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Valeree:

but there are lots of hardworking 9ja ladies that takes care of themselves and have money to even spend on the guy if he gets serious, but you guys will leave them to go after broke students that are looking for money to buy handouts and text books and other things.

You aren't totally right my dear,those ladies that are dependent give conditions that aren't easy to meet and even if we try to meet them,the relationship isn't usually full of romance. They are also full of themselves(pride) which isn't good for a relationship and you know that it is innate in us that we want to be manly and we need women that are more submissive to us

banmee:


But it's true na. You can't just say that these attributes are unique to Nigerian women alone. Problem with Nigerians is they are not exposed. Visit other countries and your perspective will evolve i promise you.

Every country has unexposed people. You'd be surprised at how close minded they are.

HaneefahAde:
Don't marry Nigerian ladies, all haters should ho marry foreign angels who'll take ur bullshit from u. What gets on my nerves is the generalization. Like men are saints. And the issue of women liking money is everywhere, who doesn't anyway. Why wld a man marry a white grandma if they ain't gold diggers too.

Lots of Nigerian women are financially stable and capable, they contribute to the family's finances and we have women who built their men up from scratch ( most are usually repaid with tho, when the money comes different mistresses start coming in) , yet we never hear about these from crybabies calling themselves men. Some that can't even afford their three square meals will also come and call all Nigerian women gold diggers. SMH.

Naija woman is more likely to be vicious and vindictive at divorce proceedings than a foreign woman.. Divorced Naija woman is more spiteful than a foreign woman because she's used to it and has better conflict resolution skills than a Naija woman who has been raised to believe that the easiest to accumulate wealth is Thru marriage.

prisiluv:

Trust me bro,its everywhere...women using men to advance their social and financial status...EVERYWHERE!!!

...but the percentage too much here in Naija. it is so disgusting.#personalexperience

LORDSAMURAI:
did i generalise?

do you know the meaning of generalization.......... read what you wrote again,but this time very slowly, maybe you can understand what you just wrote

KINGinVAHALA2:

Whats this one saying? With this kinda attitude you stated, just pray you dont help up in same home with me as a wife.

I wont beat or kill you, but with what i would do to you, committing suicide would be better than living for you - Mike Tyson

You must be one of the irresponsible men

missbronze:
Really?


so, that's the only reason for Divorce cases?

so, women don't realise they made the greatest mistake of marrying a Nigerian man as a husband.?


sweerry, come up with a better one.

You and I knowns that divorce issues aren't about one group only. its a mistake of both party.

Not me and you, its only you. Why dont you tell me other reason(s) why divorce is now rampant?

DeeTus:
Hehehe. It seems you're suffering from inferiority complex. Lol.

A thin line exists between proclaiming inferiority speech and being a realist.

Tellemall:


Every country has unexposed people. You'd be surprised at how close minded they are.

Yes every country has unexposed people. Only problem is, it is more pronounced in Africa and Nigeria in particular.

...and they keep trooping in!

Dyt:


You must be one of the irresponsible men

And its these kinda "irresponsible" men that fits nigerian ladies.

But dont forget i highlighted if you show me such attitude you stated. I'm good at treating people the way they act towards me. If you act good, then you would experience a "perfect husband", but if you act the opposite, then you would get a vampire and a beast as a husband. Is anything wrong with these my phylosophy?

PLEASE, I don't support what most guys have here....

Our LADIES still have taste, no matter what.
Though some no get sense shaaa and these ones have marred and masked the sensible ones.

We need to KNOW ENCOURAGE home made women for marriage.

After all, our relatives in far away foreign lands crave to settle for our NIGERIAN LADIES.

Please, if we don't MARRY them, who will..?

KINGinVAHALA2:

Not me and you, its only you. Why dont you tell me other reason(s) why divorce is now rampant?

I guess we are done here.

I reserve my comments

missbronze:
I guess we are done here.

