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Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by tayoccu(m): 8:49am On Apr 01, 2016 |
kola1930: what was her sex drive like before you got married, and before she got pregnant? |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Acidosis(m): 8:49am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Very funny people. Your marriage is less than 18 months, and your wife is already retiring from sex, such that you need to bribe her with money and fancy gifts My brother, tough days lie ahead oo. Some couples are 20 years into their marriages, and still very hot, sexy and ready to get down any moment with their partner. You're in trouble bro 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by komododragons: 8:51am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Joy1706:you don't know anything just let. the only consequences I see here is the woman regretting her sex duties. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by jrerico1(m): 8:51am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Pidggin:that shouldn't be a question |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by omoharry(f): 8:52am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Onegai:Good advise, Well writen. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by PrinceGallant: 8:57am On Apr 01, 2016 |
@OP, How was it before she was pregnant and during the pregnancy? did your wife have a 'tear' when she was giving birth to your child? Hope the midwife has not caught the flesh by the tip of her pussy. You need to understand that women's libido is not the same as men's, most of them do not like sex, hence you need to wake the libido in her. You will need to take at least 30 mins of pre-intimacy before you enter her, otherwise you will not enjoy your sex, she will only let open the "hole" for you without shaking her body. To enjoy it, your wife must be moving, moaning, and massaging you. To do this, you will do that, that means pre-intimacy. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by komododragons: 8:59am On Apr 01, 2016 |
ogawisdom:that's not the case. INTROVERT doesn't socialize outside but can be as a wild as anything inside or the person they know. stupidity is her own case. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by hopara1(m): 9:06am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Acidosis:My dear u can't understand d strength of women.It's not a bribe but a way to get her attention! so as to let her get goose feeling of what u have been passing through.or do u advice him to forcefully do it to her? |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by donodion(m): 9:07am On Apr 01, 2016 |
kola1930: Dear kollington, Your plight is understandable but judging by the time you married and living together as a couple, it would be too early in my opinion to start seeking 'sexual favors' outside your union. Communication: When this break down in any relationship, its a matter of time 'fault finding' would soon rear its ugly head. You need to find a good time when her mood is much at ease and communicate your worries to her. Women are emotional and complex beings, yet they have their moment of been 'the sheep'. Try ask your wife what burdens or displeases her as you are willing to rectify if any. This could be done over a meal or an outing. A lot of married women uses se.x denial as a weapon to pass a non verbal message across to partners when they are diapleased. Remember, we talking about wify here and not floozy. If shes willing and ready, her reasons might help you see perhaps what you were ignorant of.This could be anything..from as little thing of her asking a little a gift which you innocently forgot to perhaps not acknowledging a concern, which you as a man might consider unimportant yet shes holding unto that one little thing. Remember they are emotional beings!!!. However, whatever revelations were made..rational or otherwise, reach an understanding with her over the issues of sexual conjugation.For the.longer you guys are not consumating your God giving right to[b] delicious se.x[/b] the farther apart you will consistently be until its finally over. Bring the spark back into union and if that doesnt work out.. well, you got other options *wink*. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by omoharry(f): 9:16am On Apr 01, 2016 |
tosyne2much:the man gave a good advise....he suggested that he should be more romantic and get her out of the house for her sanity..i hope you know some women fall into depression after child birth?the woman gave birth five month ago..and there will definately be all manner of homonal factors involve.here also...like someone said..did he even ask this woman if she had a tear during child birth and the sore still yet to get healed? (i am sure you wouldn't know becos you are not a woman and you are still a bachelor) I believe the woman also does the 5-9 job...abi? did you ask this man if there is a help in the house that will help her out with the baby? do you know if she does all this by herself and without any asistance from her husband? does the man even asist in any way to aleviate the work load from the woman.both physically and emotionally? he comes to be as a selfish husband who only caters for himself only...for crying out loud what energy will the woman have left to satify her man at this early post-nata stage with all these afore mention factors conbined.communication is key here.let her husband talk this out with her to see the reason behind her action..is not by cheating that will solve the problem..it will even make it worse.. women dont just clam up like that against thier husband..there must be an underlying problem yet to be resolved. women cannot respond well to sex when they are upset with thier husbands. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by fortunechy(m): 9:18am On Apr 01, 2016 |
side chicks full everywia.if she dont satisfy her hubby anoda gal will. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Silsilah: 9:20am On Apr 01, 2016 |
