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An0nimus:
comeout jor

yetseyi:
It is a boys thread now, I just read and learn let the guys do the talking.

Happy new year and why did we all abandon the chat box?

Timbuktou:
The hadouken was especially hilarious. I nearly burst from laughing hard. One can only hope that the west get their shiit together before it's too late. The world is at war and these guys have yet to wake up. I hear rápe is going on in the streets in broad daylight, can't tell how true though. Now they've made Donald Trump of all people a hero of the common man in America. History will repeat itself. There truly is nothing new under the sun.

ApexTitan:
For things to change for the better the West has to realise that they cannot continue on this path of ultra-liberalism and permissiveness. They must mount a strong defence for the values that thousands of their people fought and died for over millennia. They will have to take sterner positions on how immigration is regulated realising that many of the people they open their doors to do not share the same values and belief systems like them. In fact the value systems of many of these immigrants are diametrically opposed to theirs – and this difference leads to a whole lot of conflict which can only be dealt with directly and boldly. This in turn means that as a region they must elect leaders who have the guts to address the issues head on instead of skipping around the main problem by trying to “play nice and not offend any demographics”.

Staying the present course things will only get worse for the West, we will continue to see more of these Brussels and Paris styled attacks in the future. It also very likely that there will be continued reports of sexual assaults like the case in Cologne (which interestingly the MSM was reluctant to pick up on in the beginning). Just consider the implications: Germany, under Merkel, opened its doors to about a million refugees in the span of a few months. These refugees, many of who are men within military fighting ages, all come from a culture that promotes a conformist and aggressive ideology. They enter into a society where the women brazenly display their sexuality and the men are reduced to beta status and you think these guys will play nice?

Timbuktou:
It's a crazy thing what leftists are up to? Multiculturalism is a problem, one only needs to look at Nigeria and Africa to notice that. However, as with all other leftist pursuits; feminism, gay rights, gay marriage, et al, it's poorly thought out. There's been no consideration of its long term effects and costs. Liberalism and leftist politics is majorly sentimental and feelings based nonsense with no regard for fact which is a dangerous proposition. However, i think they are beginning to receive sense as these clowns repeatedly show what stuff they're made of. One just hopes it wont be too late.

Meanwhile, checkout more leftist ridiculosity:

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3506491/Emory-president-Students-scared-Trump-2016-chalk-signs.html

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Guys, @ApexTitan, I Bellong , Timbuktu, Pickabeau1, so should we agree Nigeria/Africa is the best place to raise kids?


Seeing alot of anormally in the child system here in the US, and somehow a part of me is beginning to resent the value system being fed into the psyche of these kids.

My three year old nephew who just got to US in January got back from school and decided to call his grandma her first name ystday.

It is acceptable here but I felt a bit angered cos it's just the beginning of many things /changes to happen to this Naija born kid.

It's just pathetic in my opinion.

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An0nimus:
Reading this brought up an image of how the typical Nigerian mum will react was she present in this situation. The kind factory resetting slap you go get eh

RoyalRoy:
My three year old nephew who just got to US in January got back from school and decided to call his grandma her first name ystday.

It is acceptable here

tpiar:
How so?

Acceptable where?

What you consider "acceptable" is subjective, not general.

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Guys, @ApexTitn, I Bellng , Timbuktu, Pickabau1, so should we agree Nigeria/Africa is the best place to raise kids?


Seeing alot of anormally in the child system here in the US, and somehow a part of me is beginning to resent the value system being fed into the psyche of these kids.

My three year old nephew who just got to US in January got back from school and decided to call his grandma her first name ystday.

It is acceptable here but I felt a bit angered cos it's just the beginning of many things /changes to happen to this Naija born kid.

It's just pathetic in my opinion.

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Mutaino7:
Are you following Indian wells open saga(djokovic and serena palava) on the amount of money that should be paid

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] Guys, @ApexTitan, I Bellong , Timbuktu, Pickabeau1, so should we agree Nigeria/Africa is the best place to raise kids?


Seeing alot of anormally in the child system here in the US, and somehow a part of me is beginning to resent the value system being fed into the psyche of these kids.

My three year old nephew who just got to US in January got back from school and decided to call his grandma her first name ystday.

It is acceptable here but I felt a bit angered cos it's just the beginning of many things /changes to happen to this Naija born kid.

It's just pathetic in my opinion.

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A40:
Lol even Americans don't do that. Obviously the parents aren't doing their duty and there is a dysfunction somewhere. How does the kid even know her first name to begin with?

Kimoni:
Crackhaus, let's deviate a bit. I need to understand something...

Would you feel threatened in any way or feel like your manhood has been taking away if your wife becomes the breadwinner? Is there a possibility you'll become suicidal if she's making it more than you are? And if not, what exactly is the problem with a woman becoming more successful than the man that seems to get at men so much?

edwife:
kimoni baby come here.

raumdeuter:
As the man of the house I would try to make an income that can take care of my family as long as my health permits

Its possible my wife makes more than me which I wont have a problem with as long as what I make can take care of my family

If she adds her own to improve our lifestyle that would be welcome but the basics I can provide on my own

edwife:
A woman becoming more successful than a man doesn't get at men in anyway, it is what happens after that success/wealth that is the problem. How most women handle that success that is the problem.

Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala,Obiageli Ezekwesili are married yet we barely know their husbands.

Kimoni: Would you feel threatened in any way or feel like your manhood has been taking away if your wife becomes the breadwinner?

Is there a possibility you'll become suicidal if she's making it more than you are?

And if not, what exactly is the problem with a woman becoming more successful than the man that seems to get at men so much?

Timbuktou:
Hello Kimoni, I wouldn't feel threatened or assume my manhood is lost in this situation. As long im healthy, this would be a temporary situation.

My sister, no possibility of suicide o. Killing myself doesn't solve nothing.

Like Edwife said, the problem is in how women comport themselves when they are the breadwinners or earn more. Most women would look down on their husbands and disrespect them if they paid the bills. Men know this and would rather avoid the drama. Men value respect more than love.

Kimoni:
Exactly, and this is my model. Provide the basic needs; if she needs to add any jara to the basics that you have provided, be my guest.

Dayo, let me take this further, if Peradventure you are not able to provide for a period of time due to circumstances beyond your control and your wife become the breadwinner, infact, at this point, her career is soaring and your own plans to make it just seem to be falling to pieces, would you feel deflated in any way?

Kimoni:
It's looking like a lose-lose situation for a successful married woman.

edwife:
A woman becoming more successful than a man doesn't get at men in anyway, it is what happens after that success/wealth that is the problem. How most women handle that success that is the problem.

Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala,Obiageli Ezekwesili are married yet we barely know their husbands.

Kimoni:
I don't think that any woman, sorry, sane woman will naturally start to disrespect her husband just because she is wealthier.

We advise women to pamper their hubbies when they get back from work, feed them, massage them etc so why isn't a man expected to perform these same functions when the woman is the breadwinner? Instead, she is expected to perform his roles, her roles and also go the extra mile not to make him feel she is performing his roles and hell is let lose when she seems to be failing in any of these. Sounds crazy to me...

It's looking like a lose-lose situation for a successful married woman.

Would you feel threatened in any way or feel like your manhood has been taking away if your wife becomes the breadwinner? Is there a possibility you'll become suicidal if she's making it more than you are? And if not, what exactly is the problem with a woman becoming more successful than the man that seems to get at men so much?