Buko nu what is this secondary use of shekpe? I also wan learn o! Abi na PG 40?
I am a good student oooooo

LadyGuinivere:
Buko nu what is this secondary use of shekpe? I also wan learn o! Abi na PG 40?
I am a good student oooooo

Lol. Let me put a call thru to my grandma. So I don't miss anything out when I start my lecture. Lol

Hehehehehehehe

funtolash:
@bollard thanks for the quick modification. Cos I was wondering that after all the holy preaching this morning, you still dey stick fire for the thing.
Wld keep keep your profile in mind #atawewe #razor mouth #justsoyouknow

Iwanawana:


Modath, as for the shekpe Mata, we all know pregnant women don't drink alcohol irrespective of what kind(shekpe or expensive champagn). That issue was brought up here just for comedy relief which I personally laughed about too when I read it. I added it to my first post during the whole drama bcuz pun was intended. I have even counted myself as an 'area' too.

So what makes you think I was even refering to you even as I didn't mention your name. Comon now, you had to call me out here. Do you honestly think we believe anyone who values his or her life would dare take shekpe even with the inscription on it. Plus. I know thier are other uses of 'shekpe' which I don't whish to dwell into now.

It's was all pun pun pun and it's quite unfortunate my mention of shekpe has been lost in translation.

U sef collect one bottle!


Berra come back and tell us the second use oh! Your grandma na Warri mama? Na only she fit give u d expo

nefertitiram:


U sef collect one bottle!


Berra come back and tell us the second use oh! Your grandma na Warri mama? Na only she fit give u d expo

Heheheheh. Yes na. Correct waffi maale sef.Thanks ojare. It was all joke. Tell Modath to calm dan abeg.

Hmmmm.

@ the lady with the SSN issue

I advise that you thread with caution here. The man is obviously up to something but lets look at other ramifications of reporting as people advised.

Yoruba people have an adage that translates to 'it's the beginning of a fight we know, no one knows how it will end'

Let's paint a scenario; you report and the issue is investigated and traced back to him and he receives a 3month jail term; he becomes an ex-convict, his job opportunities become limited, your sister in law is thrown into turmoil. Even though the man has done a despicable thing, the family will point a finger at you.

I don't really know how this SSN thing works but can we explore the possibility of just having that one cancelled and then you or baby can apply for another one later in future? I know one is entitled to a limited change of SSN though.

You just need to weigh it,is it worth a family feud? Abeg next time you wan born for obodo oyinbo, go rent house.

princessbee:
Thanks vcole.
All people dt PM' d me. I'm a newbie can't understand how to use it.( no laff me abeg).

@Princessbee,
Hope your research is going well? All the best

goodmorning everyone. so I'm travelling today. last week was crazy, ended up buying dollars at the black market rate. haven't been able to update on this page sef, I'm behind like 5 pages.

Anyway I want to sound a warning to everyone so what happened to me won't happen to anyone else. Let's be extra careful, not after trying hard in this economy to get dollars one would now tell my kind of story. it's not your portion IJN.

I had a help that was so useful to me, she did so much that I would always sing her praises to anyone who cares to listen. For this trip I registered her for a catering course and promised to keep paying her (N25k a month plus free accomodation, feeding and personal effects as well as medicals when the need arises). I treated that girl like a sister.

long story short, this week my toddler who I'm travelling with has been sick so I've been in and out of hospital and doing all sorts, wasn't able to even follow up with bank hence having to buy dollars at black market rate. Yesterday I took him for a final checkup and other running around in preparation for my trip and she was home helping me get my things ready.

this morning her phone was switched off, I asked her why, she said it packed up, I asked her to bring it let me check what's wrong, she left and I didn't see her again. she just walked out and took a bike cos if she had carried load the estate security would have stopped her.

she left with my Dollars in her pocket. 20 minutes later I noticed she had taken the money. how she found it is beyond me, she must have really searched.

please pray for me, bought 1k now to go with and have money in an account there but still I'm not myself.

Let's be extra careful everyone please. be mindful of whos around you.

Iwanawana:



It's was all pun pun pun and it's quite unfortunate my mention of shekpe has been lost in translation.

Area!! ..... Oya group hug.

