers).





However OP make a salient point. But also and always try to strike a balance, ur points are not just peculiar to female folks.

Tocheagle:
But truth be told some school girls are hot . Am saying dis from a clean mind o

Awon ti pervert!! E be like say e no true.

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OPS.
How about guidelines for female teachers in relating with male students.

For your information, the first sexual experience I had was with a female corper who served as my government teacher then as an SS 1 student.
We had unaccountable sex in her apartment given to her at our teachers quarters during her period of service.

I had innocent fun then in my innocence and I don't regret it. Sadly I never saw again after her service till date.

I cant imagine how she looks like now and wont even recognize her if I should see her

Welcome to my world bro. "Awon ti shabale" Buh it wasn't jst my own first experience sha.

Aha went to an only girls catholic boarding school too and I was always going to the Physics lab jst to catch a glimpse of the physics teacher Mr Faleye and I was not even a science student.Dude left the school after one year he probably couldnt stand the temptation from the girls lol

chigoizie7:



So true, unlike your case of female corp member, I also had a similar experience, my 1st sexual intercourse was by my aunts very mature friend. I was a kid then.


So, I get mad whenever is see threads where people( especially) female folks try to channel all their campaign in one direction.


I have even said something about my experience here on NL, I think d family section. However, as I remember that now, I don't feel bad, even though it robbed me of my innocence, but what about other young innocent boys?. Least I forget, during my secondary skul, I know many male students who normally have sex with female teachers( mostly young girls, some are corps members, some are permanent teachers).





However OP make a salient point. But also and always try to strike a balance, ur points are not just peculiar to female folks.

I feel you bro

God bless you.

Brunel:
Before going to service I had already determined not to taint my reputation and not to do any of those things.
Fast forward to when I got to my PPA - a mixed secondary school. Tales had it that corp members before me came and messed themselves up....one of the cases led to a fight between some students over a male corp member, well I immediately set up a riot act which I read to them before every class session

'Good morning class, today we are studying Maths, if you do not have a pen, borrow one, if you forgot your book, tear out a sheet of paper, if you missed the last class leave a space, if you don't have a book write on your palms, if you do not want to write leave the class, when I write, you must write do we have an agreement?' *their voice ringing in my head yes uncle!!*
this became a routine and the students sang to it with glee every morning.
the stubborn ones, I'd flog (in the presence of the class to serve as deterrent) after two warnings and tell to leave the class, one day a girl chose to be VERY stubborn, refused to write, refused to leave the class, refused to be flogged on her palms.....lol! I flogged her anyway, she then feigned some kind of sickness, thank God I was finally vindicated.

I already knew from the teachers that they had slept with some, if not most students and they 'encouraged' me to have a 'wife' amongst on of the students, thing is once you mess up with ONE, the whole school hears about it the very next day!!!! as corpers no kuku sabi their language!
I recall that I had at numerous times told some of the students SSS and JSS girls to button up as some whether mistakenly or otherwise leave their top buttons open, one particular girl was even bold enough to wink at me, that was the day I took action and flogged her in front of the class and unlike me, I didn't explain to the class what she did, lol. she hated me after that, understandably.

At the end of the service year a non-academic staff of the school came to tell me that she heard whispers going round that corper Brunel didn't try for them that he couldn't even pick one out of the whole school. that day laugh wan kill everyone for staff room!
I gave presents to my best students and it was a mutually emotional departure service they gave me, the first of it's kind ever in the school.

My advice is guys shouldn't take advantage of these gullible girls - treat them like younger sisters, some no dey baff well, some carry infections, plus a few minutes of pleasure should not be exchanged for your reputation and respect, what goes around comes around.

A post is enough for the wise. lol

Guideline fire!!! A good number of guys that have passed thru NYSC on here don scatter ground in a their various ppa

I remember my jss 1 days,my maths teacher would come to class n the first word she usually said was my name n if I wasn't around she would ask of my wwhereabout,this happened for years.till today I dnt know why she was doing that even when students echoed along she wasn't embarrassed.mad crush

chigoizie7:



So true, unlike your case of female corp member, I also had a similar experience, my 1st sexual intercourse was by my aunts very mature friend. I was a kid then.


