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Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by 9airaland(op): 7:15pm On Mar 29, 2016
Come and see me ooo.
I have this friend who is working in one of lagos big companies.
He asked me to advise him about buying a land or getting a car.

I advised him to go for a choiced land and forget buying a car, since he is living very close to his office. He insisted on buying a car and i was so amgry with him cus, why would he ask for advise while he is bent on doing what appease his mind?

He bought the car today and offered me a ride and i went out with him.
But i seriously think he is a fool.

What do yoy think?

Over to the house.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by nairalandbuzz(m):
Sorry to say o... Some will say it's not right or its this n that...

What state is that ur friend from?
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by excellencyabia1: 7:32pm On Mar 29, 2016
You have also done what he did. You have concluded also asking.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by hope4charles(m): 7:36pm On Mar 29, 2016
9airaland:
Come and see me ooo.
I have this friend who is working in one of lagos big companies.
He asked me to advise him about buying a land or getting a car.

I advised him to go for a choiced land and forget buying a car, since he is living very close to his office. He insisted on buying a car and i was so amgry with him cus, why would he ask for advise while he is bent on doing what appease his mind?

He bought the car today and offered me a ride and i went out with him.
But i seriously think he is a fool.

What do yoy think?

Over to the house.
I am planning on doing same, what the F can't one for once enjoy gratifying things than delay gratification, I see no bad in what he did, because it's his money his sweat,
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by divinehand2003(m): 7:43pm On Mar 29, 2016
I will gladly buy my Ferrari and Lamborghini first and foremost before thinking of getting a plot of land. I want feel the air on my hair, I want my heart rate to fly while I cruise these rides mehn.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by Ifakiland(m): 7:46pm On Mar 29, 2016
9airaland:
Come and see me ooo.
I have this friend who is working in one of lagos big companies.
He asked me to advise him about buying a land or getting a car.

I advised him to go for a choiced land and forget buying a car, since he is living very close to his office. He insisted on buying a car and i was so amgry with him cus, why would he ask for advise while he is bent on doing what appease his mind?

He bought the car today and offered me a ride and i went out with him.
But i seriously think he is a fool.

What do yoy think?
i fink ure jealous....is it ur money?

Over to the house.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by ba7man(m): 7:51pm On Mar 29, 2016
I bought a car first too.


The car is what you'll use to convince prospective clients to pay you enough money to buy land...... they think... "if you're so smart, how come you've not being paid enough to afford a car "

In Nigeria, it's hard to move ahead without packaging.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by hope4charles(m): 8:02pm On Mar 29, 2016
ba7man:
I bought a car first too.


The car is what you'll use to convince prospective clients to pay you enough money to buy land...... they think... "if you're so smart, how come you've not being paid enough to afford a car "

In Nigeria, it's hard to move ahead without packaging.
You killed it, sometimes peeps see u on the same level with them or even look down on you because they have one rickety car like that, packaging is good and pays everywhere even in Nigeria.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by 9airaland(op): 8:05pm On Mar 29, 2016
nairalandbuzz:
Sorry to say o... Some will say it's not right or its than r that...

What state is that ur friend from?
From Delta
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by 9airaland(op): 8:07pm On Mar 29, 2016
ba7man:
I bought a car first too.


The car is what you'll use to convince prospective clients to pay you enough money to buy land...... they think... "if you're so smart, how come you've not being paid enough to afford a car "

In Nigeria, it's hard to move ahead without packaging.
Na waa oo. You just abused me abi?
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by ba7man(m): 8:08pm On Mar 29, 2016
hope4charles:
You killed it, sometimes peeps see u on the same level with them or even look down on you because they have one rickety car like that, packaging is good and pays everywhere even in Nigeria.
Spot on bro. Nigerians rely on face value. They'll even check how sweaty you are, how dusty your shoes are, how dirty the collar of your shirt is and your wristwatch to assess you.