@theleakytribe OMG!
Can the girl be located? Biko na mae them locate the girl asap before I have spent it/changed it enter
Kaiiiiii
All in all take it easy mbok mae blood pressuse

LadyGuinivere:
@theleakytribe OMG!
Can the girl be located? Biko na mae them locate the girl asap before I have spent it/changed it enter
Kaiiiiii
All in all take it easy mbok mae blood pressuse

My sister you can imagine how I feel. I drove out immediately I discovered she had gone missing, like a mad woman crying looking for her, my husband drove the other way too. we know see am. I'm praying she comes back to get her things I've alerted the security. but person wey thief over 1 million naira equivalent fit forget her things.

I've alerted the agent that introduced her. this girl be like angel for my eyes before oh.

TheLeakyTribe:
goodmorning everyone. so I'm travelling today. last week was crazy, ended up buying dollars at the black market rate. haven't been able to update on this page sef, I'm behind like 5 pages.

Anyway I want to sound a warning to everyone so what happened to me won't happen to anyone else. Let's be extra careful, not after trying hard in this economy to get dollars one would now tell my kind of story. it's not your portion IJN.

I had a help that was so useful to me, she did so much that I would always sing her praises to anyone who cares to listen. For this trip I registered her for a catering course and promised to keep paying her (N25k a month plus free accomodation, feeding and personal effects as well as medicals when the need arises). I treated that girl like a sister.

long story short, this week my toddler who I'm travelling with has been sick so I've been in and out of hospital and doing all sorts, wasn't able to even follow up with bank hence having to buy dollars at black market rate. Yesterday I took him for a final checkup and other running around in preparation for my trip and she was home helping me get my things ready.

this morning her phone was switched off, I asked her why, she said it packed up, I asked her to bring it let me check what's wrong, she left and I didn't see her again. she just walked out and took a bike cos if she had carried load the estate security would have stopped her.

she left with my Dollars in her pocket. 20 minutes later I noticed she had taken the money. how she found it is beyond me, she must have really searched.

please pray for me, bought 1k now to go with and have money in an account there but still I'm not myself.

Let's be extra careful everyone please. be mindful of whos around you.

You are joking!!!!! Im sooooo soo sorry, she can't go scot free in Jesus name you can't deny someone a good thing and it will come to you. I'm almost shedding tears, it's well sis. Let her carry your troubles and go.
U did well sharing, A lot of us here got PTA weeks before our trip cos of dollar scarcity . I trusted no one a jejely paid it to my Dom account. I withdrew it the morning of my trip. It's well

Thanks to @mamaOO and everyone who had something encouraging to say about my ish with my host and son's SSN. I called the IRS no. and was told to call back on Monday, I would update after my call on Monday.

So let me share my birth story.. My edd was 25th of December but there was no sign of labour up to the 29th. I decided to book an appointment for 30th, I went in and was told I have to be induced that day as they were not satisfied with my baby's heart rate ( thank God I had my bags packed). The induction process started at 8pm, labor kicked in at around 10pm and my baby's heart rate was still irregular. I was put under close monitoring and different things were done to ensure his heart rate normalizes but unfortunately it didn't. After all the pain and torture I was scheduled for an emergency c-section at 5.30am on the 31st. I got into the OR at 6am and did not come out till 3pm because I was hemorrhaging, I ended up getting blood transfusion. To cut the long story short my son and I spent 2 weeks in the hospital. Now to my bill, the total came up to 41,000 usd but since I was self pay it was reduced to 15,000. I am just glad that my son and I are alive, coming to the U.S. was definitely God's way of saving us. I don't want to imagine what could have happened to us if we were in Nigeria with the complications that arose. I plan to return at the end of the month with my LO. Btw I used Henry ford hospital in Michigan.

TheLeakyTribe:

My sister you can imagine how I feel. I drove out immediately I discovered she had gone missing, like a mad woman crying looking for her, my husband drove the other way too. we know see am. I'm praying she comes back to get her things I've alerted the security. but person wey thief over 1 million naira equivalent fit forget her things.
I've alerted the agent that introduced her. this girl be like angel for my eyes before oh.

This is heart breaking, i cant imagine the kind of pains this girl has put you in but God will comfort you in this trying times....I have spent the last weeks calling all my friends in banks to assist with PTA, Form A etc...I cant imagine what i would do if this happened to me

The lord is your strength dear, Be strong!!!

