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I have had really quality relationships with my girls in the past. I was never attracted to the wrong set of girls. Most of them would have passed for a trophy wife.
Fast Forward>>> am married now but have always being in touch with my exs, the connection we had before has not waned, we still talk about everything and have been supportive of each other. They realise am married and some of them are married also.

The issue now is that the memories of the time we have shared is so strong and fresh in my mind. We have managed to keep emotion out of but I miss my girls cause the were the best you could ever ask for.

NB: My wife CORRECT also.

Good for you.

U neva sabi wetin dey do u....






















Hmmmmnnn...dem don soak ur koboko for Origin.

jbl007:
U neva sabi wetin dey do u....
Hmmmmnnn...dem don soak ur koboko for Origin.

Help me tell am. Lol

jbl007:
U neva sabi wetin dey do u....






















Hmmmmnnn...dem don soak ur koboko for Origin.

Nothing dey do me Ooo, abi make I pick quarrel with pesin wey no do me anything because I don marry?

Gud 4 U

There is nothing to deal with here, they are ur friends and dats it. Nothing more.

layzie:
There is nothing to deal with here, they are ur friends and dats it. Nothing more.

Thank you. Some people will make you feel you're doing something wrong. But I really can't explain or make them understand.

brodalikeme:
Thank you. Some people will make you feel you're doing something wrong. But I really can't explain or make them understand.

So, why did you open this thread? Its not like you're asking for people's opinion or anything. You also believe what you are doing is right...So??

layla129:
So, why did you open this thread? Its not like you're asking for people's opinion or anything. You also believe what you are doing is right...So??

My dear am asking for people's opinion. I opened the tread with an open mind, someone's post might change my conviction.

I'm laughing in Greek.

I'm sure if you are asked, you will say you are faithful to your wife.

lots of people think that it's when you have sex with someone else that you are commiting adultery.

trust me bro, you are already cheating emotionally on your wife.

it won't take very long before the physical one will follow.

is there any relationship more useless than that of the ex?

there was a reason why you guys broke up.

you obviously don't value your wife or your marriage cos if you do you will understand that emotional connections with your ex should remain severed forever.

please mention me when you post the part two here so that I can come and tell you "I told you so!"

I have always found it extremely uncomfortable chatting too much with my one married ex. Something about it just doesn't feel right. He asked if being married is a stigma

Ioannes:
I'm laughing in Greek.

I'm sure if you are asked, you will say you are faithful to your wife.

lots of people think that it's when you have sex with someone else that you are commiting adultery.

trust me bro, you are already cheating emotionally on your wife.

it won't take very long before the physical one will follow.

is there any relationship more useless than that of the ex?

there was a reason why you guys broke up.

you obviously don't value your wife or your marriage cos if you do you will understand that emotional connections with your ex should remain severed forever.

please mention me when you post the part two here so that I can come and tell you "I told you so!"

I understand your fears and concerns, but trust me I will not cheat on my wife. Like I said before, it was an all round quality relationship. Most of us are happily married now, and are not having the desire to cheat. Yes, we broke up and the relationship did not end up in marriage but it was mostly not due to any fault of ours.
Am sure they are people here that will relate with what am saying. Not every relationship with the Ex is useless. There will come a time when you guys will appreciate the fact that you were in each other's lives for reasons greater than marriage.

Richiy:
I have always found it extremely uncomfortable chatting too much with my one married ex. Something about it just doesn't feel right. He asked if being married is a stigma

If you have not sense danger and you're stigmatising him then be ready. What goes around comes around. One of my ex did that and distanced herself from me. I warned her but she wouldn't listen. She changed my name to married man. She got married in October last year, now everybody has abandoned her, she's now the one doing all the calling and chatting and accusing me of placing a curse on her. I couldn't have married everyone you dated my dear.

brodalikeme:
If you have not sense danger and you're stigmatising him then be ready. What goes around comes around. One of my ex did that and distanced herself from me. I warned her but she wouldn't listen. She changed my name to married man. She got married in October last year, now everybody has abandoned her, she's now the one doing all the calling and chatting and accusing me of placing a curse on her. I couldn't have married everyone you dated my dear.

Would you call this dangerous? Him saying that I see him, not in his house, but some other place. It just sounds off to me in a way

brodalikeme:
I understand your fears and concerns, but trust me I will not cheat on my wife. Like I said before, it was an all round quality relationship. Most of us are happily married now, and are not having the desire to cheat. Yes, we broke up and the relationship did not end up in marriage but it was mostly not due to any fault of ours.
Am sure they are people here that will relate with what am saying. Not every relationship with the Ex is useless. There will come a time when you guys will appreciate the fact that you were in each other's lives for reasons greater than marriage.

OK bro, wish you all the best in your marriage.