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Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by mcvaeey(m): 11:11am On Mar 25, 2016 |
Before I start this, I want to make it clear that I'm not a sexist. People say it is a man's world, and honestly, it is. I will show you how. Nature gave us some bonus and women gave their support. Even if a man forgives a cheating wife, the women(society) will not. Here are the few reasons some men find it difficult to forgive a cheating wife(They are what I heard men say. I didn't author some of them) 1: EGO:- It certainly has alot to do with their ego being bruised. The thought that another man was able to sleep with Someone they believed they had "ownership" of breaks them to pieces as most of them think the women incapable of sex without emotions, meaning the woman loves another. Remember men are like a lioness that can kill most animals for its cubs but will not allow another animal to even play with its cubs. 2: GUILT:- If a woman cheats, the man will never forgive not only the woman but himself no matter whose fault it is. He feels he has failed as a man to protect and keep his own. 3: THEY CAN'T FORGET:- When a man is making love with his wife, it is a sacred rituals the way she moan shows that his sacrifice has been accepted. So if she makes love with another man he will be thinking the temple is no more sacred and when he make love to her and she moan, it will be disgusting cause it will be like that is the way she moaned for the other guy! 4: YOU HAVE LOST HER IF SHE CHEATS:- Female infidelity is often much more damaging to a marriage. Don’t get me wrong: Male cheating is definitely harmful. But when a woman fools around, it’s often the beginning of the end of the relationship. For men, cheating often tends to be opportunistic—they’re in the wrong place at the wrong time and the cheating doesn’t necessarily mean anything emotionally. In fact a man can sleep with a woman today and not remember her again but for a woman to have sex with you(in most cases)you must win her heart to win her body. 5: HE PAID YOUR PRICE:- I guess i gotta be blunt here. I know we call it marriage but I think women are being bought in a way. Don't kill me yet, let's analyze it. He buys engagement ring. Proposes to you, you accept then he decides to see your people. Your people accept him and give him a list containing heaven and earth. He agrees to pay, he pays for everything and when your parents feel they have collected enough, they hand you over to him. Then you automatically change your name(Change of ownership) which confirms that you are now his own. I have seen where women sponsored their marriage and the men don't care when they cheat. so I believe the day you stop asking for head-cutting bride price for us to marry then we won't bother much, imagine paying all that money and she gives it to another man.. On a serious note. A cheat is a cheat and you can't quantify cheating. Who is cheating doesn't matter. Stay Faithful 2 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by jworos(m): 11:12am On Mar 25, 2016 |
They can't forget + it's not only in Nigeria,it's a general thing. |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by sse7en(m): 11:18am On Mar 25, 2016 |
It's not Nigerian men alone...I can relate with that number 3 wella Just told her it's over, because whenever I remember...I hate her all over again So what is point of dating someone that disgust u weneva certain tins cross ur mind |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 12:17pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Interesting points 1-4 But that last one get as e be ... Do ppl still pay? |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 12:32pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Forget dat tin. (Some) Nigerian men can |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by judey1992(m): 12:41pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
true and like my Ex always tell me. female cheating is never accidental. |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 12:44pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MrsPhyno:Yes nah dem forgive pass seff 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Michellla(f): 12:46pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
judey1992:neither is male cheating 2 Likes |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 12:49pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
BumBae:They actually cry and beg, wondering what they did to cause you to look outside They don't buy enough suya, they gained too much weight after marriage and their six packs disappeared etc etc. 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 12:54pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Men ! U are so right ? Some women will think they are forgiven but forget, the man is dying inside he just can't love or trust you like before period. |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 12:55pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MrsPhyno: Lol dont think our men after marriage really bother about their appearance to be fair ... Just rememebring family members n uncles its true they all had big belles but claim its a sign of good living. Lol@suya I think men are more forgiving actually .. But thats my opinion |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 1:13pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
I forgive. Just don't tell me what happened. I don't want to hear them. "Honey I'm sorry, he just pulled down my pants and brought out his big joystick; I told him to stop but it was getting so strong;he kissed me and confused me, then he started licking my pu**sy. I didn't know know when I became wet and he inserted it inside me; I thought he was joking until I started moaning, then i released just once and he too released; I then told him to stop that I don't want to have sex. Rubbish... When you don blow finish clean mouth. Just don't tell me. Keep f*uking and make it a secret I just hope someone is not masturbating? 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 1:15pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
BumBae:Mmhm lol I was just being sarcastic I think you're right. They are more forgiving. More than they'd like to admit. Especially if they really love(d) the lady in question. |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 1:23pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
It's cheating not chatting. Chatting -talking cheating- Sexual judey1992: 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by ettaetta(m): 1:48pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Nobody: 1:52pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
MrsPhyno:Exactly 1 Like |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by halfricanadian(f): 1:54pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
But wen dey cheat they want to b forgiven ryt? |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by falconey(m): 2:03pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian: Yes na. If possible before i cheat i would ask for forgiveness. |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by Mikocake(m): 2:06pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
pls someone
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Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by MRBrownJ: 2:12pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
why should ANYONE forgive a cheating partner?! NONSENSE! |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by halfricanadian(f): 2:12pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
falconey: my sympathy to ur girl |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by falconey(m): 2:14pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian: I belong to nobody but belong to everybody. |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by halfricanadian(f): 2:17pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
falconey: Nice u single? |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by falconey(m): 2:19pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
halfricanadian:Hmmmmmmm............ I think so , yes I am. |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by halfricanadian(f): 2:26pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
falconey: so sorry |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by myfantasies(f): 3:59pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
Men find it difficult to forgive wen dey r cheated on by dere partners, but dey expect dere partners to forgive dem wen dey cheat. VERY FUNNY |
Re: Why Nigerian Men Hardly Forgive A Cheating Partner. by MRBrownJ: 5:10pm On Mar 25, 2016 |
myfantasies: whats actually funny is that, we all know cheating is wrong, yet many deluded women forgive their men due to whatever desperate reasons. dont blame men for doing what is RIGHT when catching a cheating spouse, blame women for doing whats WRONG (aka forgiving men) in that same instance! |
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