ZillyO:


You are joking!!!!! Im sooooo soo sorry, she can't go scot free in Jesus name you can't deny someone a good thing and it will come to you. I'm almost shedding tears, it's well sis. Let her carry your troubles and go.
U did well sharing, A lot of us here got PTA weeks before our trip cos of dollar scarcity . I trusted no one a jejely paid it to my Dom account. I withdrew it the morning of my trip. It's well

Amen oh! thanks a lot.

please oh, account may be the solution, you are right. I just hope others read and make efforts. small opportunity and she found the hidden money. she has never stolen a pin from me before this.

just knowing that I'm travelling must have encouraged her to check for dollars.

hardeymijuh:


This is heart breaking, i cant imagine the kind of pains this girl has put you in but God will comfort you in this trying times....I have spent the last weeks calling all my friends in banks to assist with PTA, Form A etc...I cant imagine what i would do if this happened to me

The lord is your strength dear, Be strong!!!

Thanks dear, I appreciate it. it is well.

TheLeakyTribe:


My sister you can imagine how I feel. I drove out immediately I discovered she had gone missing, like a mad woman crying looking for her, my husband drove the other way too. we know see am. I'm praying she comes back to get her things I've alerted the security. but person wey thief over 1 million naira equivalent fit forget her things.

I've alerted the agent that introduced her. this girl be like angel for my eyes before oh.

Uwadiegwu!!! What about her people? Like did u do a background check before employing her? If yes trace her from there and get people arrested if need be. In this hard time...May God help us and you most especially.

modath:



Area!! ..... Oya group hug.

Area... sorry abt d misconception. Na knuckle me I like chop sha. Lol

happytbaby:
Hmmmm.

@ the lady with the SSN issue

I advise that you thread with caution here. The man is obviously up to something but lets look at other ramifications of reporting as people advised.

Yoruba people have an adage that translates to 'it's the beginning of a fight we know, no one knows how it will end'

Let's paint a scenario; you report and the issue is investigated and traced back to him and he receives a 3month jail term; he becomes an ex-convict, his job opportunities become limited, your sister in law is thrown into turmoil. Even though the man has done a despicable thing, the family will point a finger at you.

I don't really know how this SSN thing works but can we explore the possibility of just having that one cancelled and then you or baby can apply for another one later in future? I know one is entitled to a limited change of SSN though.

You just need to weigh it,is it worth a family feud? Abeg next time you wan born for obodo oyinbo, go rent house.

I totally get what you are saying and that was why I asked if the card can be blocked. To be honest, this man comes across as a very nice person and has been good to my son and I. I was highly disappointed when he gave me the SS card, I am pretty sure he doesn't know that I am informed. I really wish I rented a place cos the sis inlaw is story for another day.

Iwanawana:


Uwadiegwu!!! What about her people? Like did u do a background check before employing her? If yes trace her from there and get people arrested if need be. In this hard time...May God help us and you most especially.

Yes the police need to be involved and questioning her family to put pressure on her to appear and hopefully return your money.
Whether she gets a beating is up to you, but she deserves it.

TheLeakyTribe:


My sister you can imagine how I feel. I drove out immediately I discovered she had gone missing, like a mad woman crying looking for her, my husband drove the other way too. we know see am. I'm praying she comes back to get her things I've alerted the security. but person wey thief over 1 million naira equivalent fit forget her things.

I've alerted the agent that introduced her. this girl be like angel for my eyes before oh.

So sorry dear, this is so painful. I knw u are leaving today but just drop by a police station and report, for rexord purposes and send out her pictures to the blogs, before ur trip. Ur husband can follow up in ur absence. This has been my greatest fear. I've been alone since I got married...no help and I work an 8-5. With baby on d way, its become inevitable...been praying like a mad pe2abt it. I'm so so afraid. Stories like this just break our hearts. I forgot to add, with a police report u can approach her mobile network for last calls she made and text messages. Try to be calm please.

[quote author=TheLeakyTribe post=43910030]goodmorning everyone. so I'm travelling today. last week was crazy, ended up buying dollars at the black market rate. haven't been able to update on this page sef, I'm behind like 5 pages.

Anyway I want to sound a warning to everyone so what happened to me won't happen to anyone else. Let's be extra careful, not after trying hard in this economy to get dollars one would now tell my kind of story. it's not your portion IJN.

I had a help that was so useful to me, she did so much that I would always sing her praises to anyone who cares to listen. For this trip I registered her for a catering course and promised to keep paying her (N25k a month plus free accomodation, feeding and personal effects as well as medicals when the need arises). I treated that girl like a sister.

long story short, this week my toddler who I'm travelling with has been sick so I've been in and out of hospital and doing all sorts, wasn't able to even follow up with bank hence having to buy dollars at black market rate. Yesterday I took him for a final checkup and other running around in preparation for my trip and she was home helping me get my things ready.

this morning her phone was switched off, I asked her why, she said it packed up, I asked her to bring it let me check what's wrong, she left and I didn't see her again. she just walked out and took a bike cos if she had carried load the estate security would have stopped her.

she left with my Dollars in her pocket. 20 minutes later I noticed she had taken the money. how she found it is beyond me, she must have really searched.

please pray for me, bought 1k now to go with and have money in an account there but still I'm not myself.

