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Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by Nobody: 8:31am On Mar 11, 2016 |
Kondomatic: I agree with you! However if she has always wanted to cheat, she has every reason to do so now |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by Kondomatic(m): 8:34am On Mar 11, 2016 |
daretodiffer:Then there's a possibility that her story is false. More like an attempt to justify her plans. |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by HaneefahRN(f): 8:36am On Mar 11, 2016 |
fake story. But the man no get sense sha, why didn't he marry the ex since she is that important to him. And that ex too hasn't married yet after 15yrs abi. Madam continue fasting and praying 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by misreal(m): 9:34am On Mar 11, 2016 |
EggovinMma:all this single girls coming to advice married fellows....hahahhahahahahahah |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 5:36pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
pcguru1:See...I don't like to be rude but your comments are baseless... One time you are for the op,the next you are against. Don't quote me instead profer a solution for a marriage of 15 years with kids (possibly). Did you bother to listen to oga's side of the story? Did you bother to know if op cheated first and oga decided to go karma on her? Neee anya ka ngwa gi,If a woman leaves her marriage,another woman will walk in and drill her kids properly. Leave all these opata yarn about "many fishes","financially stable"..., #ugonwanyibudi(A woman's pride is her man). In this Africa setting. Op,go and settle your marital issues and sit your behind at home and care for your kids. Aku fechaa odalu awo! Soldier go;soldier come...barrack go still deh! It hurts but just chill...We are talking 15 years...check am na! |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 5:41pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
I am not joking!
fem29: |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by thelish(f): 6:48pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
GodnGold:Are u applauding d man for cheating? Which one be soldier come, soldier go? |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by Nobody: 7:58pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
GodnGold: She should be quiet because she is a woman? . Why? Her husband is doing something to jeopardise his family's stability and she should just keep quiet? pray tell, if this was a man that brought this issue, is that what you would say. You would tell him to throw her out and do dna test on the kids! |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:30am On Mar 12, 2016 |
fem29: |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:47am On Mar 12, 2016 |
fem29:I don't do sentiments dear. Op is a woman and so am I and I happen to be married for long too. Now these are my reasons for telling op to be quiet... The deed is done. What can be done? Fight,nag,bicker,the guy chose his sidy over her,what can be done? Nothing! Suck it up,move on and deal with it . That's all am saying. You want her to move out? Now that's a no-no for me because this nigga is mean and another woman will treat her kids dirty if she leaves. My advice;salvage what's left of the marriage, mend your ways the best you can. Forgiveness and looking after yourself helps too. Always put your kids first because a child will never understand "why momma left". |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by GodnGold: 12:49am On Mar 12, 2016 |
thelish:No ma'am, am not. Am judging the issue from the real side. Soldier here is the OGA. |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by SAMBARRY: 1:01am On Mar 12, 2016 |
I can see girls aren't smiling at all #back to listening to Justin beibers songs# EggovinMma: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by aforti(m): 6:18am On Mar 12, 2016 |
89% of marriages in the world would most definitely end in separation or divorce, there is nothing like forever. You see people who were married for over 40 yrs still one day end up separating due to differences they could not resolve after living together for 40whole yrs You see the primary purpose of man is not marriage, if you remember God created man long before he realised all the animals were not alone let man also have his kind. So God decided to create another male in a female body bcoz the master never repeats his work, thats the originality of creation. So op 15yrs is not too long to leave if you want to. Have you ever wondered why God gave you free will? So you can chose right from wrong, good and bad. You came alone on this earth and you will go back alone, not with your husband not even your beloved children. If you think I am wrong, have you ever seen a situation where a mother or father or child died and any of them volunteer to be berried with them?. Atlas you will be alone, chose your happiness now before you live your entire life pleasing your husband, children and society. Look for a greater purpose in life than marriage please. Marriage is part of life don't make life part of marriage. If this marriage is bringing the worse out of you it's time to let go before you feed the demons in you. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Wrong For Asking My Husband To Choose? by dust88: 6:55am On Mar 12, 2016 |
AwajisEJ: Then gerrara here. Go to bed |
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