So, I get mad whenever is see threads where people( especially) female folks try to channel all their campaign in one direction.


I have even said something about my experience here on NL, I think d family section. However, as I remember that now, I don't feel bad, even though it robbed me of my innocence, but what about other young innocent boys?. Least I forget, during my secondary skul, I know many male students who normally have sex with female teachers( mostly young girls, some are corps members, some are permanent teachers).





However OP make a salient point. But also and always try to strike a balance, ur points are not just peculiar to female folks.

You can't blame women because men are their own worst enemy. You don't speak out because of it is not in your nature to appear weak

It should go both ways, while I agree that men are more likely to abuse minors, doesn't mean women don't do same.

Back in my secondary school, we had this hot chemistry (corper)teacher that seemed to have a hold on the guys, I didn't really think it to mean anything back then, till I saw an old school mate of mine, who told me he and some other guys had sex with her, they were even giving her money too.

My math teacher then(male) in jss 2, wanted to try rubbish with me but having the mum I did, I told her and all I remember is that, he didn't complete the term with us, now I wonder why. I am sure our physics teacher also slept with some of the girls in school, now that I'm grown to fully understand it all.

Parents have a very big role to play, the most important role actually, teach your children the right values, relate with them in a way they can be open to you and you will definitely not regret it and as for those perverts(especially corpers) in schools, taking advantage of these impressionable teenagers, well, I reserve my comment.

johnson232:
U think every young girl is as loose as u?
Ur end is near! Ode!

as usual,were you molested by a female?

daretodiffer:


You can't blame women because men are their own worst enemy. You don't speak out because of it is not in your nature to appear weak

That is the point.


Secondly, no one ever believes that a guy can either be raped or molested.

So, they just keep quiet for fear of being called a weakling or a liar.

Mpyaw:
Madam!!! 13 years old .... Fear God now. What does a 13 year old know for crying out loud?

Is damn true.Even,below 13.

This just made me remember my service year, we had this corvcp member from delta state serving in a nearby school but stay in the same compound with us. The school where I teach is beside the our compound. this corp member fvcked virtually all the girls in my class, the guy doesn't know how to toast fellow corp member like majority of us that had a fellow corp member as our babe.
Mehn, the girls were just practically throwing themselves at us but majority of us never gave in. Kai, the guy kept fvcking them every other day. And he changes the girls everyday.

this just made me remember my service year, we had this corvcp member from delta state serving in a nearby school but stay in the same compound with us. The school where I teach is beside the our compound. this corp member fvcked virtually all the girls in my class, the guy doesn't know how to toast fellow corp member like majority of us that had a fellow corp member as our babe.
Mehn, the girls were just practically throwing themselves at us but majority of us never gave in. Kai, the guy kept fvcking them every other day. And he changes the girls everyday.

chigoizie7:




That is the point.


Secondly, no one ever believes that a guy can either be raped or molested.

So, they just keep quiet for fear of being called a weakling or a liar.

Yup, that needs to change

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Icecomrade:



OPS.
How about guidelines for female teachers in relating with male students.

For your information, the first sexual experience I had was with a female corper who served as my government teacher then as an SS 1 student.
We had unaccountable sex in her apartment given to her at our teachers quarters during her period of service.

I had innocent fun then in my innocence and I don't regret it. Sadly I never saw again after her service till date.

I cant imagine how she looks like now and wont even recognize her if I should see her

Women should stop this holier than thou attitude and feeling that everything unacceptable is done by the male folks.

Structure a more balanced campaign

But come to think of it, At SS1? Me I can't comfortably stand before a grown up girl at that. Age!

vitality22:
This just made me remember my service year, we had this corvcp member from delta state serving in a nearby school but stay in the same compound with us. The school where I teach is beside the our compound. this corp member fvcked virtually all the girls in my class, the guy doesn't know how to toast fellow corp member like majority of us that had a fellow corp member as our babe.
Mehn, the girls were just practically throwing themselves at us but majority of us never gave in. Kai, the guy kept fvcking them every other day. And he changes the girls everyday.

Most make corp members are guilty of it. Even so.e of them hear on Nairaland have giving the cookie to some teacher but we are in Africa, they can't speak out.