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My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 6:58pm On Mar 25, 2016*

Hello to all....I am a girl from East Europe...This guy is Nigerian from.igbo..I been with him for 4 years in distant relationship..All this time he was treating me bad but i still loved him..He was abusing me domesticaly..using me.financially ..He was really broke then and i felt pity for him.He needed also documents for staying in Europe...He couldnt get it from me coz my country is not in Europe Union.One time he told me :IF U DONT GIVE ME.DOCUMENTS I WIL.GO.TO OTHER WOMAN THAT SHE CAN GIVE ME..After he found out this he hit me in face...and the day before that he throw me out of house in midle of night in country that is not even mine...He was also using me to transfer weed for him coz he was into this bussiness..me i always cared for him n called him from my.country..i spent credit n money for that but i didnt care...i forgave him everything...He also wanted me to get pregnant for him and go to deliver in Germany so that he can get documents from.being babys father...I refused to do that...At end i did one big lye ...i lied to him that i got passport of Europe Union...and i hide this for so long for 1 year now...Yesterday he found out about this that i lied and he started insulting me telling me how he is sorry for me and he even treat me how i dont know whom i am playing with...I lied about that to keep him with me..My question is...SHOULD I FEEL GUILTY FOR WHAT I DID OR SHOULD I FEEL HAPPY THAT HE SHOWED HIS REALL FACE BY HOS REACTION?After he found out what i lied about...

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 6:58pm On Mar 25, 2016

Nwa nne, biko is love by force?? He used u because you allowed him to

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by GoldenJAT(m): 7:00pm On Mar 25, 2016

2 slap u small DE hungry me...

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by oseiwe(m): 7:01pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
Hello to all....I am a girl from East Europe...This guy is Nigerian from.igbo..I been with him for 4 years in distant relationship..All this time he was treating me bad but i still loved him..He was abusing me domesticaly..using me.financially ...He needed also documents for staying in Europe...He couldnt get it from me coz my country is not in Europe Union...After he found out this he hit me in face...and the day before that he throw me out of house in midle of night in country that is not even mine...He was also using me to transfer weed for him coz he was into this bussiness..me i always cared for him n called him from my.country..i spent credit n money for that but i didnt care...i forgave him everything...He also wanted me to get pregnant for him and go to deliver in Germany so that he can get documents from.being babys father...I refused to do that...At end i did one big lye ...i lied to him that i got passport of Europe Union...and i hide this for so long for 1 year now...Yesterday he found out about this that i lied and he started insulting me telling me how he is sorry for me and he even treat me how i dont know whom i am playing with...I lied about that to keep him with me..My question is...SHOULD I FEEL GUILTY FOR WHAT I DID OR SHOULD I FEEL HAPPY THAT HE SHOWED HIS REALL FACE BY HOS REACTION?After he found out what i lied about...

Warri Again!!!

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:01pm On Mar 25, 2016

GoldenJAT:
2 slap u small DE hungry me...

why??

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by AccidentalGenius: 7:01pm On Mar 25, 2016

do you really spend your time worrying about something as insignificant as this .?

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by falconey(m): 7:02pm On Mar 25, 2016

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:03pm On Mar 25, 2016

AccidentalGenius:
do you really spend your time worrying about something as insignificant as this .?

I dont but i care about my concience

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:04pm On Mar 25, 2016

BreadandBeans:
Nwa nne, biko is love by force?? He used u because you allowed him to

....ok but should i feel guilty?i really love this guy

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by GoldenJAT(m): 7:04pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
why??

so ur brain will reset and get ready 4 my advise

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by AccidentalGenius: 7:05pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
I dont but i care about my concience

you shouldn't feel bad. To be blunt, he was jus using you to get a passport

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:05pm On Mar 25, 2016

GoldenJAT:
so ur brain will reset and get ready 4 my advise

yes thats why i am here coz i want here advice...so tell me?

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:09pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
....ok but should i feel guilty?i really love this guy

with all the sh!t he did to you, u are still saying you love the guy.. I think ur case is now a spiritual one

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 25, 2016

BreadandBeans:
with all the sh!t he did to you, u are still saying you love the guy.. I think ur case is now a spiritual one

....LOL i apreciate ur honesty

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by GudluckIBB(m): 7:11pm On Mar 25, 2016

Na who dey Alive dey talk about Love.
Run for ur Life.

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:12pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
yes thats why i am here coz i want here advice...so tell me?

Are you a scammer? I think you dont deserve any advice

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:12pm On Mar 25, 2016

Fedayeen:
Are you a scammer? I think you dont deserve any advice

no i am not scammer

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by stnkembu(m): 7:14pm On Mar 25, 2016

You've made it look as if he's the only one gaining from the relationship.

What were you gaining in the relationship?

In Fela's voice... Stalemate!

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:14pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
no i am not scammer

your story has been on the same topic so i think you are a known Troll here

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:15pm On Mar 25, 2016

stnkembu:
You've made it look as if he's the only one gaining from the relationship.

What were you gaining in the relationship?

In Fela's voice... Stalemate!

gained nothing..

