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Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by schumastic(m): 9:05pm On Mar 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
lol....me wey no get sweet mouth, how I wan take woo now?grin
you have to so you will see that to woo a girl is not easy n you girls would learn to give credit to guys that do lol
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Monalisa185(f): 9:22pm On Mar 30, 2016
schumastic:
you have to so you will see that to woo a girl is not easy n you girls would learn to give credit to guys that do lol
lolzzzzzzz, who tell you sey we no dey appreciate Una? make I go check who I go woo na grin
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Nobody: 9:26pm On Mar 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
lolzzzzzzz, who tell you sey we no dey appreciate Una? make I go check who I go woo na grin
Auntie meee! grin
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Monalisa185(f): 9:43pm On Mar 30, 2016
pinceprinz:
Auntie meee! grin
hehehehe... you are not wooable jortongue
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Nobody: 9:47pm On Mar 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
hehehehe... you are not wooable jortongue
lol. Why?
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by schumastic(m): 9:48pm On Mar 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
lolzzzzzzz, who tell you sey we no dey appreciate Una? make I go check who I go woo na grin
girls n bashing v been together since the days of David n goliath lol...pls do cus am waiting to see what the females v to offer
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Monalisa185(f): 9:53pm On Mar 30, 2016
pinceprinz:
lol. Why?
you are waiting for your baby, Nubian nacheesy
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Nobody: 9:57pm On Mar 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
you are waiting for your baby, Nubian nacheesy
That's also true wink .... Where is my Nubian huh
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Leriebloom(f): 10:03pm On Mar 30, 2016
its only normal for a lady to want to put a face behind the contact she is chatting with. Normaly before i give a reply or afterwards i check the dp of whom m chatting with. If i dont lik wat i see(wizkidboys, guys with piercings), i continue chatting but at the same time, i make it obvious that we would remain chat buddies. If i like what i see, and the person m chatting with is cool to talk to, my replies might be short(because thats how i chat),but would be friendly at the same time.
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Monalisa185(f): 10:07pm On Mar 30, 2016
pinceprinz:
That's also true wink .... Where is my Nubian huh
hehehehe, she dey inside my mouthtongue
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Monalisa185(f): 10:10pm On Mar 30, 2016
schumastic:
girls n bashing v been together since the days of David n goliath lol...pls do cus am waiting to see what the females v to offer
hehehehe, you no go blame us na, na we God create finish, carry mouth give... we go try na, we no go fall handscheesy
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Nobody: 10:11pm On Mar 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
hehehehe, she dey inside my mouthtongue
cheesy Issokay. That your big head , na me go still break am sha... I'm serious oh
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Monalisa185(f): 10:18pm On Mar 30, 2016
pinceprinz:
cheesy Issokay. That your big head , na me go still break am sha... I'm serious oh
huhuhutonguetongue

Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Nobody: 10:23pm On Mar 30, 2016
Monalisa185:
huhuhutonguetongue
Na this thing go handle u for me sha as I no wan commit grin

Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by joey150(op): 10:25pm On Mar 30, 2016
Leriebloom:
its only normal for a lady to want to put a face behind the contact she is chatting with. Normaly before i give a reply or afterwards i check the dp of whom m chatting with. If i dont lik wat i see(wizkidboys, guys with piercings), i continue chatting but at the same time, i make it obvious that we would remain chat buddies. If i like what i see, and the person m chatting with is cool to talk to, my replies might be short(because thats how i chat),but would be friendly at the same time.
Cool...the dp stuff though.. Don't judge a book by its cover oh.
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Leriebloom(f): 11:07pm On Mar 30, 2016
joey150:
Cool...the dp stuff though.. Don't judge a book by its cover oh.
Yea, i know.
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Monalisa185(f): 12:35am On Mar 31, 2016
pinceprinz:
Na this thing go handle u for me sha as I no wan commit grin
tonguetonguetonguetongue
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Nobody: 12:42am On Mar 31, 2016
Interesting stuff going on here...
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by gamaliel121(m): 7:48am On Mar 31, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Sometimes they are not just interested. And not every girl gets tons of messages from guys as you think, some don't and that's why they look for attention everywhere.

Some girls live boring lives and so they don't even know how to flow in conversations.[/color]
You are right man..

Some of these girls don't get tons of messages as we think...mtchewwwww
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by naijaboiy: 7:57am On Mar 31, 2016
Leriebloom:
its only normal for a lady to want to put a face behind the contact she is chatting with. Normaly before i give a reply or afterwards i check the dp of whom m chatting with. If i dont lik wat i see(wizkidboys, guys with piercings), i continue chatting but at the same time, i make it obvious that we would remain chat buddies. If i like what i see, and the person m chatting with is cool to talk to, my replies might be short(because thats how i chat),but would be friendly at the same time.
[color=#1980BC]As long as your replies keeps the conversation going. If not you'll still be like the other boring girls who can't keep a conversation. smiley[/color]
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by naijaboiy: 7:59am On Mar 31, 2016
gamaliel121:
You are right man..