Let's be extra careful everyone please. be mindful of whos around you. [/quote

so sorry you had to go through that,but please let your hubby follow up with it,i think you should get the agent that brought her arrested ASAP,he/she would definitely know how or who can locate her,just take it easy more millions coming your by God's grace

Iwanawana:


Area... sorry abt d misconception. Na knuckle me I like chop sha. Lol

Oya take two, ya head dey dia, me dey like either LadyG kinda person or fullest Area, no half & half.

cutelass:


So sorry dear, this is so painful. I knw u are leaving today but just drop by a police station and report, for rexord purposes and send out her pictures to the blogs, before ur trip. Ur husband can follow up in ur absence. This has been my greatest fear. I've been alone since I got married...no help and I work an 8-5. With baby on d way, its become inevitable...been praying like a mad pe2abt it. I'm so so afraid. Stories like this just break our hearts. I forgot to add, with a police report u can approach her mobile network for last calls she made and text messages. Try to be calm please.

Thanks a lot dear, would definitely put up a post once I settle down tommorow. with her pics and everything and follow up with police. my husband would do that. thanks a lot.

I was the same way but this girl be like born again, so pretentious. the gist I've given you guys sef na abbreviation.

[quote author=osat82 post=43911211][/quote]

would definitely do that. thanks dear

@The leaky tribe,

thank God it was your dollar she took away and not your toddler,

those househelp can be fuuny

i have one with me here, if i want to go use the rest room i dont leave my LO with her

they might look like angel but very devilish.

Dont worry as God is still on the throne, you will get your money back and i wish you safe flight

modath:


Oya take two, ya head dey dia, me dey like either LadyG kinda person or fullest Area, no half & half.

One day ehhhhh I go full ur area. By the time I gee u trouble finish u go change ya mind u no go believe sef Na the same LadyG
I still de wait ma lecture o!
Cc: iwanawana and nef

lollyberry:
@The leaky tribe,

thank God it was your dollar she took away and not your toddler,

those househelp can be fuuny

i have one with me here, if i want to go use the rest room i dont leave my LO with her

they might look like angel but very devilish.

Dont worry as God is still on the throne, you will get your money back and i wish you safe flight

ha! so true oh, I don't use my LO to play oh, money can be regained. wetin I for talk if na my pikin. God forbid.

TheLeakyTribe:


Amen oh! thanks a lot.

please oh, account may be the solution, you are right. I just hope others read and make efforts. small opportunity and she found the hidden money. she has never stolen a pin from me before this.

just knowing that I'm travelling must have encouraged her to check for dollars.

I'm hardly out of words but this one pass me!

She is an enemy & wouldn't have entertained 2nd thought if she needed to eliminate you, or any member of your family, "when" she's found, let the full judgment reserved for enemies fall upon her!!

This world!! Uhhhhhmmmm...

modath:



I'm hardly out of words but this one pass me!

She is an enemy & wouldn't have entertained 2nd thought if she needed to eliminate you, or any member of your family, "when" she's found, let the full judgment reserved for enemies fall upon her!!

This world!! Uhhhhhmmmm...

!!!!! she won't expect what she has called on her head.

TheLeakyTribe:


!!!!! she won't expect what she has called on her head.

She wan chop dollar. Hissss
Did u get hold of the phone before she disappeared? So u can see the people she's being in contact with?

evemama:
U need to file a complaint to the appropriate office, especially as ur host didn't even try to ask but tried to play a fast one on you. I don't think u owe him any sympathy family or not. He's just showed he has certain criminal tendencies!

my dear forget family ties and report the matter dont mess up your childs future for the dudes criminal happiness.
Except he assisted you with your medical bills , you wont have spent thousand off your hard earned dollars for one greedy man to play russian roulette with you child's future.

@CBP since you guys read this thread try and be nicer to genuine peeps if you know how we do this things you would respect us these are parents sacrificing there finance for there kids trust me its not easy. SO WHEN YOU SEE THEM COMING THROUGH OFFER THEM A HUG, HELP WITH THERE LUGGAGE AND MAKE THEM TEA