You and who? To me, there wasnt even a start between us.

adonbilivit:
first of all, OP, you are an ashewo boy...u dont date. so u have no business advising guys on marriage.

I just read that they are self reliant and helpful....are u for real? guy, most of them are dependent on men and are real golddiggers.

don't mind the fool.he just want to say something.after reading all the trend those ladies opened here,he's not seen anything wrong with them. They keep shouting guys should provide for them,take care of them do this,do that as if their entire life depends on men.the idiot is a woman wrapper and that does not mean he'll get good one out of the good and reasonable ones we've got left.

wandevincent:
na pidgin u dey write or na english? Person fit go blind with this ur grammar o

wandevincent:
na pidgin u dey write or na english? Person fit go blind with this ur grammar o

wandevincent:
na pidgin u dey write or na english? Person fit go blind with this ur grammar o

hey seee shelling!!!!!! Una no go school?nanwa nd u b somebody's boo like dat ooooo

There is no contending the fact that dating a white girl is far far better than a dating a typical 9ja girl.

Offcourse the love expressed is true and genuine and independent off your pocket or material acquisition unlike with a typical 9ja girl.
The white girls are more loyal unlike our girls most of which are hoes only few with dignity and decorum.

For example if you go out with a white girl you are dating she can insist on paying for the meal eaten by both of you. But for 9ja girl if I hear!!!!

Dyt:
You forgot to add a typical Nigerian woman is a survivor
And crazy
It gets to a limit that crazy black mad Nigerian woman will explode
I am one typical one
We can endure but when it gets here
Even you a million miles will feel the red heat

Am afraid Nigerian women have lost that quality of patience and being able to share and manage when times gets tough. If small hard ship show face,dem go start to dey look outside. Ladies these days are too loose and carried away by materialism. They are loosing the quality of being home-makers our moms had.

Dyt:
You forgot to add a typical Nigerian woman is a survivor
And crazy
It gets to a limit that crazy black mad Nigerian woman will explode
I am one typical one
We can endure but when it gets here
Even you a million miles will feel the red heat

Am afraid Nigerian women have lost that quality of patience and being able to share and manage when times gets tough. If small hard ship show face,dem go start to dey look outside. Ladies these days are too loose and carried away by materialism. They are loosing the quality of being home-makers and being faithful,loyal wives. Qualities our moms had.

I'm Nigerian and I ve dated a foreigner during my UNI days.. Damn Nigerian girls... I gave up on naija girls long ago. They keep multiple guys just to play gamble on which one falls mugu for marriage. 90% of naija girls wants a ready made man. This is the last time I'm commenting on naija girls issues cuz these girls lacks exposure... They need to step it up! Foreign girls don't care about money like our own girls... Foreigners deal with their feelings... If they like u they like u be that and if they don't like u, there's nothing u can entice them with they still don't care.... Naija girls will date a monkey with big Tommy just Cuz of money... My ex GF would tell any dude who toasts her straight up that she's in a relationship and can't cheat... Even whenever I sneak peep her phones and social media... I see how she rejects guys cuz she can't date two peeps at once... I'm sure u don't want to check ur average naija GF social media and phone for the fear of heart attack.

It wasn't like this during the days of our mothers and grandmothers... Obviously there was alot of decencies back then hence why u see our parents marriage lasting forever... But the breed of naija girls these days is a disaster... Indecency and crazy shits

Naija girls are out of it when it comes to emotional decency... They (most of them) re too reliant on men... It's bleeped up... To me they re more of liability than supporters... Sorry if I sound ranting.... It's just complicated out here and u guys needs to quit this naija girls issues... We all know that exposed Nigerians don't wanna have anything to do with a typical naija girls (except some foreign born and raised naija girls cuz those ones have different orientations compare to the local ones at home) PERIOD

EggovinMma:
EVEN IF I BE MAN, I MUST MARRY NIGERIAN WOMAN.
NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE THE BEST IN THE WORLD!
IF YOU WANT EVERY THING FOR THE RIGHT PACKAGE, E DEY FOR NIGERIAN WOMAN.

