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spencekat:
Is damn true.Even,below 13.

Engrr:
But come to think of it, At SS1? Me I can't comfortably stand before a grown up girl at that. Age!

Brunel:
Before going to service I had already determined not to taint my reputation and not to do any of those things.
Fast forward to when I got to my PPA - a mixed secondary school. Tales had it that corp members before me came and messed themselves up....one of the cases led to a fight between some students over a male corp member, well I immediately set up a riot act which I read to them before every class session

'Good morning class, today we are studying Maths, if you do not have a pen, borrow one, if you forgot your book, tear out a sheet of paper, if you missed the last class leave a space, if you don't have a book write on your palms, if you do not want to write leave the class, when I write, you must write do we have an agreement?' *their voice ringing in my head yes uncle!!*
this became a routine and the students sang to it with glee every morning.
the stubborn ones, I'd flog (in the presence of the class to serve as deterrent) after two warnings and tell to leave the class, one day a girl chose to be VERY stubborn, refused to write, refused to leave the class, refused to be flogged on her palms.....lol! I flogged her anyway, she then feigned some kind of sickness, thank God I was finally vindicated.

I already knew from the teachers that they had slept with some, if not most students and they 'encouraged' me to have a 'wife' amongst on of the students, thing is once you mess up with ONE, the whole school hears about it the very next day!!!! as corpers no kuku sabi their language!
I recall that I had at numerous times told some of the students SSS and JSS girls to button up as some whether mistakenly or otherwise leave their top buttons open, one particular girl was even bold enough to wink at me, that was the day I took action and flogged her in front of the class and unlike me, I didn't explain to the class what she did, lol. she hated me after that, understandably.

At the end of the service year a non-academic staff of the school came to tell me that she heard whispers going round that corper Brunel didn't try for them that he couldn't even pick one out of the whole school. that day laugh wan kill everyone for staff room!
I gave presents to my best students and it was a mutually emotional departure service they gave me, the first of it's kind ever in the school.

My advice is guys shouldn't take advantage of these gullible girls - treat them like younger sisters, some no dey baff well, some carry infections, plus a few minutes of pleasure should not be exchanged for your reputation and respect, what goes around comes around.

A post is enough for the wise. lol

Icecomrade:



OPS.
How about guidelines for female teachers in relating with male students.

For your information, the first sexual experience I had was with a female corper who served as my government teacher then as an SS 1 student.
We had unaccountable sex in her apartment given to her at our teachers quarters during her period of service.

I had innocent fun then in my innocence and I don't regret it. Sadly I never saw again after her service till date.

I cant imagine how she looks like now and wont even recognize her if I should see her

Women should stop this holier than thou attitude and feeling that everything unacceptable is done by the male folks.

Structure a more balanced campaign

repogirl:
I feel you OP. I also attended an all girl's private secondary school.

Some of my class mates were crazy about a few of the young male teachers which I didn't really understand. I wondered what they were crazy about.

There was one teacher though, he was young and thought himself charming. He got fired because one JS1 student had written him a very sexy love note which another classmate found and reported to the school administrator.

The guy was asked to pack his things immediately. I doubt the guy had anything to do with the student who was obviously crushing on him.

Fast forward later, the girl grew up to have serious issues o. She couldn't pass WAEC, wrote it a number of times and then she became a serious man freak.

She was very attractive but she didn't know how to say no to anyone that came her way.

The girl's matter no be here, I don't know whether she was cursed sef but she just wasn't normal. Something probably happened in her childhood to make her that way.

Deejacy2:
The Males shlould have self-control, that's the main thing.., see them as your sisters.