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by AlexCk: 7:19pm On Mar 25, 2016

I don't understand people and love.
Stop being with someone that doesn't appreciate u.
Jeez, until he blinds u, or rips ur head out, that's when u'll wise up.

Someone somewhere is waiting to treat u wonderfully,

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Joe4lv(m): 7:19pm On Mar 25, 2016

What a girl. When I read through your post,I felt pity for you though the entire scenario sounds funny to me but...

Please my sister from another country,from your write up,I feel you're too young for love so I will advice you work away from him and face life. Love isn't by force and you're too small to be undergoing domestic violence on the hands of a man who is not your husband and even if he is,he doesn't have a right to hit you.

#BeWise!!!

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:21pm On Mar 25, 2016

Joe4lv:
What a girl. When I read through your post,I felt pity for you though the entire scenario sounds funny to me but...

Please my sister from another country,from your write up,I feel you're too young for love so I will advice you work away from him and face life. Love isn't by force and you're too small to be undergoing domestic violence on the hands of a man who is not your husband and even if he is,he doesn't have a right to hit you. I am 25 years old

#BeWise!!!

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Cutehector(m): 7:30pm On Mar 25, 2016

9ja guys abroad be representing grin

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by volterra(m): 7:33pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
Hello to all....I am a girl from East Europe...This guy is Nigerian from.igbo..I been with him for 4 years in distant relationship..All this time he was treating me bad but i still loved him..He was abusing me domesticaly..using me.financially ..He was really broke then and i felt pity for him.He needed also documents for staying in Europe...He couldnt get it from me coz my country is not in Europe Union...After he found out this he hit me in face...and the day before that he throw me out of house in midle of night in country that is not even mine...He was also using me to transfer weed for him coz he was into this bussiness..me i always cared for him n called him from my.country..i spent credit n money for that but i didnt care...i forgave him everything...He also wanted me to get pregnant for him and go to deliver in Germany so that he can get documents from.being babys father...I refused to do that...At end i did one big lye ...i lied to him that i got passport of Europe Union...and i hide this for so long for 1 year now...Yesterday he found out about this that i lied and he started insulting me telling me how he is sorry for me and he even treat me how i dont know whom i am playing with...I lied about that to keep him with me..My question is...SHOULD I FEEL GUILTY FOR WHAT I DID OR SHOULD I FEEL HAPPY THAT HE SHOWED HIS REALL FACE BY HOS REACTION?After he found out what i lied about...

Reading through your post, i can see that you really like this guy. But sometimes, you need to make decisions in life not by being emotional but by acting on the facts. Your supposed boyfriend has told you his business with you. That being using you to get the required documents and not a love-thing relationship. Besides, he doesn't respect you. That said, there is no point being in a relationship with him. There are better people out there who deserve you and will love and cherish you. To get that, you need to take a bold step and that will be to leave him. The ball is in your court.

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:34pm On Mar 25, 2016

Too many flaws lol first line alone

U try

So uve been with him 4 years LONG DISTANCE. BUT HE ABUSING DOMESTICALLY sad

financially 4 years

Should i erm go on cheesy

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Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by grimandevil: 7:35pm On Mar 25, 2016

Europija:
Hello to all....I am a girl from East Europe...This guy is Nigerian from.igbo..I been with him for 4 years in distant relationship..All this time he was treating me bad but i still loved him..He was abusing me domesticaly..using me.financially ..He was really broke then and i felt pity for him.He needed also documents for staying in Europe...He couldnt get it from me coz my country is not in Europe Union...After he found out this he hit me in face...and the day before that he throw me out of house in midle of night in country that is not even mine...He was also using me to transfer weed for him coz he was into this bussiness..me i always cared for him n called him from my.country..i spent credit n money for that but i didnt care...i forgave him everything...He also wanted me to get pregnant for him and go to deliver in Germany so that he can get documents from.being babys father...I refused to do that...At end i did one big lye ...i lied to him that i got passport of Europe Union...and i hide this for so long for 1 year now...Yesterday he found out about this that i lied and he started insulting me telling me how he is sorry for me and he even treat me how i dont know whom i am playing with...I lied about that to keep him with me..My question is...SHOULD I FEEL GUILTY FOR WHAT I DID OR SHOULD I FEEL HAPPY THAT HE SHOWED HIS REALL FACE BY HOS REACTION?After he found out what i lied about...

IN SUMMARY YOU LIKE THE WAY HE SCREWS YOU

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by ireneony(f): 7:39pm On Mar 25, 2016

Follow your heart grin

Why do white girls like black d!!ck too much.
Your cup of tea.

Re: My Bf Left Me Coz He Didnt Have Any Use Of Me Again by Nobody: 7:40pm On Mar 25, 2016

volterra:
Reading through your post, i can see that you really like this guy. But sometimes, you need to make decisions in life not by being emotional but by acting on the facts. Your supposed boyfriend has told you his business with you. That being using you to get the required documents and not a love-thing relationship. Besides, he doesn't respect you. That said, there is no point being in a relationship with him. There are better people out there who deserve you and will love and cherish you. To get that, you need to take a bold step and that will be to leave him. The ball is in your court.

Thank u for this ur comment i apreciate....i love this guy even after all he done to me.but after this his reaction about passport i dont think that i wil stay anymore

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