I NO BLAME BASTARDS FOR NL WEY NO GET RESPECT FOR NIGERIAN WOMEN, NA MEN WEY DEM SHIITE FROM YANSH COMOT GO INSULT THE BEST WOMEN IN THE WHOLE UNIVERSE.

GO WARRI, OUR WOMEN ARE HARDWORKING AND FUNNY! THEY ARE READY TO DRINK OGOGORO AND FOR GET WAHALA.

GO CALABAR, IF OUR WOMEN FUCCCK YOU EHHHHHHH, YOUR PRICCK WILL BE IN UTMOST SHOCK FOR ONE MONTH!


GO OSUN, BEAUTIFUL WOMEN! OSUN LADIES ARE WONDERFULLY MADE

GO IMO, EVERY THING WEY DEY LAS VEGAS DEY THERE.IMO GURLS WILL MAKE YOU SURRENDER YOUR LIFE TO WELL GROOMED P.UUSY AND EVEN AFTER ALL SAID AND DONE, THEM GO STILL SPEND FOR U IF YOU HE CORRECT GUY


WHAT ABOUT OUR FULANI WOMEN? THEM GET MEDICINE FOR EVERY THING! IF THEM CALL YOU TALK SAY," SISTERS COME I GET SOME THING FOR YA OGA ABEG JUST BUY AM IF YOUR OGA NA OTONBO! THEM GO GIVE YOU 200 NAIRA MAN POWER WEY GO MAKE HIM PRICCK STAND SOTEEEEEEEE THE MAN SEF GO BEGIN DEY CRY


ANAMBRA CHICKS NKO?I BE ANAMBRA BABE,OVER CONFIRM DEY WORRY ME.

EKITI WOMEN NKO? IF THEM POUND YAM FOR YOU, NO TO LIE DOWN SLEEP GO DEY HUNGRY YOU

WHAT ABOUT BENIN WOMEN ? SAY MAN USELESS NO BE FOR BENIN LADIES OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. IF YOU LIKE CALL THEM ASHAWO, THAT ONE NA YOUR CONCERN! AT THE END OF THE DAY, THEM STILL BE BREADWINNERS! ALL HUSTLE NA HUSTLE!

INFACT, NIGERIAN WOMEN ARE THE BEST IN THE WORLD. BEAUTIFUL WOMEN!

well you have said it all

Greene66:
A foreign woman can cook. Even if she can't, I can hire a cook and she will learn. Man shall not live by bread alone.

Nigeria women are not homely they see it as by force to get married so they are not groomed. Besides a foreign woman is also homely.

A foreign woman does not suffer in silence like Nigerian women. If you mess up as a man she drops your ass. So if you want her around don't mess up. Be a good man you are supposed to be. That's no excuse.

A nigerian woman is not hardworking. 60% Nigerian women are jobless. A nigeria woman only want to reap and not sow. Foreign women are hard working

You can count the beautiful Nigeria women but cannot count the beautiful and intelligent foreign women with phds and mscs. ..

Thank you

ur mum is also part of it...

adconline:

Naija woman is more likely to be vicious and vindictive at divorce proceedings than a foreign woman.. Divorced Naija woman is more spiteful than a foreign woman because she's used to it and has better conflict resolution skills than a Naija woman who has been raised to believe that the easiest to accumulate wealth is Thru marriage.

That is what you keep shoving down our throats. Blame your Society, you can't compare two people of different societal and cultural backgrounds and expect same things from them. Let's take for example women from the West won't take most of the bullshit men dish out to Nigerian women, before you say jack divorce papers are upon you which you might lose a good chunk of your wealth to depending on the law.

