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OP if you marry this guy you will most like regret it. The signs are already out; pls run for your life.

Meeeehn, you guys on nlander shaa. What is there not to understand in what she's written above. This isn't and English SAT exam.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

Raymondenyi:
you really need help, if you lack in English language, you should seek help..... This isn't a classroom and I'll not waste my time on a kid that knows nothing putting you through written English.....

I don't need help and I won't waste my time on you either, goodnight

Thank u jare my brother. May u continue to grow in wisdom. Let him keep displaying his immaturity. Professor pambolabola

Platinum007:
Meeeehn, you guys on nlander shaa. What is there not to understand in what she's written above. This isn't and English SAT exam.

mimzy:
Thank u jare my brother. May u continue to grow in wisdom. Let him keep displaying his immaturity. Professor pambolabola

Of everything I've thought about you, I have never guessed you're quite mouthy!

I no ur d 1 dat hav d final say. Buf for me I fink he did nat change n will nat, his response 2 ur questions proved dat. And d truth is he has d tendency of beating u up so dnt marry him. And I dnt think he loves u. It's marriage and it's for life. Babe ur life is very important u cnt afford 2 die for nothing.

lezz:
Of everything I've thought about you, I have never guessed you're quite mouthy!

Ure entitled to ur opinion. Doesn't bother me.. U rly expect me to keep quiet while I'm tongue lashed. Nah. Enjoy ur day. Safe

mimzy:
Ure entitled to ur opinion. Doesn't bother me.. U rly expect me to keep quiet while I'm tongue lashed. Nah. Enjoy ur day. Safe

You can't take a joke or what ? I was only making an observatory remark, no critism intended.

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

Guess her English was compressive enough. Urs isn't better either

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

Guess her English was comprehensive enough. Urs isn't better either

Suigeneris93:
Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

Perfectly said my dear.

Marry him.

Lol he may even slap you again for posting this on nairaland ... Use your number 6.

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

why would he offer to pay for your hospital bills na ? hin na ya papa ni ? lmao. but ermm about the slap part - we need to hear his side of the story cuz you may have attacked him first and now you are forming innocent. jus sayin

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

really so dat s ur own problem? Na wa ooo professor

Suigeneris93:
Like seriously, your own grammar is even more appalling, I don't even know where to start from. Please take your own advice first.

I feel you

Aburo oloshi...u just buy new dictionary ni?
If u knw get any advise for her abeg go troway dat dictionary.

Platinum007:
Meeeehn, you guys on nlander shaa. What is there not to understand in what she's written above. This isn't and English SAT exam.

d guy get wahala abeg na d English him d read like say him wan Mark d essay writing

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

Guy and marry Ur one of Ur brothers

Madam op seriously....u already knw d ansa to ur question so which ansa u dey look for again?
Well as for me I dnt av anytin to say.pls come bk n ask for more advise when d slap dn reach 12.

henergygirl:
I met this guy in 2010 when i went on a visit to see my aunt. It was an on and off relationship though.......during the course of this relationship, he slapped me and there was another time i was hospitalized, he came and left without offering to pay for the bills knowing fully well dat i had spent much on the sickness already..
Recently he called and said he wants to settle down and apologised for his past behaviour saying it was because he has this trust issue with ladies but he said he is trying to change........i said fine, he's even planning to come and see my family in June. But two days ago, i needed to clear the air on something so i asked him via whatsapp that my girlfriend wants to divorce the husband because he slapped her and he condemned the act saying it could lead to battery if proper measure is not taken. I also asked him that my friend's husband left her in d hosptal when she was hospitalized saying she has family so they should pay d bill. He found out that i was referring to him but his reply was that he should have given me two more slaps as prescribed and y would he pay the hospital bill when i was taking advice from my girlfriend....
Pls dear nlanders mature advise pls. Help a confused sister.

Mods, please front page

He already apologies for slapping you,that part is already settled....


Second part,he is not obligated to pay your bills,he can only do that he he wants to,not you asking/demanding. From him....


Stop depending on him financially

Raymondenyi:
Please modify your post, and try to improve on your written English, it is appalling to say the least, re-read your post, try to make necessary edition, present it more lucid and comprehensible , for readers to offer their advices which you direly seek....

.. English prof

You expect a guy to settle your hospital bill? Na him make you sick?

It looks like you have a peculiar talent for asking stupiiid questions

let me not call you a fool.

What on earth will make me slap d woman i knw i love and want to marry? God hlp me to bear it even wen d temptation comes. Read my sign....

Pls you don't need to think about it because it has already shown that his not your husband

Stupid question and brainless girl. Mtchwww

mimzy:
Hmmmm. Be wise my dear. Don't blindly dig ur own grave. I won't mince words as it seems u rly need someone to jolt you out of ur reverie with the bitter truth. I have been in ur shoes before, I stayed hoping things would get better, it wasn't until I was battered once more that I came to my senses that a man ain't rly worth dying for. He even stated it already that he WL give u double d previous slap, what other clarification do u want darling?

The handwriting is clearly written on the wall...leave him before your story becomes that of the Ibadan lady that murdered her husband owing to accumulated hurts.

Abo oro lan so fun omoluabi... Toba denue a di odindin..

would like to know your response to this;

let's say you cheated with about 3 different men and your man finds out and slaps you, during confrontation, would you leave him or apologise and leave him or just stick to him

Run for your dear life, if you love yourself.

Run for your life

Just raise a hand against me, and we're done.
That's how they start, sorry it'll never happen again.. And it will continue to happen. No matter what, it is very wrong as a guy to raise ur hand against any woman. Unjustifiable! !