Mpyaw:
is the sound system still available? How much last?

trishapal:
I attended a beautiful all girls school. We were trained to be proper ladies..walk erect don't stoop, don't cross the lawn, hair must be done in a certain way, ), use deodorants, speak gently like a lady etc etc. We only saw boys on special occasions e,g Literary and debating events, inter house sports day. Completely sheltered by our dear teachers and Nuns.
Then there came this young unmarried teacher, ready to take us into the world of Poetry, into Shakespeare, into the mind of Wole Soyinka...and also make us fall in love with J.p Clark's Abiku.. Christopher Okigbo's ..Before you mother Idoto poem was not left out. Wao.,,he blew our young highly impressionable minds. Nobody missed Literature classes. Every girl hung on his words pretending to understand this "deeeeep" and very intelligent young man. He made the literary world to come alive and many a girl had a huge crush on him. Even as matured ladies now, we all still smile when we remember.

At that time parents were vigilant, female teachers were extra vigilant leaving nothing to chance. I believe this our teacher never took advantage of the very vulnerable and very young girls in his care.He could have picked any.,...innocence written all over.

This brings me to the point I want to raise, DO SCHOOLS HAVE GUIDELINES FOR MALE TEACHERS/FEMALE STUDENTS AND VICE VERSA INTERACTIONS?

The reality we are facing is that the girl child is becoming increasingly more vulnerable with several predators around and it has been said that Rape occurs once opportunity arises and there is access to the Victim.

There is an urgent need for vigilance, Yunusa is already claiming that it was a love affair with Ese not Abduction. There is an urgent need to ensure that our girls wake up to the reality of these times. I don't want to go into the various tales of teachers engaged in very steamy relationships with young girls but schools sometimes cover up to protect their brand name.

May I end this by advising Schools to develop guidelines that must be strictly enforced and to ensure that inappropriate behavior by anyone in authority is promptly reported...We are no longer in the 70s and 80s when we trusted everyone to do the right thing...,WATCH AND PRAY.

May The Lord protect our girls.


Culled from the Facebook group for Parents and Educators...

https://m./1614336445514221?view=permalink&id=1704530709828127

trishapal:
I attended a beautiful all girls school. We were trained to be proper ladies..walk erect don't stoop, don't cross the lawn, hair must be done in a certain way, ), use deodorants, speak gently like a lady etc etc. We only saw boys on special occasions e,g Literary and debating events, inter house sports day. Completely sheltered by our dear teachers and Nuns.
Then there came this young unmarried teacher, ready to take us into the world of Poetry, into Shakespeare, into the mind of Wole Soyinka...and also make us fall in love with J.p Clark's Abiku.. Christopher Okigbo's ..Before you mother Idoto poem was not left out. Wao.,,he blew our young highly impressionable minds. Nobody missed Literature classes. Every girl hung on his words pretending to understand this "deeeeep" and very intelligent young man. He made the literary world to come alive and many a girl had a huge crush on him. Even as matured ladies now, we all still smile when we remember.

At that time parents were vigilant, female teachers were extra vigilant leaving nothing to chance. I believe this our teacher never took advantage of the very vulnerable and very young girls in his care.He could have picked any.,...innocence written all over.

This brings me to the point I want to raise, DO SCHOOLS HAVE GUIDELINES FOR MALE TEACHERS/FEMALE STUDENTS AND VICE VERSA INTERACTIONS?

The reality we are facing is that the girl child is becoming increasingly more vulnerable with several predators around and it has been said that Rape occurs once opportunity arises and there is access to the Victim.

There is an urgent need for vigilance, Yunusa is already claiming that it was a love affair with Ese not Abduction. There is an urgent need to ensure that our girls wake up to the reality of these times. I don't want to go into the various tales of teachers engaged in very steamy relationships with young girls but schools sometimes cover up to protect their brand name.

May I end this by advising Schools to develop guidelines that must be strictly enforced and to ensure that inappropriate behavior by anyone in authority is promptly reported...We are no longer in the 70s and 80s when we trusted everyone to do the right thing...,WATCH AND PRAY.

May The Lord protect our girls.


Culled from the Facebook group for Parents and Educators...

https://m./1614336445514221?view=permalink&id=1704530709828127

trishapal:
. Every girl hung on his words pretending to understand this "deeeeep" and very intelligent young man. He made the literary world to come alive and many a girl had a huge crush on him. Even as matured ladies now, we all still smile when we remember.