I don't know where you get your views from, alot of women are breadwinners, contribute to the family finances and are making their marks. Is it foreigners that are marrying the poor, struggling guys?, suffering through thick and thin with? Some women might opt to marry rich men, it's their choice afterall which I don't fault cos most men ain't grateful to the women that was with them through the hard times, once the story changes the next thing is to gather concubines or plan to marry other wives. Rather than appreciate her then, the thank you wld be emotional trauma. Nigerian men's true colour comes out with money.

Gold diggers can be male or female. They abound everywhere. If you want to get married while calling yourself the head of the family and not spend on your wife, don't get married .

adconline:

Naija woman is more likely to be vicious and vindictive at divorce proceedings than a foreign woman.. Divorced Naija woman is more spiteful than a foreign woman because she's used to it and has better conflict resolution skills than a Naija woman who has been raised to believe that the easiest to accumulate wealth is Thru marriage.

Bros, make I ask, MOST rich women in abroad, how did they make their riches?

mikaael:



ur mum is also part of it...

Nice try, my mum is Spanish FYI.

You don't just assume everyone on nairaland is Nigerian and you don't just mention a person mum because his post is not what you expect

Op. I totally disagree wth u. If it were to b in d early 80's ur points would av been applicable. But @ d Moment a BIG No..... U neva Jam..

Akkord4gov:
Team #saynotogolddiggers
Team #foreigngirls

if I hear say I fall in love or date.


end time Nigerian ladies always after end time cash..

am so proud to announce to d public that am a player n will continue like DAT till I get a good foreign lady for marriage

Greene66:
A foreign woman can cook. Even if she can't, I can hire a cook and she will learn. Man shall not live by bread alone.

Nigeria women are not homely they see it as by force to get married so they are not groomed. Besides a foreign woman is also homely.

A foreign woman does not suffer in silence like Nigerian women. If you mess up as a man she drops your ass. So if you want her around don't mess up. Be a good man you are supposed to be. That's no excuse.

A nigerian woman is not hardworking. 60% Nigerian women are jobless. A nigeria woman only want to reap and not sow. Foreign women are hard working

You can count the beautiful Nigeria women but cannot count the beautiful and intelligent foreign women with phds and mscs. ..

Thank you

I'm sorry but this your comment shows you're a kid and you writing off Nigerian women means your mum ain't good enough too(if she's a Nigerian). Why don't you grow up and face reality? I'll tell you that most native Americans and Europeans want a woman from Africa to get married to because they themselves claimed their ladies are uncultured... Well as I said earlier, if you claim our "good Nigerian ladies" ain't good enough, then you have to check yourself bro and stop being a kid!

bezimo:
There is no contending the fact that dating a white girl is far far better than a dating a typical 9ja girl.

Offcourse the love expressed is true and genuine and independent off your pocket or material acquisition unlike with a typical 9ja girl.
The white girls are more loyal unlike our girls most of which are hoes only few with dignity and decorum.

For example if you go out with a white girl you are dating she can insist on paying for the meal eaten by both of you. But for 9ja girl if I hear!!!!

Stop generalizing!!
I know many nigerian girls that haven't ask a guy for a dime.

Very Well said Lady. Cool thought. #smiles
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@Bolded..... Truth is people don't really meet partners who are "EXACTLY ALL THEY DREAMT OF". I think they meet those who come closest to that dream. I trust you know what I mean...

Meanwhile for those looking at marriage. Please do not marry JUST FOR LOVE ALONE.

Most importantly, Marry for the Vision you both share as a couple.

Love and Romance are just part of it. Don't get me wrong... Love is vital in a marriage relationship. But shared Vision and Purpose is more important. #smiles

prisiluv:
Lol...Nothing wrong with marrying a foreign girl...But,There is no logical reason for this unhealthy and unnecessary comparism...Two different set of women from different culture,background,civilisation and history...The Good,Bad and Terrible exists in every corner of the earth,within every culture and civilisation! So,wherever you find a good woman,who's exactly all you've dreamt of, love and marry!...
Rooting For The Home Team tho