kachi19:Haba! I'm not sure you are OK |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by fortunechy(m): 9:21am On Apr 01, 2016 |
side chicks full everywia.....if she dont satisfy her hubby anoda gal will |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Silsilah: 9:21am On Apr 01, 2016 |
raumdeuter:Who ever liked this trash of a comment is Sick |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by mightyokwy(m): 9:31am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Pidggin:What kind question be that, didn't she see his physical appearance before she got married to her |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by chinnasa: 9:32am On Apr 01, 2016 |
kola1930: @OP These are things you need to know during courtship not after a year. Marriage is about companionship not demand and supply. My advise to you. you are not the first to such problem and you not be the last take to your and take your marital issues away from NL. It private not a public matter. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by adroitvezy(m): 9:38am On Apr 01, 2016 |
pet4ril:spirikoko sister. With you everything is a spiritual battle. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by okezed: 9:52am On Apr 01, 2016 |
halfricanadian:hunters |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Kollyk11(m): 9:55am On Apr 01, 2016 |
@op.are u doing ur financial obligation in the house if not u are expecting to touch a woman now and she respond ..this period of 170/200 per liter.wen everything don turn gold.abeg free that woman make she grt time think jor. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by fejikudz(m): 9:56am On Apr 01, 2016 |
kola1930:Communication is the key.. Sit her down and talk to her abt it |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Sgtkoselupa: 9:59am On Apr 01, 2016 |
I will advise that you have "a crucial discussion" with your wife on this. Let her know exactly that you feel defrauded because she closed shop. From the meeting, draw up and agree on a sex timetable. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by ojuolu(m): 10:00am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Onegai:Please How old is your marriage? I will like to know. Op, what this writer is telling you is the gospel truth. My marriage will be 5 years old in the next two months or thereabout. And i must confess, the number one healthy food of any marriage is communication. You are wasting your time by keeping away from your wife. You gave her a responsibility. She is not even experience to handle what is thrown to her laps- a new life, a new point of attention. You are suppose to communicate with her on this rather than staying away because you think she does not want you again. Have you ever heard of "the emotional bank account"? How often do you made deposits into this account compare to how often you drawn from it? Deposits into emotional bank account has little to do with money. Do you help, compliment, complement, appreciate, and empathize with this woman? Do you bring the Queen in her out? Do you give her the royalty treatment she deserved? Or all you can see is a wife, mother and caregiver, house help and errand girl? Until you see your wife beyond all this and show that understanding and appreciation, you will not get the Kingly treatment you so wish for. I have travelled your road before and i can confirm to you that you are mainly the problem now and not the wife. Your Child is her center of attraction if you observed. Just make her your own centre of attraction and i can assure you to get the required response from her. The writer i quoted above has given useful tips from the woman perceptive, i am only offering you a manly advice. Cheating won't solve anything. Infact, it is the beginning of a journey through a road you rather not take, not this early. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by BluStreak(m): 10:05am On Apr 01, 2016 |
brandnew3: To fulfil the married woman ish - just that o! Annoying sha. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by dilini(m): 10:07am On Apr 01, 2016 |
raumdeuter: I think your mendulla oblongata need some reseting. I bet that's what you will do when you've encounterd such... Get a life bro! |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by okezed: 10:13am On Apr 01, 2016 |
deen11:Take her to the moon to get what rightfully belong to you. Woman you better blend up before these yahoo yahoo girls corner your husband |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by Nobody: 10:13am On Apr 01, 2016 |
BluStreak: My brother no be small thing o! Especially the no sex before marriage girls... It's such a deal breaker for me. The last one who told me that had it coming. I just asked her if she'd be cool if we're in a relationship but I'd have sex with other girls. Ofcourse, no one's gonna have an arguement over that cuz going celibate is personal choice. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by tosyne2much(m): 10:33am On Apr 01, 2016 |
omoharry:Nice one 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by mummydirect(f): 10:34am On Apr 01, 2016 |
naijathings:To be honest with you here, I don't know how the woman is doing it, but sincerely speaking, no sane woman will be comfortable not making love to her man for a whole good one month!!!! no no no, something is wrong somewhere. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by mummydirect(f): 10:37am On Apr 01, 2016 |
Onegai:You made a lot of sense. |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by tosyne2much(m): 10:41am On Apr 01, 2016 |
DeadWrong:Bwhahahaha lmao |
Re: My Wife Feels Little Or No Urge For Intimacy... Please Advice by naijathings(m): 10:52am On Apr 01, 2016 |
mummydirect: Yes it is possible that there is something wrong. But what if the guy is not physically attractive just as some other females here were asking the OP. is the lack of physical attraction enough to make a woman lose sexual appetite or not want to DO IT with her husband for one month or more ? |
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