At that time parents were vigilant, female teachers were extra vigilant leaving nothing to chance. I believe this our teacher never took advantage of the very vulnerable and very young girls in his care.He could have picked any.,...innocence written all over.

This brings me to the point I want to raise, DO SCHOOLS HAVE GUIDELINES FOR MALE TEACHERS/FEMALE STUDENTS AND VICE VERSA INTERACTIONS?

The reality we are facing is that the girl child is becoming increasingly more vulnerable with several predators around and it has been said that Rape occurs once opportunity arises and there is access to the Victim.



https://m./1614336445514221?view=permalink&id=1704530709828127

utenwuson:
God forgive me! Where I served ehhh! only God ccan forgive sha! guideline ko

repogirl:
I feel you OP. I also attended an all girl's private secondary school.

Some of my class mates were crazy about a few of the young male teachers which I didn't really understand. I wondered what they were crazy about.

There was one teacher though, he was young and thought himself charming. He got fired because one JS1 student had written him a very sexy love note which another classmate found and reported to the school administrator.

The guy was asked to pack his things immediately. I doubt the guy had anything to do with the student who was obviously crushing on him.

Fast forward later, the girl grew up to have serious issues o. She couldn't pass WAEC, wrote it a number of times and then she became a serious man freak.

She was very attractive but she didn't know how to say no to anyone that came her way.

The girl's matter no be here, I don't know whether she was cursed sef but she just wasn't normal. Something probably happened in her childhood to make her that way.

repogirl:
I feel you OP. I also attended an all girl's private secondary school.

Some of my class mates were crazy about a few of the young male teachers which I didn't really understand. I wondered what they were crazy about.

There was one teacher though, he was young and thought himself charming. He got fired because one JS1 student had written him a very sexy love note which another classmate found and reported to the school administrator.

The guy was asked to pack his things immediately. I doubt the guy had anything to do with the student who was obviously crushing on him.

Fast forward later, the girl grew up to have serious issues o. She couldn't pass WAEC, wrote it a number of times and then she became a serious man freak.

She was very attractive but she didn't know how to say no to anyone that came her way.

The girl's matter no be here, I don't know whether she was cursed sef but she just wasn't normal. Something probably happened in her childhood to make her that way.

teolagacy:
hmm....kudos to those male teachers who never took advantage of those little minds.....They are the real mvp

Achorise:
one in kind.love you sir, more grace.I'm encouraged to do more from your story. To maintain my integrity

aaronson:
It sexual appealing for male to teach and guild the female.

That same psychology is what play out in the four wall of the class room filled with girls, the reaction is what brings about crush from girls on their male teacher especially when he's super intelligent.


My experience still lingers till today, I happen to do my 300level field work in an all girls secondary school and till date my phone still don't rest in peace.

Fiwasayo:
Yeah,Creating awareness is indeed important,many teenagers are still very much innocent,mistaking their raging hormones for love,if the girl/adolescent is properly tutored to understand that it is normal to crush on the males around her at any point in time,but that it should not necessarily lead to an intimate relationship,I believe there would be less stories of molest, most of these girls in subtle ways may have given consent to the molester,i am not justifying any act of MOLEST here,but then,she can properly identify a potential predator and know that she is not in love every time these girly hormones are raging.

Fiwasayo:
Yeah,Creating awareness is indeed important,many teenagers are still very much innocent,mistaking their raging hormones for love,if the girl/adolescent is properly tutored to understand that it is normal to crush on the males around her at any point in time,but that it should not necessarily lead to an intimate relationship,I believe there would be less stories of molest, most of these girls in subtle ways may have given consent to the molester,i am not justifying any act of MOLEST here,but then,she can properly identify a potential predator and know that she is not in love every time these girly hormones are raging.

DutchNegro:
if u ever had sex, can u honestly claim every single round was accountable to love!

utenwuson:
God forgive me! Where I served ehhh! only God ccan forgive sha! guideline ko