If they eventually find out you came on okada to bid for a multi million naira job....... it will take the grace of God to help you get that job.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by olac21(m): 8:12pm On Mar 29, 2016
How's this romantic?ok if I care to ask,how can we help him when he is bent on doing what his mind tells him?
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by ba7man(m): 8:15pm On Mar 29, 2016
9airaland:
Na waa oo. You just abused me abi?
Nooo..... buying land before car is wisdom........ but Naija wisdom is different.

It's extra hard to get good opportunities when one is flying bikes up and down....... even the gateman will act up towards you if you don't pull up in a ride.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by nairalandbuzz(m): 8:31pm On Mar 29, 2016
9airaland:
From Delta
I would say it's because he is not yet married.. And wants to do show off with his friends and families that he has arrived...

After family setup, his eyes go open.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by 9airaland(op): 10:13pm On Mar 29, 2016
nairalandbuzz:
I would say it's because he is not yet married.. And wants to do show off with his friends and families that he has arrived...

After family setup, his eyes go open.
D'accord
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by kaka22(m): 10:21pm On Mar 29, 2016
9airaland:
Come and see me ooo.
I have this friend who is working in one of lagos big companies.
He asked me to advise him about buying a land or getting a car.

I advised him to go for a choiced land and forget buying a car, since he is living very close to his office. He insisted on buying a car and i was so amgry with him cus, why would he ask for advise while he is bent on doing what appease his mind?

He bought the car today and offered me a ride and i went out with him.
But i seriously think he is a fool.

What do yoy think?

Over to the house.
Why would you call him a fool? Because he bought a car? It is his money afterall, ... If he decides to sell the car next week, it is still his decision to make. Don't insult other people because they don't share your view. In fact, you are the fool here undecided...
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by 9airaland(op): 10:25pm On Mar 29, 2016
kaka22:
Why would you call him a fool? Because he bought a car? It is his money afterall, ... If he decides to sell the car next week, it is still his decision to make. Don't insult other people because they don't share your view. In fact, you are the fool here undecided...
Hen? You said what?
Anyway, i think you are juat looking for a very bad trouble. But im happy today. Its your luckyday, but you might not escape next time
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by kaka22(m): 10:31pm On Mar 29, 2016
9airaland:
Hen? You said what?
Anyway, i think you are juat looking for a very bad trouble. But im happy today. Its your luckyday, but you might not escape next time
Lucky day? undecided If you can be annoyed that I called you a fool. Why did you call him a fool for buying what he wanted? If he had bought the land, it would still be his. Our priorities can never be the same. He felt that he needed the car and he bought it. Period.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by abimic(m): 11:47pm On Mar 29, 2016
Any day anytime, land first o before car, if possible finish the house first before car sef as I care less enu olofofo. Moreover, car depreciates while land appreciates but owning landed property in high brow areas like Lekki, Ajah, VI, oworonsoki, Ikoyi, maitama, wuse 2, garki etc!, oozes worth and class!
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by Nobody: 12:07am On Mar 30, 2016
divinehand2003:
I will gladly buy my Ferrari and Lamborghini first and foremost before thinking of getting a plot of land. I want feel the air on my hair, I want my heart rate to fly while I cruise these rides mehn.
If you are my husband and did what you wrote there.

All hell will let loose,, you must return that car.


How can we have Ferrari and Lamborghini as a tenant in another man's house?


Yes, I know car is comfort. but, land is an asset. Car will never appreciate, rather, it will come with more expenses. car is a liability.


Land is an asset, it appreciates and can turn you to millionaire in years to come. (real estate biz)

That book "rich dad, poor dad" I am recommending it for you.
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by Nobody: 12:14am On Mar 30, 2016
Will he give me a ride? Oslo to Amsterdam?
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by jmaxjohn(m): 12:39am On Mar 30, 2016
so wat should we do now?
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by refiner(f): 1:10am On Mar 30, 2016
....now op wat do u want us to do?...he has already buy d car!,....after commenting,will it make him return d car back?
Re: Is He Brainwashed Or What? My Male Friend Wants A Car Before Buying Land by iebanehita(m): 6:32pm On Apr 02, 2016
Keeping up with the Joneses!

That's the fictitious life we live in Nigeria..

If it's in saner clime like the UK, he would end up regretting why he bought the car.
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