Some of these girls don't get tons of messages as we think...mtchewwwww
[color=#1980BC]Ya bro!

I know girls who hardly get frequent calls or messages from guys and they are quite pretty. It's not every girl that her phone buzzes every minute due to calls & from different guys.

That notion was just put in place to make some guys feel insecure. Not every girl gets the attention and personally I like those type of girls because they can be easily handled.[/color]
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by gamaliel121(m): 8:04am On Mar 31, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Ya bro!

I know girls who hardly get frequent calls or messages from guys and they are quite pretty. It's not every girl that her phone buzzes every minute due to calls & from different guys.

That notion was just put in place to make some guys feel insecure. Not every girl gets the attention and personally I like those type of girls because they can be easily handled.[/color]
You right!!!
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by Leriebloom(f): 11:21am On Mar 31, 2016
naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]As long as your replies keeps the conversation going. If not you'll still be like the other boring girls who can't keep a conversation. smiley[/color]
It all depends on my mood grin if i m in the mood to talk, i can be a clown. If i m not, my replies would be polite and thats all there wld be to it.
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by frakdon(m): 6:18pm On Mar 31, 2016
Monalisa185:
hehehehe, Joe...you are so right.... Buh the bolded, who exactly is it directed to? male or female folks
umu'nwanyi...who else, smiles*
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by frakdon(m): 6:22pm On Mar 31, 2016
joey150:
This thing has been on my mind oh. Girls these days do not respond to polite "hi or hello" again on social media. I know for a fact because i have tried a ""few" times.

And most "good" guys dont hang around too much after you ignore the first polite convo they try to bring up.

Yet, you see ladies becoming victims to social media meet ups gone wrong.just because the "good boy" sounded boring and had just 3 pictures.

I want to know on a personal level,your criteria for replying messages on whatever social platform. Cause am sure the average lady gets a ton of messages.
And let no guy pretend that one fine girl never fall him hand online before o.
Ladies over to you!
modified.
Tthis post isnt about me oh.. I just want to know how different gals select their chat mate online.
You guys can learn a few tricks too grin
the picture part, remind me of some years back, one lady was like, this picture of yours has been here for long, you no go change am..
I delete her from my list..
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by joey150(op): 6:31pm On Mar 31, 2016
frakdon:
the picture part, remind me of some years back, one lady was like, this picture of yours has been here for long, you no go change am..
I delete her from my list..
lol.. Bros you sef change picture na..

Yeah they wanna check you out from all angles to see if your loaded oh.
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by frakdon(m): 7:19pm On Mar 31, 2016
joey150:
lol.. Bros you sef change picture na..

Yeah they wanna check you out from all angles to see if your loaded oh.
abi, so she fit help me offload am, nah...
Well she is(was?) on a long things..

Who pictures don, help?
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by joey150(op): 7:21pm On Mar 31, 2016
frakdon:
abi, so she fit help me offload am, nah...
Well she is(was?) on a long things..

Who pictures don, help?
well but to fit in well in social media you need more pictures..say 4 or 5. Excpet your not really into chatting and meeting people.
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by frakdon(m): 7:30pm On Mar 31, 2016
joey150:
well but to fit in well in social media you need more pictures..say 4 or 5. Excpet your not really into chatting and meeting people.
you are right, I do have some pictures there, yeah, I am not a social kinda person, but when I spared a time for you, I'll do my best..
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by MoneypassGod(m): 8:05pm On Mar 31, 2016
MissGdope:
I always reply to a "hi" or "hello" cos I'm friendly like that smiley

BUT the convo goes sour for me when y'all do the following...

1. Talking about love! like really? undecided
2. If it's whatsapp and I ask how you got my number, just say the truth instead of lies from the pit of hell such as " I just bought a new phone and found the number on it"....seriously? do I look like mumu to you huh
3. "Tell me about yourself". okay I don't know about other people but I find this really awkward and annoying cos why should I start listing random things about myself. Instead, ask more specific questions like "how old are you"
4. Bad spelling. and I dont mean typos oo, neither am I saying you must spell everything perfectly....this is what I'm talking about " u r xo xo pretty. Will wana knw u beta". Once I see something like this, I don't even bother replying

This is just to name a few but I have noticed these things so much that I can now tell when a Nigerian guy is texting me without even checking the number. Not saying they're all the same tho but I can tell grin
Wow! Itx a gud tin i don't like yhu, cox i do nearly all doex tins yhu mensiond.
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by joey150(op): 8:21pm On Mar 31, 2016
MoneypassGod:
Wow! Itx a gud tin i don't like yhu, cox i do nearly all doex tins yhu mensiond.
na people like you they love girls the day dem accept your request abi grin
Re: Ladies, Whats Your Criteria For Responding To Messages from guys on social media by MoneypassGod(m): 8:26pm On Mar 31, 2016
joey150:
na people like you they love girls the day dem accept your request abi grin
Bro how do u mean
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